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Post Reply Have you ever had to deal with younger folks getting a crush on you?
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26 / M / Tampa, FL
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Posted 9/18/17
Yea
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26 / M / The Void
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Posted 9/18/17
Temporarily. It was during high school, and I was gone before it ever became a problem/mattered.
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37 / M / UK
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Posted 9/18/17
I have no idea but I doubt it. I'm not very much in the looks department so I doubt I even register for those who get superficial crushes. I then rarely spend time interacting with people outside work so am unlikely to attract anyone looking for something deeper.

On the other hand it may turn out that I am the same as those anime rom-com protagonists and there is a string of people trying to get my attention but I never notice.
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49 / M / New England, USA
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Posted 9/18/17
Yes, but I've also had crushes on older women so all is well and good .
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26 / M / Way North
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Posted 9/19/17
Deal with, like it's a problem? How much younger are we talking here?
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Posted 9/19/17
Nope but had to deal with older guys at the grocery store creepy ones.
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Posted 9/19/17
Since I look about 7 years younger than I am, yes on a regular basis. It will be faltering once said people are old enough to drive and have their own place.

However older people double or triple your age being attracted to you is just as bad, if not worse. The look on their faces when they realize I'm of legal age makes me want to gag.
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M / Australia
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Posted 9/19/17
Yes, in my mid to late teens and early twenties i seemed to only attract younger girls. Sometimes they were very young.
Found myself in some awkward situations.
Thinking back now i wish my conscience didn't prevent me from going for it more. Felt like i cock blocked myself and that was the times where you could get away with it and it was actually more normal and common that you think but i guess my conscience and fear of consequences often got in the way.
But yeah thinking back i have some regrets lol. Not when they were mega young or age gap was too big but yeah..

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40 / M / NJ
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Posted 9/19/17
Yeah, everyone wants a piece of this.
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Posted 9/19/17
Yes that was awkward.
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31 / M / Modesto, CA
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Posted 9/19/17
Used to happen. I'd just brush them off. I don't need to worry because I'm fat now. lol
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27 / F / In the corner wat...
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Posted 9/19/17
I actually had something like this happen to me recently.

On my discord server, someone I only know online, who lives on the other side of the planet.. about 8 years my junior confessed feelings for me. it was very awkward. I didn't want to hurt his feelings, so I tried to let him down gently. He went all emo in the channel.

He's still on my channel, I don't know if he's still crushing on me, but now I have a male 12 years my senior crushing on me (someone I met in RL and is in my discord)

I'm not even looking for a boyfriend, and this happens..
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19 / F / 小鳥遊事務所
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Posted 9/19/17 , edited 9/19/17
The fact that someone would ever have a crush on me is laughable.
But I'm pretty sure I've put someone in that situation before.
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Posted 9/19/17
I work in Information Technology for a college, and I get hit on by younger people quite a bit. I am 27, but I look like I am 18 or 19. I have been asked by a younger student while I was installing new computers in a computer lab, "How do I look so young without wearing makeup?"

Honestly, it is nice that I get complimented on looking young; however, I just kindly state my age and thanks them for the compliment.
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Posted 9/19/17
they'll grow out of it, if not, market on it once they turn 18. otherwise, start out simple, tell them it's not going to happen, and if it gets creepy stalking like, then avoid them. online is much easier in this department.
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