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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 10/6/17
So I met this girl at the Japanese dining area, she is working as a waiter. Met her three times so far, she is pretty cute. She knows I am going after her. I left earlier today without asking if she has a boyfriend. Should I ask her if she has a boyfriend next time? And should I confess to her afterward? Or should I just wait?


P.S This is in person, Fred can play it casual, but Fred hasn't done this confession thing for 10 years. If Fred succeeds it will be a mark in history.

P.S https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TwFGE1oipc This is Fred's actual image right now. This is what everyone thinks of Fred and what Fred thinks of himself.

P.S If this doesn't work out, maybe I'll go for white girls
Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17
Women suck anyway, I hope you fail so I feel better about myself.

Sorry I didn't mean it.

ok maybe just a little bit.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 10/18/17

fredreload wrote:

So I met this girl at the Japanese dining area, she is working as a waiter. Met her three times so far, she is pretty cute. She knows I am going after her. I left earlier today without asking if she has a boyfriend. Should I ask her if she has a boyfriend next time? And should I confess to her afterward? Or should I just wait?


P.S This is in person, Fred can play it casual, but Fred hasn't done this confession thing for 10 years. If Fred succeeds it will be a mark in history.

P.S https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TwFGE1oipc This is Fred's actual image right now. This is what everyone thinks of Fred and what Fred thinks of himself.

P.S If this doesn't work out, maybe I'll go for white girls


if you go for white girls bring pumpkin spice
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

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Women suck anyway, I hope you fail so I feel better about myself.

Sorry I didn't mean it.

ok maybe just a little bit.


Fred's failed many many times, it's like Stein's Gate times 2 my friend
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17
You will not a have a chance to the Japanese girl. Just go for the white girl. If I'm wrong then you win.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 10/6/17
Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17
Just ask her out and if she says no it's not the end of the world. Don't miss out on an opportunity by being shy and don't drag it out and make it more awkward then I'm sure it already is.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

XxxEmpressxxX wrote:

You will not a have a chance to the Japanese girl. Just go for the white girl. If I'm wrong then you win.


I don't disagree with you but what makes you think this
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17
Just ask her casually. Don't seem romantically interested when you ask, just make it seem like you are curious about her life. Bitches love that shit. Before you confess you want to hang out with her because who knows what she's like when she's not working. Be careful and good luck.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 10/6/17

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Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.




I'm not saying you can't make something happen, but it's likely she might not be interested. If she's not, not only have you made it weird for her while she's cornered at work, but potentially weird for yourself if you go back. If you're really attracted to her and feel like risking it, you could always tell her she's cute and ask her out for coffee. If she turns you down, just shrug it off, apologize, and move on.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:

Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.




I'm not saying you can't make something happen, but it's likely she might not be interested. If she's not, not only have you made it weird for her while she's cornered at work, but potentially weird for yourself if you go back. If you're really attracted to her and feel like risking it, you could always tell her she's cute and ask her out for coffee. If she turns you down, just shrug it off, apologize, and move on.


If she declines you can never go back to that place again.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

SteelAmericano wrote:


HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:

Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.




I'm not saying you can't make something happen, but it's likely she might not be interested. If she's not, not only have you made it weird for her while she's cornered at work, but potentially weird for yourself if you go back. If you're really attracted to her and feel like risking it, you could always tell her she's cute and ask her out for coffee. If she turns you down, just shrug it off, apologize, and move on.


If she declines you can never go back to that place again.


You could if you kept it casual and play it off. If you get emotional about it, then I agree; you can never go back.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:


HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:

Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.




I'm not saying you can't make something happen, but it's likely she might not be interested. If she's not, not only have you made it weird for her while she's cornered at work, but potentially weird for yourself if you go back. If you're really attracted to her and feel like risking it, you could always tell her she's cute and ask her out for coffee. If she turns you down, just shrug it off, apologize, and move on.


If she declines you can never go back to that place again.


You could if you kept it casual and play it off. If you get emotional about it, then I agree; you can never go back.


Personally I wouldn't risk a good eatery if I like to go there often.
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Posted 9/27/17 , edited 9/27/17

SteelAmericano wrote:


HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:


HideyoshiJP wrote:


SteelAmericano wrote:

Is she waiting tables and you met her as a customer or do you work together? Because if she works there and you're a customer there's a possibility that she's being nice because she's getting paid to be nice.




I'm not saying you can't make something happen, but it's likely she might not be interested. If she's not, not only have you made it weird for her while she's cornered at work, but potentially weird for yourself if you go back. If you're really attracted to her and feel like risking it, you could always tell her she's cute and ask her out for coffee. If she turns you down, just shrug it off, apologize, and move on.


If she declines you can never go back to that place again.


You could if you kept it casual and play it off. If you get emotional about it, then I agree; you can never go back.


Personally I wouldn't risk a good eatery if I like to go there often.


100% agree
Posted 9/27/17 , edited 10/6/17
Do people really ask strangers out (or confess) only meeting them 3 times?!
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