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It's life. Get over it.



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That always bugged the hell out of me too! I know many stupid girls who insist on waltzing around half naked, spending half the day applying make up, and flirt with older guys. Then get absolutely shocked when they get attention. What do they expect? If they are putting that image, they will definitely get the wrong attention from the wrong guys! I ask why, they say they are "just naturally feminine and flirtatious," as if that justifies anything. May be girls are thinking looks are everything, or something along those lines. May be it's media's fault, I do not know.
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Damn this is some intense stuff @_@.... I guess from my stand point it's just a animal thing that some species have females seducing to make males compete and then pick the one that in their opinion is the best to mate with, whether it be for physical characteristics or just whoever would give the offspring the best chance of survival? Well... on the other hand...speaking in terms of how the human mind works and socially....I don't know...people are weird o.o; .... I want to explain my opinion fully but I just can't figure out how to put my view to words x_x. And excuse me if it seems I don't understand the topic thoroughly D:



......just noticed this thread is from like 4 years ago O.O;
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Girls do want guys to look at their breasts. But guys they think are hot.
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KleinerSkollexxx wrote:

That always bugged the hell out of me too! I know many stupid girls who insist on waltzing around half naked, spending half the day applying make up, and flirt with older guys. Then get absolutely shocked when they get attention. What do they expect? If they are putting that image, they will definitely get the wrong attention from the wrong guys! I ask why, they say they are "just naturally feminine and flirtatious," as if that justifies anything. May be girls are thinking looks are everything, or something along those lines. May be it's media's fault, I do not know.



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Posted 1/7/11
Society is trashy now. No one cares for modesty or any values for that matter. Everyone should marry young and do things properly. Yes I am religious and have values. Blame me. But no~~ they wanna do whatever they like. Then let them. Let them all deal with the consequences. Fantastic show. *Rolls eyes*

I didn't directly address the topic. Oh well.

Peace.
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Ok here is my beef or 2 cents. What pisses me off is that a male teacher will have sex with a 16 to 17 year old student and then get put in jail immediately. A woman teacher has sex with a male student and gets a slap on the wrist? WTF. I have seen in some cases the same female teacher gets away with it 3 or 4 times. where as a male cant do it once? Now Im not condoning underage sex but i do not agree with the imbalance of the system. I have seen a couple who were 16 or 17 both consenting of sex. The parents of the girl cry rape and the male gets jail and on the sex offenders registry. The two are now married with kids but he can never get off the registry.
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mauddib1226 wrote:

Ok here is my beef or 2 cents. What pisses me off is that a male teacher will have sex with a 16 to 17 year old student and then get put in jail immediately. A woman teacher has sex with a male student and gets a slap on the wrist? WTF. I have seen in some cases the same female teacher gets away with it 3 or 4 times. where as a male cant do it once? Now Im not condoning underage sex but i do not agree with the imbalance of the system. I have seen a couple who were 16 or 17 both consenting of sex. The parents of the girl cry rape and the male gets jail and on the sex offenders registry. The two are now married with kids but he can never get off the registry.


Consider moving to where your likes & dislikes are implemented/complimented by the rules in place.
16 year olds get to marry in some european countries.
I've seen women teachers get fired for flirting or dressing inappropriately or even for NOT sleeping with some people.
The world is as it is.
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That is also true. I suppose we live in a fallen world and there i no true justice.
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Hormones, society, western culture. it all in its own way tilts towards the female. there are definitely situations where that is not true (take for women in office for example or women pay compared to male). but that doesn't justify things in my opinion.

Women culturally and historically are seen as Home makers, Wives, baby makers, etc. and given that fact. success in the mind of most people isn't necessarily making money, or even having a great job and life(alone), but is about being able to combine those aspects of life with the ability to make a functioning family, Acquire a wife, have a child, and start a family, etc. this is the basics of human thought that contributes to this vision of what success truly is. Which is also why people who fail to have relations by a Certain Age etc. are seen as failures (Uncool, lame, stupid)

Women, who are in most cases seen as the key to this perpetuation of the human species, and are regarded as a form of sexual deity. Men must acquire them, and in order to do this, you MUST: Kiss as much ass as possible, be as cool as possible, and flex your peen as best you can. All in order to attract a female. given these circumstances, the odds are horribly stacked against the lone male. Other males will shun you, in an attempt to 1up you so to speak(Some will even physically attack you), and females will erect a gauntlet of Hell in order to keep "undeserving" males away from their vagina. (Note: i say undeserving, but the primitive actions to determine who is deserving have long been unnecessary. As an intelligent species we should have the mind to be weary of when we are doing something fucked up and stupid to someone for no real reason)

Let's not forget that in this society men are seen as the calculating, intelligent(enough) type, that uses not only the strength of their mind, but of their body to acquire what they must. where as women use the strength of their emotions, to dictate their actions. Which leads to this "temptress" scenario. When a man does something, men are not lead by emotion, they have thought this out, and have executed their plans through their wicked schemes. A women on the other hand, when she feel's something it MUST be DIRECT REFLECTION of something YOU as a MAN or her SITUATION has caused her to feel therefore she is not in complete CONTROL of her actions.

All these factors combined has engrained themselves not only in the minds of other men, but in the minds of women to. leading to them to believe that as far as other members of the opposite sex are concerned they have the right to decide how you feel and how you should be treated. infact, it isn't just about other members of the opposite sex. Females(and males) do it to each other as well. if one female is not as attractive as the other, the ugly duckling generally gets treated like shit. its the way of the world.

I personally think its all Bullshit, Women are not just bags of emotion, they are just as cold, and calculating as any other human on this planet. Sure they are physically weaker(Some could turn my ass inside out), but they make up for it in complete lack of responsibility(SOMEONE will help them in the long run, whether they deserve it or not, So why should they bother to take responsibility) and the Bullshit they feed people in order to make themselves feel good(like i said, the excuse of emotional instability is engraved into our dna). Men do it to. but in this society women are raised to believe that this is the way to do things, Being a "BITCH" is their god given right (IVE ACTUALLY HAD A WOMAN TELL ME THAT).

P.S. if you think this is me bashing on women, you're right. But don't get me wrong, everyone is an individual. And some women out there are truly freaking awesome, and many (most ) men are just fucking horrible as well. no one is perfect, but we need to sort out this horrible imbalance in our culture, and the solution starts AT HOME.
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Posted 1/8/11
Nah, the girls you're talking about are just trying to buy drinks with their tits-- guys really need to realize this
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Nah, the girls you're talking about are just trying to buy drinks with their tits-- guys really need to realize this


So true.
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Posted 1/8/11
Girls who "tempt" and act as if they're anything but happy when you stare at them are all full of shit. (maaybe I shouldn't say all of them)
They've dressed like that either to catch someones attention or because the weather is too hot. That's all there's too it.
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Posted 1/11/11
Ah youth -- still unable to distinguish between sex, love, and lust.

If you cook a delicious meal for yourself and your family, you don't expect the neighbor to crash the party and eat it all. Girls often want to be noticed because being noticed is an esteem and confidence-builder. The inexperience of youth often causes confusion about the extent to which this should be taken.
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