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Meh. I'd either say get used to it, or leave.
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nemoskull wrote:
if she is an adult then she can talk or work through her problems without throwing a hissy fit cus you didnt get the hint.



If only things were that simple lol

Not really a girlfriend thing, but it feels like a majority of women around my age can't handle talking about problems (I know there's plenty who can handle it, but still, it seems really common lately), so they act like 12 year olds and get mad, never want to bring it up/avoid it forever and if you try to talk about it to work through it, then somehow you made it worse, so then nothing ever gets solved... -_-

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DrunkKanti wrote:
I don't think he's in a relationship. I'm almost positive this is a hypothetical question.


Well if we are talking hypothetically... ask her to be more verbally and physically abusive to you when she isnt angry. That way eventually you will become desensitized to it and it wont bother. On a side note you might even enjoy it based on some of the popular relationships in some of these anime(Senjogahara-sama is waifu!!!)



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Chloroform.


Is that one of those "Let's not turn this rape iinto a murder" situations? Not sure your advice is going to help.. legally or otherwise. Is that advise from a hikikomori?
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DevinKuska wrote:




Its_My_Style wrote:

Chloroform.


Is that one of those "Let's not turn this rape iinto a murder" situations? Not sure your advice is going to help.. legally or otherwise. Is that advise from a hikikomori?


It's pressing the easy button.

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Its_My_Style wrote:

It's pressing the easy button.



ahh then I shall assist you in your endeavors!!!

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fredreload wrote:

Guys, how do you deal with a girlfriend having a really bad temper = =? Either that or I am not familiar with the girlfriend concept


The last sentence explains everything
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BB-8 wrote:


fredreload wrote:

Guys, how do you deal with a girlfriend having a really bad temper = =? Either that or I am not familiar with the girlfriend concept


The last sentence explains everything


lol she said it... wow... I didnt have the nerve to say it as I thought it was something that shouldn't be said even if it was true. Can I add you to my friend list? LMAO
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Posted 9/30/17
Dump her
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I have a reaaally bad temper when I'm stressed. What my boyfriend does is stay quiet until I've calmed down. Then talks to me as if nothing happened. I usually tell him what's bothering me after that. We've recently celebrated our 5th year anniversary so I guess it's a pretty good method lol
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XxxEmpressxxX wrote:

Is this the Japanese your talking about Fred?
First, I have a question.I honestly didn't see any bad temper in your post. So, what are the bad temper?

Second, why you ask in CR about what to do about your goddam relationshipS.?
Third, If I am your girlfriend I would drop you coz you make me appear like a real bitch in CR community

Fourth, this is my sincerest advise. Please get off CR and fix your goddam relationship.

I think I was out of the line. But I just woke up hungry and I saw your relationship problems. Now Im having a bad morning.



I don't think he's in a relationship. I'm almost positive this is a hypothetical question.


Damnnn poor Fred's loneliness is so vast and expansive that the internet can feel it across our glass screens.

Smh Fred...

Smh
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I'll just dump her. Seeing that she's just a girlfriend and not my soulmate that it's quite an easy decision to make and move onto someone else I can stand (or nobody at all as I'm perfectly content not to have one). Now, if she's the tsundere type, then it's another matter entirely, but other than that there's just no reasonable explanation for me to have to put up with her. So yeah, I realize that she ain't for me if she has that temper as with the right man, her temper can be conquered. I'm just not the man that can do that.
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Call a Priest she may been possessed by Demon! j/k lol. We all know Fred probably Demon himself..problem is he is too nice!
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Move on. Find another gf, this time with a gentler, kinder personality (unless you outright deserve that form of behaviour / reaction or it's a negativity fetish that subliminally turns you on).
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When I am in a bad mood I need to cool down. But once i've cooled down I am too ashamed of admitting I was crossing a line or just being an complete ass. So I keep my distance hoping my partner will show up and hug me - which he never did. lmao.
I think a lot of girls does this. They get angry and then too ashamed of admitting it afterwards so they keep their distance.

I would say: Let her cool down. When you think she is calm. Just approach quietly and hug her. Eventually she'll talk things out or you can just talk as if nothing happened to loosen up the tension. Don't mention the fact that she was mad tho.
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