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Is it ok to screw your bestfriend?
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Posted 12/1/06
Ok so here's the thing:

At school I had a friend telling us a stupid story which goes like this: there were two friends, best friends, and they were really close. During the graduation, they sort of got too horny and told each other. So, they skipped the ceremony and all of that junk and rented a motel. They screwed each other all night and yeah they liked it. Since then, they acted like nothing happened and stayed as friends. Neither had asked the other to go out or take things to the next level.

Stupid who cares anyway.

So me and my friends debated and argued whether it's ok to screw your best friend or not.

I think its ok but i want some second opinion....
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Posted 12/1/06
What do you mean by "OK?"

Also, are both males, or females, or one of each, or otherwise?
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Posted 12/1/06
male and female obviously
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Posted 12/1/06
the old 'it happened to a friend' line, eh reakia? its okay to fuck your female friend, you can still talk about best friend stuff after the 69 or doggystyle, although you can't really look her in the eye anymore.
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Posted 12/1/06
lol thats not it though..both agreed to it..nd they are still ok...but will u do it to a stranger/someone ur not close with or to ur bestfriend...
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Posted 12/1/06
if they can manage to ignore what happened or at least discount that experience, and continue on as friends, it's not really worth dwelling on it that much.
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Posted 12/1/06
thats what im arguing about but they say that its just wrong doing it with ur bestfriend cuz its like using each other for sex...i dunno
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Posted 12/1/06
I've had close female friends before... and it really depends on the individuals in question. Sometimes its not an issue, other time it is.

I slept with one female friend once and it was never an issue after that. Business as usual except we had got it out of our system. I liked her as a friend, but I didn't want to go out with her, but there was certainly a mutual attraction. It worked out just fine.

With another friend, it destroyed our relationship. She was an extremely close friend, and one night, after very high heavy drinking, things went too far. She was already engaged to someone else, so this pretty much destroyed our relationship. She was a tad mentally unstable so that didn't help either.
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Posted 12/1/06
This conversation has no point. If no one was hurt and they're still friends, what's the down side?

The only people that would say it's wrong, is people that don't believe in sex before marriage or meaningless sex.
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Posted 12/1/06

azrael910 wrote:

I've had close female friends before... and it really depends on the individuals in question. Sometimes its not an issue, other time it is.

I slept with one female friend once and it was never an issue after that. Business as usual except we had got it out of our system. I liked her as a friend, but I didn't want to go out with her, but there was certainly a mutual attraction. It worked out just fine.

With another friend, it destroyed our relationship. She was an extremely close friend, and one night, after very high heavy drinking, things went too far. She was already engaged to someone else, so this pretty much destroyed our relationship. She was a tad mentally unstable so that didn't help either.


woah...sounds unbelievable
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Posted 12/1/06
my man azarael is a playa
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Posted 12/1/06
All the males responded quite fast on this one
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Posted 12/1/06
hmmm what about a females point of view...im sort of curious
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Posted 12/1/06
i don't really know if its ok, coz if you really rescpect someone as your bestfriend, in my point of view, you wouldn't do it even if its okay with him or her
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It's not. My ex-best friend won't even talk to me anymore.
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