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LIMITS for honesty between couples ?!!!
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Posted 3/28/08
uhm.... kay?
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Well honesty is the foundation of a true relationship between a couple without it you're better off not being with that person, Im sure everybody knows that . Between my boyfriend and me, we can basically talk about about anything without feeling afraid or embarassed. I can admit that no matter the great amount of trust I have with my boyfriend, there are times I feel nervous or anxious when I want to ask him something in regards to a serious and deep situation we are facing. He is better at expressing his emotions better than I am.

However people need to understand that there is a difference between PRIVACY and SECRECY. (Everyone is entitled to his or her privacy!) Example: Just because I dont inform my boyfriend about a conflict that occured between my family does not mean I do not trust him. I wouldnt have a problem telling him about it but I prefer to keep it within the family. I just wouldn't want him to hound me down for information and go all "OMG IM UR BOYFRIEND YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO TELL ME EVERYTHINGGGG1111oneoneee!! " I really hate it when people try to use the gf/bf label to get what they want....very annoying.
Just like if I were to ask him about something and he told me he couldnt talk about it and wasnt ready. Then I will back off and respect his privacy and wait till he is open to tell me whatever is bothering him.

When it comes down to secrecy, I believe that if one party (or even both) of the relationship is withholding information that can affect the relationship in whatever way then it should be discussed (example:cheating, lying, doubt, concerns for the future, etc). There is no use keeping such things buried in the dark corners of your mind, such things will be brought to light sooner or later.

Hope you all sorta understood what i just said up there ....sorta rambled a bit

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Well I really don't know but I have a feeling that couples should be able to asked anything but ofcourse the other side to decide the degree of of their answers.

So I just follow his rules :

1- he never pick up my mobile even when I'm shouting "Will u get that!!"
2- he never asked who was it? (the caller if it was male/female)
3- He never asked about my obsessions over Jpop & idols.
4- he never ask my account balance.

So I guess those are his limits too.
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Posted 5/11/08
uhm... unlimited...
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