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Posted 2/24/08
Hi!

My parents have been recently fighting a lot lately, and i'm getting really scared that they might get divoreced right now. My father even made my mom cry a few times this past month. I think my parents aregetting frustrated over the fact that in a week and a half we're moving to a new house then all of a sudden i hear my mom on the phone calling from her work and sounding like she was crying and told me

"Hurry up and pack, or else you'll be left alone"

I'm really getting scared and depressed my brother even started crying for the first time in like 5 years.

How am i suppose to feel? Is feeling sad and crying okay when it's like this?

I'm about to cry any momment now so please don't say and rude or nasty comments right now...

Posted 2/24/08
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/Personal-Advice.html
plus divorce is duplicate too..

Don't worry.. all parents are like this.. they wont divorce..
just don't think about it..
Don't cry... why did he yell at her.?
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Posted 2/24/08
hmmm :s i think your parent maybe fustrated at moving houses.
However if it gets really bad, tell them to consider yours and your brothers feelings but in the end it is really their choice.
Sure it's ok to cry but don't let the whole issue consume you, if your parents end up getting a divorce, then support them and, as hard as it may be, move on and try to live with it.
Posted 2/24/08
Aww sweetie. :[
Divorce isn't always a bad thing I mean think of it this way, your parents will fight less and yeah. My parents fight a lot and my dad has threatened to leave quite a few times but he never has. Kinda makes me wonder but what ever. It's fine to cry, let it all out. :]
Feel better!
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Posted 2/24/08
thanx but i still feel like i need to here more advice from other CR users here
Posted 2/24/08

angelwingsgirl wrote:

thanx but i still feel like i need to here more advice from other CR users here


pros----when it comes to recieving presents you get twice as more. parents try harder to compete for you. when the other parent says no you can say that the other one said yes. you can use them as an excuse such as "i left my homework in my dad's house and i'll be getting it back tomorrow"

Cons----you have to keep switching places to go see the other parent. you will feel like your family sucks. you could forget things from their house and never come back for like a week. sometimes dealing with 2 families can be way to stressfull on you.
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Posted 2/24/08
If it's really that bad, they might divorce but they'll probably work something out. (: I was scared whenever my parents fought when I was a child so I guess it's normal for everyone that feel that way.
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Well id rather have parents like that then mine who seem to be two people that happen to be sharing the same house and happen to share the same bed... i havent seen any affection between them in years.

Also think about it this way... Do you think that two people that dont love each other could fight as bad as your parents? I think that a lot of fights are because people love each other.
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Posted 2/24/08
mi too. when u are small its kindda scare but it help u mature and oso try to be strong whatever happen. have some gd frenz to talk about so that u wont go think of negative stuffs and do sth u not suppose to.
Posted 2/24/08
Do this----> "Mommy, Daddy please stop fighting(make sure to have a sad face on) give them a big hug holding one in each arm. Then you guys should look a little something like this...
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Posted 2/24/08
yes its ok to cry. your soul is like a clean blank sheet of paper and it gets little scribbles when you have bad feelings like this. crying is like an eraser. it cleans the soul. so have a good cry, just pick the right place because sometimes if parents see thier kids crying about divorce they tend to get angry.( no clue why )

i know you didnt ask, but personally i think they should try harder. and depending on the situation you might too. my parents where terrible together but i still wanted them together. but it all depends on how much they can understand each other and how willing they are to stay together.
Posted 2/24/08

penguinboss wrote:

Do this----> "Mommy, Daddy please stop fighting(make sure to have a sad face on) give them a big hug holding one in each arm. Then you guys should look a little something like this...


wut if your mom is a crack junkie and your dad is an alcholic and your sister is pregnant and your brother is lke those silent psychotic people? will it look like that?
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Posted 2/24/08

penguinboss wrote:

Do this----> "Mommy, Daddy please stop fighting(make sure to have a sad face on) give them a big hug holding one in each arm. Then you guys should look a little something like this...


XD dont think thatll work O.o my litle brother has tried they said ok den they fighted O>o so i dont think thatll work XD my parents are already divorced
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Posted 2/24/08
Yeah that's what happened to me and they did divorce. Oh well...at least it's more quiet now.
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Posted 2/24/08
aw it's okay!
i know what that's like
my parents used to fight a lot when me & my sister went to bed
but i think it was a good thing they divorced.
my dad used to hit me & my sister
he hasn'e done that in 6 years.

i dont think your parents will divorce :]
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