What?! I don't agree with what you said. A test to see if your bi/gay or not? I don't think so. That. is. wrong. How on earth do you test that?

That's the problem. My ex is bi and he left me for a guy. That's why i don't want him around him.

Ahhhh. See. This changes things. You should talk to your current boyfriend and ask him and tell him it's because you're worried and confused.

I know i have ask him but i am afraid of the answer he is gonna gave me. I don't wannabe dump for a guy again. I guess it's my fault for going for super pretty boy Asians.

LOL. Don't blame yourself. It's not yourself at all. These things just happen. I dated a guy I liked for like months...and then later on when we were on one of our dates, he looked at me from across the dinner table and said, "Yup. I am totally gay." I was like, "What?" And he said that he went on a date with me because he wanted to see if he would be turned on by a "hot" girl. If not, he would then know he was gay. -____-'

i like this guy but i have a feeling he doesnt know i exist, like he does but he could care less

Well, what do you want to do about it? Do you want to just keep your feelings for him hidden or express them to him?

I need help my work!!!! someone come here and do some of it for me!!!!!!

Only if you pay me

Move on. At best you can come to terms with your feelings, but expressing them won't get him to like you. Unless he's a bitch who wants emotional comfort. If you're okay with that...

How much do you like him?
You can try to talk to one of your friends who is a friend of his too. And ask them what he thinks of you.
Or you can try asking him in a indirect way. (try to figure out how).
However, you must be prepared for the worst.

For the record i am not gay, emo angsty or anything like that, i just have a decision to make and i really have to think about a lot of different factors. Im not looking for sarcasm or sad crazies, i just want advice that wont end up with the giver telling the person i asked about. So naturally here is perfect.

One of my best friends, a girl, who i have known and cared about for years told me she loves me, I was in love with her, before and i think i still am, but we live on the two farthest possible points away from each other in our country. And She has a baby, she made a mistake a year ago, i helped her as best i could but, im still kind of afraid of that kind of responsibility. I dont know if i can handle it I have no real prospects at the moment, my country is in a massive recession, i just started college and have no way of getting any kind of real job. And I have a lot of baggage i dont want her to have to deal with, I went through some bad stuff physically, i was in a few car accidents and a fall, so im not able to look after her if anything happens, She is an amazing person she has had a really rough life up to now and im terrified of hurting her or making her situation worse. If anyone could tell me seriously their opinion, particularly women, i would be grateful.

think think think first before you act..

As far as your physical discapibilities go, I'm sure she won't mind them. In fact if i were her i'd be thrilled if anyone, especially one of my best friends would try to take care of me especially if i had a baby. i think you'll have to think it out and make the decision of whether or not you want to be with her though. Do you still love her for sure? This is a big commitment here if you pull out afterward ... bloody hell.

(All just my opinion, my advice is never solid.)

Ok I need serious help....

I had these 2 friends three(or two lol) years ago....For their privacy i wont name them but call them "A" and "B". A and B were friends ever since nursery primary school. they had so much in common! Sat next to each other in every lesson stuff like that. Ok , so I come along one day and randomly we start talking about anime And we all become friends. Throughout the whole of that year we were all special friends and i really believed this was the first three way friendship that actually worked for me. Ok, so the start of the next year arrives , and i see A and B kind of parting? "A" really wanted to be my friend, and we got along well, but B was one of my favourite friends, we did all sorts of stuff together ! "A" was also in my form group, so we were close from then. In year 8, A got in a fight with me and B ,, it was because she felt left out (and becasue "B" is a really quiet person) I started to talk and sort the problem out, but A came up with a conclusion that "B" didn't want to be her friend.....then little things like this kept on happening more frequently, once or twice every 5 months, then three times every 2 months, and then nearly every week. A always had fights with me over all sorts of things! Just because I said I didn't really like her favourite celebrity, she got in a mood ...She always had arugements, she is quite a jealous and possessives person... At the end, A and B weren't friends, and my other (five or six) friends were mostly with A , not because they didn't like B (they talked to her but not very often) it was because A is a loud and funny person. At the end of this year lol, me and B had kind of parted, we didn't talk at all and "B" had a new friend called "C" lol....I didn't like C , she was mean, OTT, and always wanted 2 be in centre of attention. And when me , B and A all parted she decided she wanted 2 be invovled in this, so she would be centre of attention and she broke up with B, for no reason ((yes i asked her and she said, "just") At the start of this year..I wanted to spend more time with B, because I didn't want to end our friendship (how stupid of me just 2 have noticed yh i know and i blame myself a lot) because C had left her and she was lonely. I didn't want to end my friendship with A, I only wanted to talk to B more aswell...But...I guess A wasn't happy with my choice, and didn't talk to me (still not talking, we avoid each other on all costs) Now,...Just when I am used to not talking to loads of people (all my five/six frends like A better.. they say hello to me but its not the same ) WELL!! Now C, broke up with her group of friends and out of the blue says sorry to B, and because shes such a nice person she forgived her. C is really getting friendly with B, i don't mind it but she shoves me away a lot...and me and B are like best friends now..
WAT DO I DO!!!!!!!! I'm sorry this is so long but i have left out so many important parts -.-'' soz