I don't know if this is a problem or an unattainable desire, but I am dating this guy... I like the affection of our relationship but his conversation puts me to sleep. I was married at 20 and widowed at 29, in crunchyroll years that makes me ancient, anyway so my hubby has been gone 4 years and this is the first guy I have actually allowed into my world since my hubby passed away. He's nice don't get me wrong, but bores my socks off. When I try to break off the relationship by bringing up the "friend" word, I'll be a monkey's uncle if he doesn't start kissing on me and I forget my motive. My Sis thinks I should keep him around, b/c he's nice and I can work with boring, but I want more. Am I being greedy for wanting a man that can actually keep me awake with stimulating convo as well as with satisfying affection or should I do as my Sis says and keep him around and work on improving his dull and lullaby conversation? I mean I love to laugh and I try not to take myself too seriously, maybe that makes me immature but can't I have a serious relationship that's fun and enjoyable instead of hot on the lips and cold on the brain?

How long have you been with him? It's understandable you want more outta your relationship, maybe sit down and tlk to the guy state why he bores you when he strikes up a convo. I would do like your sister says for a while and if then it doesnt change move on hun. Good luck what ever you decide to do hun x x

Thanks, I will give the advice a try... because I do not want to intentionally hurt his feelings. He is a nice guy just not very interesting in the conversation department. Even though we have been going out for 5 and half months, I am growing tired of finding ways to stay tuned when he talks, but maybe I am being to hard on him. So I'll try