Hmmm, that took longer to process than it should have.

What is a good way to persuade my father into not letting me go to China for a month?



hahah!

WTF, arent you banned!!! You can edit posts?
Edit: Well at least this exposed another forum flaw. Banned people can edit posts.

But that doesn't actually mean a ban, coz he can come back any time ><!
Should've just been temp banned for 3 days as he stated

( i luv the "Banned!" text above the picture )

It is a temp ban. Everyone with any type of ban has that branded above their name.

so, banning can be played?

^He asked me to ban him, to help him. He thanked me in an email.

I'm sorry lets get back on topic. Well i guess banning him was part of the topic .. but we're straying!

I have a problem(errr whatever)
Can you help me with this?

a logain, logain, if she still cant see what a gentle, caring boy you are by now, sh'e justt not the girl for you! find someone else.



ok, here is my real problem (sorry if i'm double posting)

my older sister who i used to able to rant to when i was upste has gone of to a faraway land called "japan" until next august. my 2 best friends are always fighting or bi****** about someone or or something. friend 1 has severe emotional problems. she is extremely anti-social, stubborn and opininated. best friend b is a whiny crybaby who is extremely popular and smart and usualy pretty much ignors me when we are in school. neither are friends i can givbe up, because dispite everything, i lovew them dearly, but i cant really talk to either of them anymore. i have a lot of other friends that a fun to hang out with, bnut i cant really talk to them about what bothering me. my ex-boyfriend (whom i dumped because i was amarrassed about how affectinate he was in public), whom i still haven gotten over, evern though its been 2 years sice we broke up, is now dating a new friend of mine i pariculy like. i have no other male friend i am even mildly attracted to. i do not express my emotions very well (hardly at all, actualy) so none of my friends or family know how lonely i feel.

what do i do?

ps-yes, this is my actual problem. sorry its so long, i tryed to summarize it.

i am aware of that, but this thread is for personal advice, and whether other people have it worse than me is not the point. the point is that i personaly need advice .
well, you have your one post on the deppression page, i have my one post on the personal advice page. you will have to take my word for it that i have far to much pride to talk about this sort of thing anywhere but online. not to mention that just because in the grand scheme of things this is entirely unimportant, does tha mean that i shouldjust ignore it even longer? its really staring to wear me down!

see; my above comment.



hmmm.... i thought i had more points than that... is is possible to lose points?

It was hard for me to even find what your problem was.

But seriously, this doesnt sound like much of a problem. I sense that you, like 95% of all other people your age, are placing to much importance on dating. In the end he is just a guy who's not right for you. Both of you will go through many changes in the upcoming years and will drift away from each other. So basically, you need to learn to be able to emotionally separate yourself from some people.

Nigima ease up a bit, she's still young. Not a pair of old bumpkins like us.

i know that it seems like i am just being a whiner (and like i said before, i relise that these things really arent important) but how would you feel if there was no one in the world you feel you can talk to?
by the way, if you knew me you would know i never complain like this in the real world.
ps- i already knew what "minute" means, as well as how to pronounce it.

gosh Xrn! Stop bashing the girl.

ok... thanks! ^^,
i will try to do some of that, although as for drop kicking friend B, that is a no-no, because when we are hanging out in a non-school setting she is still the same sweetheart who has been like a sister to me since pre-school. but anyway, thank you for your advice. i'm goin' to bed now.
g'night! ^^