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Posted 10/22/07

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darkmagiciangirl911 wrote:

I always pick the jerks to date. I'm not slut or anything... but I never seem to attract the right kind of guy...one was just weird and my other boyfriend cheated on me...Any advice?

They aren't even "bad boy" types the guy that cheated on my was a phony that acted nice but turned out to be a jerk...
Try to go out with a guy who are sensitive and caring. Don't go out with the "bad boy type" it will lead to nowhere.


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darkmagiciangirl911 wrote:

I always pick the jerks to date. I'm not slut or anything... but I never seem to attract the right kind of guy...one was just weird and my other boyfriend cheated on me...Any advice?



The only thing I can think of to solve this would be....to not date someone until you learn somethings about him/her. ask your friends and see if they know him. Just ask around. If nobody you know knows him, you might want not want to go out with him unless you feel you abolutely have to. XD but then again, what do I know?
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hmm even thou this is for whiny grls i have somw problemas of my own ehh so
I like this girl and according to her friend when we talked alone i was too good for her....
Also she said that she sorta thought of me as a brother. T_T
is there any chance to get out of the brotherly zone??
and Why do you girls think some guys are too good for you.

Anyone think that if a girl thinks shes too good for you in a way she deserves you even more cuz she doesnt wanna go out with you to use you or not be a good enough match??

And is this just a excuse for girls

seems to happen to me too much like many grls think im too good for them
thanx for any help
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brother zone problem.
1. create distance (its kinda like starting all over again)
2. be romantic (cross over brother boundaries into potential boyfriend)

guys > girls
1. girls are extremes. we think too highly of ourselves (don't date us) or we think too lowly of ourselves because we think we'll drag you down or make you sad a lot.
2. to counter this, reassure her that she is a great person (give her examples) and tell her of some of yer bad qualities, and just tell her she's even greater than you

guys > girls as an excuse
1. sometimes its an excuse
2. Others she really believs in it.
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Posted 10/22/07
this is totally pointless...never give out advice...wise men don't need them and fools don't take them.
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Posted 10/22/07

chinasticpowers wrote:

hmm even thou this is for whiny grls i have somw problemas of my own ehh so
I like this girl and according to her friend when we talked alone i was too good for her....
Also she said that she sorta thought of me as a brother. T_T
is there any chance to get out of the brotherly zone??
and Why do you girls think some guys are too good for you.

Anyone think that if a girl thinks shes too good for you in a way she deserves you even more cuz she doesnt wanna go out with you to use you or not be a good enough match??

And is this just a excuse for girls

seems to happen to me too much like many grls think im too good for them
thanx for any help


hmm....ok, when people say you're too good for them, THATS BIG LIE!!! Its just to make you feel better saying that you're a good person but they're probably just not interested. but anyways, about that girl, to get out of the brotherly zone, you just got to express more love I guess and maybe you should just tell her that you like her. If she doesn't see you more than a brother, then just enjoy being friends with her. Who says you have to be together to be happy? XD but then again what do I know?
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haha thanx but wait u mean its a lie if she says it any one cuz she nvr say anything to me just her friend
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haha sorry I didnt quite understand what you said there. Anyways, I think her friend is just trying say that you don't shouldn't be to disappointed with the end result because she thinks you'll be ok without her.
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on the negative side, girls will tell their friends what they want to say but are to afraid of being mean to go and tell you.
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I dont think thats negatvie at all. I think it just shows that they worry about your feelings.=D
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neways what i said was that so girl i like never really say anything
our friend told me that she didnt really like me and that i was too good for her
so i dunno ahhhh so confusing lol but as far as im concerned i wanna push outta the brotherly figure zone but dont wanna like overdo it and have her hate me for life @_@
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Posted 10/24/07

jorenz6 wrote:


HitZZ wrote:


Hineji12 wrote:

The solution to your problem, find another guy. The same rule for straight people apply for uhh "gay" (sorry if that offended you, didn't mean it) people..There are many fish in the sea. If you messed up one, you can throw it back in, and try to hook another. Life isn't about 1 person. By the time he comes back, you prob won't even like him anymore.

Move on if you must, or wait if you can't do anything else.




^^ da advice above, sux so dont listen 2 him lmao "There are many fish in the sea. If you messed up one, you can throw it back in, and try to hook another" u referring us to a "FISH" ahaha funny (im a shark).

ahahahah kids

dis is my advice!

Talk to the guy's friends, ask their email, if they hav myspace, facebook, or etc, add dem too, ders a chance dat da guy u lookin 4 is der =D or jus ask da guy's friend for his msn =D or messenger!


ahahah dats a stalker advice FYI im not! =D im jus clever


thank u tht really helped!!!=3
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Im gangstaa


Hahaaa.. Can't really help you there. You can quit move away that about all. Just make the right decision.
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Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.
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