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alright thanks for the help,really.
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to make my story short,

i have this friend and she went on my fb account i know it was her, but she said it wasn't her.
so i'm blanking her and she knows im blanking her and she keeps asking me why im blanking her..
what do i do:|
Posted 2/22/11 , edited 2/22/11

HinataX wrote:

to make my story short,

i have this friend and she went on my fb account i know it was her, but she said it wasn't her.
so i'm blanking her and she knows im blanking her and she keeps asking me why im blanking her..
what do i do:|



To make absolutely sure it wasn't her or sum hacker, u should try changing ur password... Make sure no one knows about ur password (not even God ) n check ur comp. if it has any keyloggers or such (do this b4 u change ur password)... Now unless ur friend is a hacker she will not be able to access to ur fb account, and if u still feel tht ur account is being used then it's most likely a random hacker


Btw wat did she do in ur fb tht made u know for sure it was her doing? Well either way it depends on the lvl of wat she did to ur fb.. if it's small then forgive her, it's not worth it to get angry.. but if it's major like be-friending random ppl without ur consent then continue to "blank" her.. if she keeps saying why u r "blanking" her then tell her tht u demand her to tell the truth about going into ur account, n if she confess she did, then u will at least have sum closure, n in time u'll forgive.. Now if she continues to says she didn't then i guess u have to take her word on it .. Becuz since she was able to get in ur fb account, i'm guessing she knows ur password....n if she knows ur fb password then i'm guessing tht u and her are pretty close, so therefore even though u don't believe in her word, just believe in the bond u two have (if any)

This situation will teach one thing:

1.) Thou shall not give passwords to family,friend, or strangers unless thou accept any kind of misjustice they may bring forth






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Posted 2/22/11 , edited 2/22/11
I've fallen for someone. except he still has strong feelings for his ex, who has gotten over him.
he knows that i liked him but i told him i've moved on (which i havent) since i still want to be friends.
but everytime i do talk to him i end up feeling like crap, not because he mistreats me, hes actually very nice. but because im crazy about someone whos crazy about someone else but that someone isnt crazy about him back. make sense?

what should i do?
hes a very kind person, he rlly is. hes not willing to let the fact that i like him ruin our friendship. but i honestly feel like crap. i feel pathetic. yet im still hoping for the best..
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Posted 2/23/11

TheModernDayZombie wrote:


HinataX wrote:

to make my story short,

i have this friend and she went on my fb account i know it was her, but she said it wasn't her.
so i'm blanking her and she knows im blanking her and she keeps asking me why im blanking her..
what do i do:|



To make absolutely sure it wasn't her or sum hacker, u should try changing ur password... Make sure no one knows about ur password (not even God ) n check ur comp. if it has any keyloggers or such (do this b4 u change ur password)... Now unless ur friend is a hacker she will not be able to access to ur fb account, and if u still feel tht ur account is being used then it's most likely a random hacker


Btw wat did she do in ur fb tht made u know for sure it was her doing? Well either way it depends on the lvl of wat she did to ur fb.. if it's small then forgive her, it's not worth it to get angry.. but if it's major like be-friending random ppl without ur consent then continue to "blank" her.. if she keeps saying why u r "blanking" her then tell her tht u demand her to tell the truth about going into ur account, n if she confess she did, then u will at least have sum closure, n in time u'll forgive.. Now if she continues to says she didn't then i guess u have to take her word on it .. Becuz since she was able to get in ur fb account, i'm guessing she knows ur password....n if she knows ur fb password then i'm guessing tht u and her are pretty close, so therefore even though u don't believe in her word, just believe in the bond u two have (if any)

This situation will teach one thing:

1.) Thou shall not give passwords to family,friend, or strangers unless thou accept any kind of misjustice they may bring forth








hahaha true and thanks;D
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Posted 2/23/11

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I've fallen for someone. except he still has strong feelings for his ex, who has gotten over him.
he knows that i liked him but i told him i've moved on (which i havent) since i still want to be friends.
but everytime i do talk to him i end up feeling like crap, not because he mistreats me, hes actually very nice. but because im crazy about someone whos crazy about someone else but that someone isnt crazy about him back. make sense?

what should i do?
hes a very kind person, he rlly is. hes not willing to let the fact that i like him ruin our friendship. but i honestly feel like crap. i feel pathetic. yet im still hoping for the best..


Never settle for being second place to anyone! Even if you two did get together what difference would it make if shes still on his mind? That to me sounds like it wouldn't be very fair to you since you're the one putting yourself out there like that. I know its kind of harsh saying this but you need to choose to either be just a friend or if you cant do that then just move on and continue your search elsewhere. There are plenty of people out there to choose from and im sure if you keep it up you'll find the right one for you. But yeah... its not fun being in the middle like that.

I just recently had a girl come to me telling me how much she wanted me so I went along with it and eventually liked her as well. Worst decision I've ever made lmao she was a nightmare to deal with... I've never come across anyone as immature and stupid as her. Literally. Stupid. So what did I do? I moved on. She wants to still be friends and thats cool but its not like im going to go out of my way to keep in touch with her anymore.
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I liek cheese.
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Posted 2/26/11

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I liek cheese.


Not sure that's a problem there chief.
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Posted 2/26/11

WaredoDyrge wrote:


treesswanepoel wrote:

I liek cheese.


Not sure that's a problem there chief.


Cheese lieks you.
Posted 2/28/11 , edited 2/28/11
I went clubbing for the first time with a buddy last Saturday and things got really crazy. I'll shorten it by saying it was prolly like 1:30 AM, my friend was dancing somewhere else, and I made out with this really cute guy who came up to me. I wasn't drunk or high but my mind wasn't there. Anyway, I gave the guy my number and we talked last night for a while. He's really cool. He told me a lot about himself and didn't bring up what happened once throughout the whole conversation. Not saying I wanna go out with him or no shit like that. I'm just saying, he's a pretty interesting guy. Like when I brought it up he was just like, "I got kinda carried away." We didn't talk about it at all after that.

I have a list of "problems" because of this. I guess my number one issue atm is the fact that I can't decide whether or not I should continue talking to him. The friend I went with said she dated 2 guys from a club before and told me stuff always ends bad with them because all they want is sex. He did try to get more than a kiss that night and I pushed him off. Didn't phase me much cuz that's what most guys do. Maybe I'm just making excuses for him but I think I'd like to get to know him a lil better. What are the odds that he does actually wanna know me? He did ask me a lot of questions about who I was in general when we talked.

I'm not gonna fuck him regardless. It would save me a lot of time to know what he's about first, if possible.

Wow..my other problems seem irrelevant now. Okay yea can someone help please?



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Posted 3/2/11 , edited 3/2/11
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You have nothing to lose by talking to him and trying to get to know him better. Yeah, there's a chance he might turn out to be a huge douchebag. But then again he might also make a great boyfriend one day. How will you find out? By continuing to get to know him. Good luck!

P.S
I knew a bunch of couples that met at clubs. Not the best place to meet a person, but a meeting point non the less.
Posted 3/3/11

Kippu wrote:

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You have nothing to lose by talking to him and trying to get to know him better. Yeah, there's a chance he might turn out to be a huge douchebag. But then again he might also make a great boyfriend one day. How will you find out? By continuing to get to know him. Good luck!

P.S
I knew a bunch of couples that met at clubs. Not the best place to meet a person, but a meeting point non the less.


Thanks. I decided I'd give him a week from the day he called to contact me again before I officially decide to let it go. I don't think I'll be doing this again XD Much appreciated
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Posted 3/5/11

HinataX wrote:

to make my story short,

i have this friend and she went on my fb account i know it was her, but she said it wasn't her.
so i'm blanking her and she knows im blanking her and she keeps asking me why im blanking her..
what do i do:|



I concur with what ModernDayZombie has stated, it's hard to tell if your friend is doing it without absolute proof or her admitting it. You should also always make sure you have different passwords for most if not all of your accounts as you don't want them getting into any of your other stuff as well =/

This being said there is a little bit of a way to find out if someone other than you may be accessing your account. Under My Account > Settings there is a section called, "Account settings" which once you expand will show you recent account activity of the location and the OS of whoever has been accessing your account. You can also tick a function to alert you whenever a new computer/device accesses your facebook.

Of course this won't work if they are using your computer or school computers and what not. I just thought it worth a mention. =)



WaredoDyrge wrote:


treesswanepoel wrote:

I liek cheese.


Not sure that's a problem there chief.

Unless you're lactose intolerant =,(

Cheese is still godly though.
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how should i overcome my obsessionover anime...??
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how should i overcome my obsessionover anime...??


Well, I'll assume this is a serious question...
I'll share with you what I did.

Kay, so you might think of quitting cold turkey. This is unhealthy, but works for some people. (Cold Turkey means to get rid of everything related to what you're quitting and completely disconnect yourself. eg. If I smoked, then quitting cold turkey would be like throwing out every single pack I had, my lighters, and maybe even stop going to the convenience stores D:)

Now something more natural and healthy would be taking up something else, make sure it's positive though! (A sport, Cooking, Photography, an instrument, or maybe even a job etc.) Eventually you will have fun with this other than anime anime anime.
A real life example of this would be me
I used to be OBSESSED with anime. 3 episodes in the morning 5 when I got home from school and 5 at night. And on the weekends, minimum of 15 episodes per day. MINIMUM!
Eventually I acknowledged my problem and cut down an episode a day. Then I started watching Food Network, and that sort of inspired me to start seriously cooking. And now, I am a pretty good cook, and looking into culinary school. But I'm not obsessed with cooking, and I still watch anime!
So in short, keep things balanced and in moderation :D

Good Luck!~
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