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Posted 12/7/07
If your dad doesn't already know he's hurting your feelings you should let him know, also never hate anyone, it's just not good, if you wanna know why buddy me. And lastly keep in mind u choose his nursing home ( if he even desrves one)
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mel_09 wrote:

Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.


How you view it is most important. In one perspective, your dad may have been bottling all this up, releasing it could help your family in the end. A person should say what he want, holding it inside you will make you blow eventually.

Just leave him alone for a while, and let him talk when he wants to. Thats what i do for my dad. My dad gets mad at the smallest things, so i just think of it as " Go get your bottle from someone who cares, so you can stop crying". LoL. Men usually get mad only for a while. So my best advice is wait it out. Hoped that helped.

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Posted 12/7/07

kristin586 wrote:

If your dad doesn't already know he's hurting your feelings you should let him know, also never hate anyone, it's just not good, if you wanna know why buddy me. And lastly keep in mind u choose his nursing home ( if he even desrves one)


but he should know better things than that.
"wished i was dead"
wow! that's great.
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Posted 12/7/07

HitZZ wrote:


mel_09 wrote:

Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.


How you view it is most important. In one perspective, your dad may have been bottling all this up, releasing it could help your family in the end. A person should say what he want, holding it inside you will make you blow eventually.

Just leave him alone for a while, and let him talk when he wants to. Thats what i do for my dad. My dad gets mad at the smallest things, so i just think of it as " Go get your bottle from someone who cares, so you can stop crying". LoL. Men usually get mad only for a while. So my best advice is wait it out. Hoped that helped.




well thanks for that. hopefully it will help.
i tried ignoring him but his words are stuck in my head...
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Posted 12/7/07

logain wrote:

Here is my problem, see there is this girl who i like but she wont sleep with me. I tried everything from brute force to force. I stalked her all year long and even killed her old boy-friend so she could have a clear mind. But still she just does not want anything to do with me Is it just because I dont understand women or am I missing something .


she won't sleep with you because YOU HAVE ISSUES AND YOU'RE CREEPY

I hope to god you were just joking
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Posted 12/7/07

mel_09 wrote:

Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.


Maybe you should tell him how you feel, and not in an angry way. I think you should approach him with care cause he seems very short-tempered. Explain how much it hurts you for to hear him say "I hate you". Truly, if he is your father, he will at least understand you and realize at some point that he was wrong.

Also, with all the stress your going through in home, maybe you should find an activity to do outside of home to calm yourself. Obviously, don't turn to drugs, and don't start stuffing yourself with food. But maybe a movie with your friends, or go exercising. A diary wouldn't hurt :D
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Hello Yeah... I have a personal problem... There's this girl I had a crush on since 9th grade. I'm in 11th, ashamed to say... Um we've been in the same class since 9th grade, but never have we been able to act like friends... it's more like just classmates Well, there were a few times where we were like friends, but it didn't last very long... She never says hi to me like she used to and she only comes up to me if she needs something, often a peice of gum or pencil... A few weeks ago, I told her if we were friends or classmates and with an akward reaction she said we're friends... I believed her then, but nowadays, I feel like she didn't mean it... In one way, I think she's like me; afraid of being yourself around that person. On the other hand, it might be one of those horrible truths in life... She's a nice person with a rightous attitude and looks forward into doing the right thing, well most of the times (she sometimes plays around with her friends or has a side-conversation with them cause she's bored). What I want to know is what should I do? Give up and wait 'till college? Or... try and do something about our friendship? If yea wanna ask something, go ahead...
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Posted 12/7/07

HitZZ wrote:


mel_09 wrote:

Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.


How you view it is most important. In one perspective, your dad may have been bottling all this up, releasing it could help your family in the end. A person should say what he want, holding it inside you will make you blow eventually.

Just leave him alone for a while, and let him talk when he wants to. Thats what i do for my dad. My dad gets mad at the smallest things, so i just think of it as " Go get your bottle from someone who cares, so you can stop crying". LoL. Men usually get mad only for a while. So my best advice is wait it out. Hoped that helped.



It's not the sex of the person it's the personality, some people keep grudges till who knows how long.
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Posted 12/7/07
whine whine whine...

to the kid who likes a girl, harden up stand for yourself and ask her out! pish... its almost the holidays so she should be in the mood..

~i dont need to quote your msge its too long the thread page is already filled.
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Posted 12/7/07

Hineji12 wrote:

I became someones best friend within 4 days at a fishing tournament and now i wont see him for 5 months until April and i was too embarassed to tell him goodbye so i just waved and i really miss him and i dont have his email address or phone number....can you help? me i cry every night because i miss him and my parents don't know that i like guys so i can't ask them....and ive known him for a long time and he likes me too



you can probably find him on facebook, or you can try finding the webpage or email of whoever hosted the fishing tournament. I'm sure they'll be glad to help you out because they'll have a roster of all the people who attended, so if you know his first name, they'll be able to find his contact or facebook for you.
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soon_doo_bu wrote:


mel_09 wrote:

Has your dad told you how much he hates you and wishes that you were just dead and has he said it to your face?!
Do/Would you hate your dad because he said it?

I do hate my father cuz he said many hurtful words to me and he said it would probably be better if i was just dead. he said that he never treated me like i was his own daughter. he started cursing me cuz i answered his question in an angry way. well what can i do if im not in a good mood. he keeps asking so many questions and so i got irritated.
btw, he even said that i was just adopted!
which hurted me the most!
but even if i was adopted. i'll be really happy.


Maybe you should tell him how you feel, and not in an angry way. I think you should approach him with care cause he seems very short-tempered. Explain how much it hurts you for to hear him say "I hate you". Truly, if he is your father, he will at least understand you and realize at some point that he was wrong.

Also, with all the stress your going through in home, maybe you should find an activity to do outside of home to calm yourself. Obviously, don't turn to drugs, and don't start stuffing yourself with food. But maybe a movie with your friends, or go exercising. A diary wouldn't hurt :D


it doesn't matter whether i tell the him or the whole world!
he's not gonna listen anyways.
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Great... I'd figured I have to do something. I just don't know how a girl thinks. I never went out like that before... I think it's too troublesome. Maybe a slower way might work Xmas isn't for awhile y'know...
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Posted 12/8/07
not that interesting.
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Posted 12/17/07
nice...a topic that help others
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Posted 12/17/07
theres this one girl I like, but theres like 7 other guys (no exageration) chasing after her. I really want to go out with her so I want to ask her out to the winter formal dance, but I can't drive yet (the dance starts at 9pm), yet if I don't ask her out to the dance, at least ONE of those 7 guys would ask her out. what should i do
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