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theres this one girl I like, but theres like 7 other guys (no exageration) chasing after her. I really want to go out with her so I want to ask her out to the winter formal dance, but I can't drive yet (the dance starts at 9pm), yet if I don't ask her out to the dance, at least ONE of those 7 guys would ask her out. what should i do


Your only 15, just ask for a ride from parents, or an older friend. Im sure this girl wont mind!
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krnsoldierofGod wrote:

theres this one girl I like, but theres like 7 other guys (no exageration) chasing after her. I really want to go out with her so I want to ask her out to the winter formal dance, but I can't drive yet (the dance starts at 9pm), yet if I don't ask her out to the dance, at least ONE of those 7 guys would ask her out. what should i do


GIVE IT UP! popular girls are hard to win! but if you wanne get rejected be my guest
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okk people heres an awesome advice...
its better not to care than to care....
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^that doesn't sound right nor make sense to me oh well
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^that doesn't sound right nor make sense to me oh well


hahhaha it doesnt make sense to me too but just as what you said oh well//...hahahhaha.....
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^ ahhh i see you were messing with me..*slap your wrist* BAD!

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ConRong wrote:

^ ahhh i see you were messing with me..*slap your wrist* BAD!



haah funny........ouch.....ur making me cry..haha joke...
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^its okay it a light slap
Posted 12/17/07

krnsoldierofGod wrote:

theres this one girl I like, but theres like 7 other guys (no exageration) chasing after her. I really want to go out with her so I want to ask her out to the winter formal dance, but I can't drive yet (the dance starts at 9pm), yet if I don't ask her out to the dance, at least ONE of those 7 guys would ask her out. what should i do


Hopefully none of these seven guys are your friends. It's a crass but simple saying, but I stick to it: Bro's before Ho's. Girls come and go, but your bonehead, butt-ugly friends will be around for a while. Letting a girl get between friends is a crappy way to have things end.

But what makes this girl throw you and evidently everyone else through a loop? How well do you know her? If I remember properly, school dances really sucked and are in no way worth freaking out about. And if you and this girl are really close, things'll work out. I asked my first girlfriend out while I was covered in toilet paper, and she totally said yes. One goofy dance isn't going to make a big dent in the big picture, and even if it falls through, she'll remember that you asked her regardless. And if you find out she is going with one of the other seven dwarves, It's cheesy but ask her to save you a dance.
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hmm i get the feeling this girl is really flirty or she wouldnt have that many guys after her. I have had a bad experience with that type of girl.

But anyways go for it you can maybe ask for an elder sibling or cousin to take you guys so you wont feel as uncomfortable.
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^....share us your stories
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lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.
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lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.


Um, well I don't know if your looking for advice or anything but I think you should dump your stupid, idiotic, lying girlfriend. [Assuming you haven't done so already of course lol] Your friends...well I think they somehow meant well and maybe didn't want to hurt you or something. Until of course, I read reread and they were "just talking" = "gossiping" = "dissing you behind your back" They aren't your real friends if their like that.

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lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.


life isnt easy, no one ever said it was. BUT its high school, tramps roam the range like cattle. whatever who cares, im 22 successful and outta all my "friends" from high school im only close with 6. and thats it. basically what im trying to say here is anything unless extremely tragic happens while your in high school, or any kinda school it doesnt matter, kuz once your out you'll never see there faces again.
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Posted 12/18/07
i was just sharing my story. Friends are people who should have your back not keep things behind your back. They made a clear chose in friendship when they choose to keep something like this from me. I cut all connections to those people i once called friends. The girl as well. Even though i never have felts the same feelings for any girl yet.
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