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Chr1sten wrote: At work I have been debating on putting in for a promotion, I worked for this company 6 years, which is longer than 85% of the people who have a higher position me. I keep getting asked why I havn't promoted up yet, the truth is I'm not confident in my leadership abilities. Right now it's very hard to deal with some of the people I work with, I think one of them is bi-polar. Some people are just plain annoying, it takes every once of my strength to have patience with them. You can't make people listen to you, if you threaten people they may listen to you, but then they won't trust you. I just don't know how people deal with a leadership roll. With the boss they have now, they don't listen to her either, they just do whatever they want to do. Can a follower ever become a good leader? What makes a good leader? One of the important characteristics of a leader is taking initiative. Everyone doubts themself, some self doubt is useful to keep you grounded and in check but always doubting yourself is a foolish way to live. Plunge yourself into the deep end. What do you have to loose? You will gain leadership abilities once you put yourself in position where you have to lead. If your colleagues do not follow your current boss and she does not care or know then she is a terrible leader. In a leadership role it is important to achieve results, you may have to drive everyone hard and they will hate you for it. But a boss is a boss. |
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figureskateforever wrote: Here's my issue... I go to a Catholic Private All-Girls school (I've gone to private school my whole life). I have no ways to meet guys other than dances where we invite guys from other private schools, and needless to say they aren't the best guys at dances. AND I haven't met any there. I am not the prettiest and am definitely not the smallest. I hate not being able to meet guys or have guy friends. I (sadly) don't think I even know how to talk to guys. I am 16 never been kissed (other than preschool and 3rd but those weren't "REAL"). I'm just wondering how all of you meet guys outside of school. It would be great to be able to have guy friends rather than all my girl friends. Thanks <3 Ciara Oh god please don't turn into one of those desperate girls that invites some 30 year old guy to be her date for her formal. There is plenty of time in life for socializing with boys, they are just like you. Many of them are insecure and many of them don't know how to talk to girls. Just concentrate on being confident with how you look and the way you are. Just relax, you are 16, enjoy life and be happy. And whatever you do, don't get a tattoo. I had my first gf in college and I was 23 at the time, it was extremely awkward but everything worked. We have been together for 2 years now. I used to quite socially awkward but now I have lots of female friends and my life is all the better for it, I never pushed the issue. |
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Good luck if you're in the friend zone
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◕‿◕You are so ugly, but your face is so pretty.◕‿◕
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Get your finger out of there, nasty
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just to get some reactions :x
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Hi i really want to be able to go back to south africa where i come from, in order to do this i have entered a competition,
i need advice on how i can get my video out to as many people as possible so they can vote for me, i really want a chance to go back to the place i was born in, help please? :3 thank you xxx Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide please vote for me to gain this amazing opportunity, they will send me back home to south Africa where i will be given the chance to truly explore the country i come from, here is the link: http://4coloursgapaway.co.uk/entry/entry-by-gabriela-terblanche-2/ , thank you guys *fighting* |
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< pull a duck face :3
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Guys i need some personal advice it would be great if u have some answers....bout convincing my father to go to egypt to see my boyfriend
I will be 21 this year, i will be a senior in college and i would like to visit my boyfriend overseas in Egypt. He is planning to stay over there till the summer (he is there now) and he invited me to visit him and his family. We have been together for 3 years he is 26yrs old. I'm not going to get into detail but my parents don't really fancy him much.(for reasons that aren't valid ) They are overly protective. Its not a money issue i can afford it, but i know this will be hard because i will travel by myself for the first time especially since its overseas. Im Greek/Persian. My boyfriend wants me to stay as a guest in his home with his parents of course and after that we will go places and take a tour around. I would like to convince my father but i dont know how. I really do want to go and i know im responsible i never smoked once, or drank with friends,(boyfriend is the same we dont take interest in it) Oh and i never been to a club with friends Im not interested in those things im always back home at 12am latest was 1am. But im still daddy's little girl. Egypt is an Islamic country and if i want to get a hotel room it just has to be me only females and it cant be an Egyptian man unless we are married and show proof ...so this can put at ease with my father if he thinks things will happen. (Which is ridiculous because ive been with him for so long if we wanted to do something we can do it anytime we are together) My mom will defiantly say No right away my father is more lenient . He tells me all the time that i should go and enjoy my age and life , and this is something i really want to do... I want to make great memories and have a fun summer for once in my life. how can go about it? Also as a family we might go to Iran (for first time) since my father is from there if we do i want to say if i can stop by for a week or so in Egypt. I don't want my dad to say there is to much trouble in Egypt with the government right now because its the same for Iran. I know im old enough to travel but im afraid they might hold my passport ! that's how overly protective they are!! it was a huge struggle for me to even have a boyfriend its unbelievable |
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Completed a total of 348 anime shows :)
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gabsgobygab wrote: Hi i really want to be able to go back to south africa where i come from, in order to do this i have entered a competition, i need advice on how i can get my video out to as many people as possible so they can vote for me, i really want a chance to go back to the place i was born in, help please? :3 thank you xxx Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide please vote for me to gain this amazing opportunity, they will send me back home to south Africa where i will be given the chance to truly explore the country i come from, here is the link: http://4coloursgapaway.co.uk/entry/entry-by-gabriela-terblanche-2/ , thank you guys *fighting* voted for u!! |
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Completed a total of 348 anime shows :)
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yoshi3782 wrote: gabsgobygab wrote: Hi i really want to be able to go back to south africa where i come from, in order to do this i have entered a competition, i need advice on how i can get my video out to as many people as possible so they can vote for me, i really want a chance to go back to the place i was born in, help please? :3 thank you xxx Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide please vote for me to gain this amazing opportunity, they will send me back home to south Africa where i will be given the chance to truly explore the country i come from, here is the link: http://4coloursgapaway.co.uk/entry/entry-by-gabriela-terblanche-2/ , thank you guys *fighting* voted for u!! Thank you ~ i really hope i can get to go home ~ xxx |
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< pull a duck face :3
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gabsgobygab wrote: yoshi3782 wrote: gabsgobygab wrote: Hi i really want to be able to go back to south africa where i come from, in order to do this i have entered a competition, i need advice on how i can get my video out to as many people as possible so they can vote for me, i really want a chance to go back to the place i was born in, help please? :3 thank you xxx Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide please vote for me to gain this amazing opportunity, they will send me back home to south Africa where i will be given the chance to truly explore the country i come from, here is the link: http://4coloursgapaway.co.uk/entry/entry-by-gabriela-terblanche-2/ , thank you guys *fighting* voted for u!! Thank you ~ i really hope i can get to go home ~ xxx No problem! |
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Completed a total of 348 anime shows :)
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Why can our basketball team not advance past state final four and why can no one on our sports team keep up with my training regimen
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party at honolulu!!!
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FIGHT ME IRL
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unhip wrote: Why can our basketball team not advance past state final four and why can no one on our sports team keep up with my training regimen Maybe your team doesn't have enough drive, or skill? I think those are the 2 most important things when it comes to winning anyway. I don't care for sports much.Good luck in the future. ^_^ |
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Since it's clear that what you had of brain mass went to muscles: http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/so-hardcore |
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Prostrate is damaged.
Ejaculation and urination are both painfull. Help? |
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