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ConRong
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Posted 12/17/07
^ ahhh i see you were messing with me..*slap your wrist* BAD!
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Posted 12/17/07

ConRong wrote:

^ ahhh i see you were messing with me..*slap your wrist* BAD!



haah funny........ouch.....ur making me cry..haha joke...
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Posted 12/17/07
^its okay it a light slap
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krnsoldierofGod wrote:

theres this one girl I like, but theres like 7 other guys (no exageration) chasing after her. I really want to go out with her so I want to ask her out to the winter formal dance, but I can't drive yet (the dance starts at 9pm), yet if I don't ask her out to the dance, at least ONE of those 7 guys would ask her out. what should i do


Hopefully none of these seven guys are your friends. It's a crass but simple saying, but I stick to it: Bro's before Ho's. Girls come and go, but your bonehead, butt-ugly friends will be around for a while. Letting a girl get between friends is a crappy way to have things end.

But what makes this girl throw you and evidently everyone else through a loop? How well do you know her? If I remember properly, school dances really sucked and are in no way worth freaking out about. And if you and this girl are really close, things'll work out. I asked my first girlfriend out while I was covered in toilet paper, and she totally said yes. One goofy dance isn't going to make a big dent in the big picture, and even if it falls through, she'll remember that you asked her regardless. And if you find out she is going with one of the other seven dwarves, It's cheesy but ask her to save you a dance.
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Posted 12/17/07
hmm i get the feeling this girl is really flirty or she wouldnt have that many guys after her. I have had a bad experience with that type of girl.

But anyways go for it you can maybe ask for an elder sibling or cousin to take you guys so you wont feel as uncomfortable.
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Posted 12/17/07
^....share us your stories
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nightschaduw
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Posted 12/18/07
lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.
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Posted 12/18/07

nightschaduw wrote:

lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.


Um, well I don't know if your looking for advice or anything but I think you should dump your stupid, idiotic, lying girlfriend. [Assuming you haven't done so already of course lol] Your friends...well I think they somehow meant well and maybe didn't want to hurt you or something. Until of course, I read reread and they were "just talking" = "gossiping" = "dissing you behind your back" They aren't your real friends if their like that.

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Posted 12/18/07

nightschaduw wrote:

lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.


life isnt easy, no one ever said it was. BUT its high school, tramps roam the range like cattle. whatever who cares, im 22 successful and outta all my "friends" from high school im only close with 6. and thats it. basically what im trying to say here is anything unless extremely tragic happens while your in high school, or any kinda school it doesnt matter, kuz once your out you'll never see there faces again.
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Posted 12/18/07
i was just sharing my story. Friends are people who should have your back not keep things behind your back. They made a clear chose in friendship when they choose to keep something like this from me. I cut all connections to those people i once called friends. The girl as well. Even though i never have felts the same feelings for any girl yet.
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Posted 12/18/07
I think teen relationships are a gamble. it all depends on how much your willing to risk. For me i may be nervous about asking a girl out but when im about to walk away i bite my lip and force myself to talk to her.

Im not good at advice but heres my thought.

Youve liked this guy for six years. if you keep telling yourself to bide time when is it going to be the right time? sooner or later you have to confront him about it.

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Posted 12/18/07
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the "someone", do you know if that "Someone" could maybe be you? Ok, advice from a wimp like me isn't that good so you could ignore this if you like, if I were you, I'd get to know him more. Talk to him more. Flirt with him maybe. If your brave, do what nightschaduw said. But if you're kind of like me, not that upfront when it comes to guys, just watch the way he talks to other girls and maybe narrow down the suspects. Then you could, in a teasing way, ask your suspects if they like the guy you like.
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Posted 12/19/07
Oh, this is going to be hard to ask. I seem to be addicted to Crunchyroll. I cannot stop being on here, even when there's nothing to do. Even now, at 3:30AM, I'm on here. My grades are dropping, and I have exams to study for. I have no idea why I can't stop, but I need to. My mother is threatening to get rid of my rats if I don't stop spending so much time on here.

Well, there it is. Any advice is welcome^-^
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Posted 12/19/07
hey, YumehitoREi

keep schedule of everything.. like two hours a day for crunchyroll, two hours for homeworks, etc..
I know how you feel but school is important.
not the best detailed advice but..
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Posted 12/19/07

nightschaduw wrote:

lol just involve the girl screwing me over with a guy i knew was after her, i told her i would gladly just end things if she was interested in him more than me but she said there was nothing happening or ever will. I kinda suspected something when i couldnt contact her at all, she was either "never home" or "sleeping". Then at a friends party some guy was talking about his friends and he mentioned her and the other dude. The moment he did he stop talking and just looked at me like 'O crap... sorry' all scared. There were several close of friends of mine that knew what was happening and help her cover her tracks and stuff. I never before felt so betrayed in my life...... lifes a B$@#* sometimes.


Who needs enemies with friends like that. They all were total asses to you. I would ditch them all.

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