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Posted 6/5/12

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so. you dont like her (A). your just not sure how to reject her, and still be friends so that when you see her at school it wont be weird? so you just want to have B and A as your friends still w.e having to give up one?, i feel like you LIk B for some reason! well if you still want to be friends with A even after rejecting her just honestly tell her how you actually feel. because im sure she would understand. because you have always backed her up when your friends call her ugly and such. and.. i dont think she likes a more popular guy.. because the thing about girls no matter how shy they are and such well the thing about me (a girl) im very straightforward once you get to know me. and at first if i like you. id probably be shy AF =.=.(end of me) i think she does like you because i dont think she would ask a girl she didnt like. even if she did like another who is more popular than you. i just feel like maybe because you were so kind to her she liked you.
and i dont think if you did get with A you'd drift away from B because like if you really wanted B to still be your friend then like. you'd be able to juggle those two.. like its not liek your always going to be with A. and its not like A is the jealous type who thinks every girl out there is going to try to get at you. Ipersonally am like that sadly ;/ but my bf lieks it so w.e lol(end of me) im not sure what your problem is but if you stil lwant to be B's friend and A's friend you can either
tell A how you really feel about her. which is your form of rejection or acceptance lets just say in this case its rejections. that you'd still want to be friends but if it was acceptance then you'd can ask her if shes the jealous type and if its okay for you to be able to hang out with B.
honestly situations of wanting to keep both girls is complicating because you have to satisfy both party =.=


You know, you can't be nice to somebody that you have no contact with. I would be nice to her but ther has never been an opportunity to do so. Also this thing with calling her ugly all happened behind her back. (Which made me even more angry. People being all nice and friendly to her and as soon as she leaves the room talking about her as if she was that girl from "The Ring"). I've also got the feeling thhe doesn't see me as the person I really am. Most of the time at school I act like an clown or a happy person but all my friends and my family know me as somebody who doesn't talk more than necessary and who keeps just sitting and thinking for hours. I don't even know how a date would work: Two people sitting next to each other for hours and saying nothing. In case you misunderstood me: She is not only shy, even when she is with her friends, she says maybe 5 sentences a day. (I know this might e an overreaction since every relationship I had until now was killed by my "she doesn't really know me" attitude)
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Posted 6/5/12

fishyfish wrote:

Hijacked by mushroomjay:

Kay, I saw a few threads on teenage drama, I luled, I was also annoyed about all the little girls whining. So instead of banning them I decided to make a thread where YOU can ask for advice, or give it to people that ask.

So, whine away. I'll be else where, or "helping."

THIS IS FOR GENERAL HELP, RELATIONSHIP ADVICE, EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS, ETC.


wow rude much. it's not like those type of threads are any different then treads about the dude in Florida who ate a guys face I've seen a few of those. Was it really necessary to call them whinny girls too? You could have made this without insulting people. Very unprofessional.
Posted 6/5/12
Feels like watching pre-school kids counselling.

This will end up not going anywhere, and he'll end up doing what he said in the first post, take B and be a coward to A.
Posted 6/5/12

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Gosh, haven't people heard of tampons for the nostrils?


From he;s the man then yes


Has it been invented for real, though? No.
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Posted 6/5/12

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You know, you can't be nice to somebody that you have no contact with. I would be nice to her but ther has never been an opportunity to do so. Also this thing with calling her ugly all happened behind her back. (Which made me even more angry. People being all nice and friendly to her and as soon as she leaves the room talking about her as if she was that girl from "The Ring"). I've also got the feeling thhe doesn't see me as the person I really am. Most of the time at school I act like an clown or a happy person but all my friends and my family know me as somebody who doesn't talk more than necessary and who keeps just sitting and thinking for hours. I don't even know how a date would work: Two people sitting next to each other for hours and saying nothing. In case you misunderstood me: She is not only shy, even when she is with her friends, she says maybe 5 sentences a day. (I know this might e an overreaction since every relationship I had until now was killed by my "she doesn't really know me" attitude)


Then how is it your able to like her? Im seriously confused. are you just unsure of wanting to get with her? because she asked you? are you mad because of how "friends" think of other people besides themselves? and going on date does not exactly mean you sit and talk for hours. its just like bonding time. like how you would if you hang out with yourfriends. Look . just follow your gut feeling. if you feel like you dont want it to ruin something then do something about it. if you feel like nothing will change out of the things you do. then just go with that feeling... things like this is not about getting advices. and like. you shouldnt be afraid to go into a relationship not knowing someone because as a relationship grows you get to know them. and if you dont like how they are just break up if you like how they are then stay with them... are you telling me you have no contact with Ms.A and doesnt she go to school with you? idk im getting veryy confused at what your trying to say to me ;/ you can eaither try to help me understand or. just idk o-o because im willing to talk to you and such. but. im just really confused ._.
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Posted 6/5/12

D01BCDN3 wrote:


Naruuki wrote:


D01BCDN3 wrote:

Gosh, haven't people heard of tampons for the nostrils?


From he;s the man then yes


Has it been invented for real, though? No.


TAMPONS? YEAH it HAS but not for the nose lol Just go get a tampon and stick it in your nose when it bleeds gee
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How can I stop the urge to grab my FD-200 sniper and shoot this bastard to death and bring all the gorillas in the world to ape fuck the shit out all the bullet wounds I made?
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Posted 6/6/12
Tons of torment few have ever bothered to help me with.

I am very angry, in fact, I was angry until I did something... unexpected a few months ago that was potentially life-saving and inspiring (afraid to reveal it as it may sound arrogant), but now am ready to POUND something internally speaking due to a kaleidoscope of bad memories that ruined my adolescence returning to me at a lower level than before yet still infuriating.

First off, my older brother read me the Biblical Flood at the age of 8 and thus I get very annoyed and aggressive with any talk of Ragnarok, the Apocalypse, glorifying Evangelion as the best , and much more.

I did not know downloading ROMs of video games was illegal in 2003, when I was 12, I tried, but was redirected to an 18+ site thus I am a human MALE with porno-phobia, imagine the suffering I felt, thinking people who so much as mentioned Family Guy gags were trying to hunt me like a rabbit chased by a wolf... (Don't mention ecchi anime that are nothing but sex jokes, I will take it personally...)

My own mother emotionally abused me and kept me away from my own friends for much of my school life and made me sacrifice most of my adolescence for her survival in a cigarette smoke infested house or suffer the words, "how could you? how could you be so mean?", I have/had asthma thus athletics were impossible. I was so trapped, I had to Platonically fall in love with a fictional being just to keep my mind alive. Yes, I could not see my friends on weekends as often as most were privileged to have happen, thus an anime character was literally my mind's life-support and now my subconscious is mistaking anime characters and people in real life for "ma...ma..." which never existed, I have no real mother! DAMN MY CHILDHOOD!!!!
Posted 6/6/12
I've fallen and I can't get up! Help!!!
Posted 6/7/12
How do you stop the urge of wasting money on pointless things.
For example I think I waste too much money on food.
I could just try and be happy with this can of soup.
but I always wanna eat out and eat nice food at nice places.
sigh* I want to save my money but eat good food.
Posted 6/7/12
Learn to cook.
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Posted 6/8/12

underlock wrote:

Learn to cook.


Imitate those cheifs on the cooking shows or go find recipes and read the directions.
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Posted 6/8/12
i have this teacher that i'm pretty close with. we get on great and we're both passionate about the same things. he's younger (like '30s maybe) and i can talk to him really easily. i like him a lot, i think he's great to be with and just a big sweetheart. but sometimes i'm told that he might like me more than that maybe

it's little things. the other day i was wearing this dress and it was sleeveless, so my upper back and shoulders were exposed. he put his hand on my shoulder and kind of kept it there for a while while he was talking to me and then told me i looked cute. he always ruffles my hair and punches me teasingly, he touches me a lot but not in a bad way. the worst he's done is put both his hands on my shoulders and rub a little. he teases me in class and writes little comments on my papers. when i walk by his room he tells me to come in and talk to him sometimes and stuff like that

i don't feel threatened, most of it seems innocent and like i said, i like him. but my friends say he's flirting. he's married with kids and stuff so i don't get why he would prowl after me anyway, but people say it's obvious. is he just being friendly or am i being oblivious? i think he's just affectionate
Posted 6/8/12
Most men flirt when they're bored and there's likeable women nearby. But it rarely involves touching unless they want sex.
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Posted 6/8/12

underlock wrote:

Most men flirt when they're bored and there's likeable women nearby. But it rarely involves touching unless they want sex.


oh god that's upsetting

even with a teacher/student relationship where i'm at least half his age? i don't get how he could see me in a sexual way, given his career choice and what seems like a pretty happy family life
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