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Posted 9/29/12

popcornpuffs wrote:

I was not trying to make him jealous. Where in my post does it say I was trying to make him jealous?


fair enough, nevermind



SonicGenesisKing wrote:

I often have anxiety and fear attacks at night, tips?


Exercise during the day and work hard so that when it comes time to sleep you will pass out. If you have a tv in your room leave it on the nature channel or something so that you don't get lost in your own thoughts as you try to fall asleep, and so it stimulates your mind as you are sleeping. If all else fails see a mental health specialist about it.
Posted 10/5/12

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Are there any good and fast ways to gain CR points?


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This one girl used me......

this one girl who was my first broke upo with me then kept runnnig back to me when she was dumped to then throw me away the next day now she doesnt talk to me but it still hurts and its been this way for 3 years


It can be very difficult to get past an old relationship sometimes. I know that my first love and I kept breaking up and getting back together for over a year after we had first dated and broken up. Even after we stopped getting back together I was still in love with him and couldn't let go of his memory for quite a while (at least 2 years). It may not seem like much help to you now.. but the best thing I can say is that it does get easier and you will get over her over time. What finally got me over my first love was meeting the guy that eventually became my husband. You're young and have so much time in front of you ^___^ Just hang in there.. Oh and friends can be a great help.. whether there in real life or even here, online
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Okay I need some opinions i guess. Not really advice.

I started dating this Japanese girl right, and everything is cool. She's really awesome. Then she asks me this question..."During Spring Break do you wanna come to Japan with me to meet my parents?". I instantly thought, "Uhhhh... why?". I'm pretty new to anime and the Japanese culture in general. I mean I was born and raised in Argentina where there are no Japanese people. It's not like America where there is somewhat of an idea of what Japanese culture might be.

Anyways, to get back on track, in the few anime I've watched meeting a Japanese person's parents is kind of a big deal right? I've been dating her but I don't really see it as an exclusive relationship and never really stopped to think of what she saw this relationship to be. I don't know if I'm being stereotypical towards the meaning of this whole meet my parents deal. And I of course will clear up any questions I have with her soon but I guess what I want is some opinions or ideas of what this situation may mean before I ask her so that I'm somewhat prepared to react to what she says.

And yes I am a typical guy in college who's afraid of commitment hahaha.
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Hi all, just wondering how many CR bucks you need for 1 month subscription? I've got $3.86 at the moment
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I am having trouble watching the videos on my tablet
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Posted 10/25/12 , edited 10/25/12
Why would he do such a thing?

Ok, so there's this boy who was certainly attracted to me. Each day when he'll see me at my school, he'll literally spend 6-8 hours with me. Not 1, 2 or 3 hours, 6-8 hours literally. We would often watch movies during our free time, talk about life, relationships, and the bible(we're both Christians) He always offers to buy me lunch, like small lunch while we watch a movie on his laptop, I only said yes once and no the other times. When we are together we are ALWAYS ALONE in a secluded area away from everyone. He never mention sex or touched me inappropriately. He often hesitate to put his arms around me when we're watching a movie. He'll allows me to use his laptop or his Ipad. when I am sitting down using a computer, he come and sit right next to me. He often ask my friends for me and sometimes will e-mail me where I am. He once gave a me a massage when I asked for it and etc. You get the idea he is defi he's attracted to me. Anyways, I see that eh shows that he's really interested in me while I'm just there laid back just enjoying his company and I never ask for him or anything or e-mail him. I usually smile and a lot around him and he gets uncomfortable when I stare at him for long, I think he get nervous.

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He had distance himself for like 10 days, and then one day I contacted him where he was and if he wants to have lunch for the 1st time, he said he's free and yeah. When I see him he's like with 5 girls... friends obviously and he said we were eating with these people. I wasn't expecting that. Things felt so awkward. These girls didn't even try to get to know me I felt like the most mature in that group there and the one staring convo. I think eh knew I felt awkward because it wasn't something I was expecting anyway I walked in front of the group.. I was mad. I think he noticed. Why would eh do that, I was expecting solo time with him
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hey i do you know alot about anime i need help finding a certain one if you think you can help or you know someone who might be able to help let me know i would really appreciate it
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Posted 10/28/12

popcornpuffs wrote:

Why would he do such a thing?

Ok, so there's this boy who was certainly attracted to me. Each day when he'll see me at my school, he'll literally spend 6-8 hours with me. Not 1, 2 or 3 hours, 6-8 hours literally. We would often watch movies during our free time, talk about life, relationships, and the bible(we're both Christians) He always offers to buy me lunch, like small lunch while we watch a movie on his laptop, I only said yes once and no the other times. When we are together we are ALWAYS ALONE in a secluded area away from everyone. He never mention sex or touched me inappropriately. He often hesitate to put his arms around me when we're watching a movie. He'll allows me to use his laptop or his Ipad. when I am sitting down using a computer, he come and sit right next to me. He often ask my friends for me and sometimes will e-mail me where I am. He once gave a me a massage when I asked for it and etc. You get the idea he is defi he's attracted to me. Anyways, I see that eh shows that he's really interested in me while I'm just there laid back just enjoying his company and I never ask for him or anything or e-mail him. I usually smile and a lot around him and he gets uncomfortable when I stare at him for long, I think he get nervous.

PROBLEM:
He had distance himself for like 10 days, and then one day I contacted him where he was and if he wants to have lunch for the 1st time, he said he's free and yeah. When I see him he's like with 5 girls... friends obviously and he said we were eating with these people. I wasn't expecting that. Things felt so awkward. These girls didn't even try to get to know me I felt like the most mature in that group there and the one staring convo. I think eh knew I felt awkward because it wasn't something I was expecting anyway I walked in front of the group.. I was mad. I think he noticed. Why would eh do that, I was expecting solo time with him


I find it odd that if he has been spending so much time with you that he's never asked you out or attempted to move from a friendship to a relationship. Did you ever ask him about past relationships, friends, or what he does when he's not spending time with you? If you have asked and he avoided the question or lied about it, then you are right in feeling awkward. If you never asked, then maybe you should try getting to know him better? Regardless, I think the solution to your problem is to meet him for lunch, just the two of you, and just have a mature conversation about it. Just tell him you missed hanging out with him for those 10 days and is there anything wrong and see where it goes.
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Posted 10/29/12 , edited 10/29/12

popcornpuffs wrote:

He had distance himself for like 10 days, and then one day I contacted him where he was and if he wants to have lunch for the 1st time, he said he's free and yeah. When I see him he's like with 5 girls... friends obviously and he said we were eating with these people. I wasn't expecting that. Things felt so awkward. These girls didn't even try to get to know me I felt like the most mature in that group there and the one staring convo. I think eh knew I felt awkward because it wasn't something I was expecting anyway I walked in front of the group.. I was mad. I think he noticed. Why would eh do that, I was expecting solo time with him


I was raised in a conservative Christian group as a teenager (I'm much more liberal now), and I think I have a good idea why this happened. A lot of conservative Christian groups teach about "avoiding temptation" and "casting lust from your heart"...based on the Bible verse where Jesus said that if you so much as look at a woman lustfully your'e committing adultery in your heart...ring a bell?

He's probably being tempted, and as a result he's probably wanting to restrict interaction with you in private in order to avoid any further temptation...a lot of people avoid solo time with people of the opposite sex because they don't want to "sin".

This is what I was taught as a teenager, anyway. Not saying I necessarily agree with it, but that's pretty popular Christian teaching.
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Posted 11/2/12
i know this is a stupid question but are all the shows in Japanese or are their some in English.
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Posted 11/7/12

dlopez814 wrote:

i know this is a stupid question but are all the shows in Japanese or are their some in English.


Not a stupid question bud. I believe you'll find that most shows are indeed in Japanese. However there are quite a large amount of shows that have English voice acting (called 'dubbing'). You can tell usually if the episode description has "DUB" written somewhere in it. The way I figure out whether or not a show has dub is to just Google it.
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