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how many strikes do you need to get banned? :x
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Okay, so I have another question and I wonder what your input in this is. Thank all of you ladies out there who are answering.

So, I had a small house party and I invited a lady friend of mine to come hang out. It is the first time I actually hung out and drank with her. When everyone left she decided to stay over. We talked for a bit, did a bit of drunken cooking. In the end she ended up sleeping over in my bed. I did not touch her or did anything naughty fyi.

Please keep in mind that I have known her for four years but it is only recently that we actually hung out. I feel like I messed up my chance. So the real questions would be... Did she want me that night? Would you feel like gosh this guy is stupid...? What is you ladies thought on that.
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Ok, need some advices for a very childish problem =//= sigh* a friendzone problem... All started like this: I was starting my freshman days at college (I was 19-20 approx) when suddenly, I met some time ago at the bus stop a 17 year old girl (actually it was a very strange meeting XD I was playing PSP, she saw me playing and then she let her otaku side flourish) I liked that and rapidly we grew as friends, with the passage of time I started developing some feelings for her but the age difference hold me back a little... More time passed by (I was 21 and she 18) and later, I learnt she'll be entering to my same college (my first thoughts were things like nice, we'll spend more time now) thinking that by reflex I decided to confess my love to her (this is the point were all started turning from bad to worst @@) so~ we chatted via fb a little bit, some things led to other things and in the end we decided to meet up again... The next day I was ready to confess... We both went at the meeting place, told bout my feelings and she responded me with I knew it, that made me so nervous that made me have some insomnia some nights... She seemed happy and told me she felt the same as I do, but she seemed with doubt and didn't gave me a concrete response, later that night I saw her fb message (so long story short, she rejected me and friendzoned me via fb) and by reflex I told her... Ok, let's restart things up but from that day until now I know I'm lying to myself and eventhough I said that (bout restarting things up), I know she feels awkward and since that day she hasn't spoken to me... So everyone here, what should I do next? @@
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Posted 6/17/13

IHav2Fart wrote:

Okay, so I have another question and I wonder what your input in this is. Thank all of you ladies out there who are answering.

So, I had a small house party and I invited a lady friend of mine to come hang out. It is the first time I actually hung out and drank with her. When everyone left she decided to stay over. We talked for a bit, did a bit of drunken cooking. In the end she ended up sleeping over in my bed. I did not touch her or did anything naughty fyi.

Please keep in mind that I have known her for four years but it is only recently that we actually hung out. I feel like I messed up my chance. So the real questions would be... Did she want me that night? Would you feel like gosh this guy is stupid...? What is you ladies thought on that.


I don't think so. I mean you guys were drunk you said right? Wouldn't want to wake the next and she not sure what happened and something actually did. In fact she could possibly trust you more because you didn't do anything.
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Posted 6/17/13

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how many strikes do you need to get banned? :x


Depends on how severe the rule breaking was.

If you uploaded hentai, you only get one strike. If you upload hentai again, you get banned straight away.

We're more lenient with double posting and such though.


Generally though, if you've received one warning for doing something wrong - you will be banned for doing it again.
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Ok, need some advices for a very childish problem =//= sigh* a friendzone problem... All started like this: I was starting my freshman days at college (I was 19-20 approx) when suddenly, I met some time ago at the bus stop a 17 year old girl (actually it was a very strange meeting XD I was playing PSP, she saw me playing and then she let her otaku side flourish) I liked that and rapidly we grew as friends, with the passage of time I started developing some feelings for her but the age difference hold me back a little... More time passed by (I was 21 and she 18) and later, I learnt she'll be entering to my same college (my first thoughts were things like nice, we'll spend more time now) thinking that by reflex I decided to confess my love to her (this is the point were all started turning from bad to worst @@) so~ we chatted via fb a little bit, some things led to other things and in the end we decided to meet up again... The next day I was ready to confess... We both went at the meeting place, told bout my feelings and she responded me with I knew it, that made me so nervous that made me have some insomnia some nights... She seemed happy and told me she felt the same as I do, but she seemed with doubt and didn't gave me a concrete response, later that night I saw her fb message (so long story short, she rejected me and friendzoned me via fb) and by reflex I told her... Ok, let's restart things up but from that day until now I know I'm lying to myself and eventhough I said that (bout restarting things up), I know she feels awkward and since that day she hasn't spoken to me... So everyone here, what should I do next? @@


I don't know how its been but let some time pass before you two talk again. If she still doesn't talk to you after that time has passed than you pretty much see where she stands on her relationship with you. Hopefully she'll at least be back on talking terms with you if she does talk to you. It'll be hard for you I'm sure to see her as no more than a friend but if your willing to have her back in your life you'll have to endure it.
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I see... I guess I'll endure it for a really good while then haha is just as the old quote rite? “If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it never really was in the first place.”

Anyways, thnx a lot ^^
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Posted 6/17/13
No problem
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So at work this month we are having a contest of the most hilarious call in excuses ever. I want to enter it but I can't think of anything that someone else has already used.

Can someone help me with it?

Some that's already been used:
My mother-in-law poisoned me.
I'm scared to drive in the dark.
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creynolds93 wrote:

So at work this month we are having a contest of the most hilarious call in excuses ever. I want to enter it but I can't think of anything that someone else has already used.

Can someone help me with it?

Some that's already been used:
My mother-in-law poisoned me.
I'm scared to drive in the dark.


"I was all ready to come to work until the Fire Nation attacked" I guess you would have to know Avatar the Last Airbender to get the joke lol

"I got called into home. Forgot I had an important meeting with my bed"

I'll see if I can think of more. Hopefully funny ones.





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I have to agree with Cray on the potential for added trust.
For one, I (and many females I've known) have spent the night at guys houses (even in their bed if that was the only option), and the opposite as well, for nothing more than to sleep after a hangout (even back in the days where I did drink). I think if she wanted something to happen she would've made it very obvious.

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Posted 6/19/13
I'm hoping someone can lend some insight here.

So I basically have this goal to have a flat stomach for at least one day in my life. In mid January I started this weight loss program that's been working very well and I've lost 109 pounds so far and still losing. Problem is my midsection is still jelly, and it's taking it's toll on my morale because holy I've been fat for all of forever and it feels like it's gonna stay that was cause I don't feel like I've made a dent! (I know it's not true cause I've gotten a lot of people saying things to me and well my clothes don't fit, but I still can't see what everyone else is seeing) I've been working out, but it's really been a combination of things. I'm really wondering if I'm stretching myself to thin trying to exercise in all categories and before I worry about toning up I should just be focused on running or something to shape up. Did that all make sense? Can anyone weigh in?
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Alright, so I've got a little bit of an ethical conflict going through my head right now. My ex, we'll call her "K", and I broke up 2 and a half months ago because of some really stupid stuff I did that I really regret and has changed me as a person now. I had a bit of a drug problem and I kept it secret from K because I didn't know how to tell her until she found out and then I'm sure you can picture the rest.

Afterward I joined a recovery group and I'm getting a lot better now, but she still was very hurt by what I had done and couldn't find it in her heart to forgive me. Yet we still hang out and stuff but I just wasn't sure of her feelings post break up and there was still a hint of K never forgiving me sooooo.. I decided to ask this girl from my work out to a dinner date later this evening. We'll call her "S." She is very cute and I get a long pretty well with her and I wanted to try going out with someone new because I needed to move on from my ex.

However, recent developments proved that K may be slowing warming back up to me. I really wanna make things work out with K because of our history, we really did love each other, but I don't know if I'm wasting my time on her.

I really want to give S a chance because I think she is a really great person but I don't want to lead her on and hurt her feelings if things don't end up working out. It's only a first date though and I really wanted to experience other women out there. So the question is, "Am I leading S on if I don't know how I feel exactly?"
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Well, no. K is the one who dumped you, and she apparently still doesn't forgive you, so regardless of whether or not she's warming back up to you, it's probably a small chance it'll work if it re-kindles. You said you both really did love each other, yet she still did that even though she did. (Rather than showing you support through your drug problem, hmmm? Think about that.) So basically, it's not weird to want to give other girls a chance, I wouldn't call it leading her on. If it really does pick up with K though, obviously you're gonna have to tell S that it ain't working out with her instead.
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Have you done exercises that focuses more on that area like sit ups and crunches? The midsection can take some time compared to the rest of the body. Not a lot you can do. The body sometimes burns the fat where it wants to. Maybe focusing in that area could help.
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