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Posted 4/11/08

ohmygodBRITTANY wrote:


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ohmygodBRITTANY wrote:

okay, my problems are nothing like the normal/average teenager sorry to say -___-
i dont have any boy problems except for the fact that i'm fourteen and i've never had a boyfriend/been kissed. but rly thats not that big of a deal.
its kind of an internal conflict
i think there's something wrong with me.
i can't find balance between everything like alone time, friends, family, school, etc. and when there's no balance i go insane
and i have a ton of problems with my mom, and i think i'm making her incredibly depressed.
i make myself depressed for no good reason, and i ruin everyone that im friends with.
there's a little voice in my head always saying "i hate you i hate you i hate you i hate you" you know?
and do not tell me i'm depressed because i dont believe i am.
theres so much more to this, but if i wrote it all down i'd take up like 10 pages.


the best thing is to talk to someone about this. trust me u'll feel much better if u let someone who is a good listener know, coz they'll really listen to your problems and be able to offer you genuine advice


hmm.. you see the only problem with that is when i talk to someone about my problems it gets all awkward later on.. idk maybe i hold too much inside but oh well XD


maybe not depressed....but you sound really like you hate yourself or have low self esteem. did something ever hapen, like when you were little, with someone else?? someone that made you feel like you werent good enough??
sorry if this sounds mean, but thats what happend to me and i was quiet for a long time...like everything else was ok, but every time i tried to do something, my sister kept telling me you suck , you cant____, youre a loser etc. so thats when i sort fo shut off... started alienating all of my friends, etc.
if its something like that, then jut remeber people do that becuase they feel like they suck. they need to push others down to feel better.
i really dont know how to help, but if you ever need to talk just post here...
(sorry if im not qualified to answer questions, or if this is a joke in which case i will be super embarrassed hehe)
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woody??
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Posted 4/12/08
Is there a specific problem? I am quite open minded. I think.
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Posted 4/13/08

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ohmygodBRITTANY,
I dunno bout other ppl but I think ur problem is pretty much like every average teen. I find everyone I know in school emo like you.

Think of the bigger picture and not just from your point of view. There's so much more to experience now ur young. Don't go making urself depressed over nothing. When u grow older and start to have to make ur own decisions in life, you'll find that friendship is of little value. You are really on your own. Be independent.

You have value in the sense that you can do bigger things then mope about ur loneliness.


HAHAHAHAHAHA XD
i'm not like this in "real life"
this is honestly the first time i've ever even talked about my problems
i tend to keep them inside
no one think's i'm even close to depressed in school
i try to experience as much as i possible can when i'm young and everything its hard though, when i have no one to do anything with.
XD
and when i said the average teen
i meant boy problems

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Posted 4/13/08

kxiii wrote:


ohmygodBRITTANY wrote:


kxiii wrote:


ohmygodBRITTANY,
I dunno bout other ppl but I think ur problem is pretty much like every average teen. I find everyone I know in school emo like you.

Think of the bigger picture and not just from your point of view. There's so much more to experience now ur young. Don't go making urself depressed over nothing. When u grow older and start to have to make ur own decisions in life, you'll find that friendship is of little value. You are really on your own. Be independent.

You have value in the sense that you can do bigger things then mope about ur loneliness.


HAHAHAHAHAHA XD
i'm not like this in "real life"
this is honestly the first time i've ever even talked about my problems
i tend to keep them inside
no one think's i'm even close to depressed in school
i try to experience as much as i possible can when i'm young and everything its hard though, when i have no one to do anything with.
XD
and when i said the average teen
i meant boy problems



i c... lol, sorry, then, my mistake..
it's good you're talking about it.. feel any better?


haha not really :/
i dont get why talking about problems make people feel better
everyone says it, so i thought i'd try it
it just makes me feel worse
i like being able to forget them. :)
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Posted 5/18/08 , edited 5/18/08
What would you do if your boyfriend and long-time bestfriend cheated on you?

OK so, here's the story, you guys went out clubbing with bunch of friends, after few hours, you are so drunk that when you got home you went straight to bed.
Your best friend and boyfriend was supposed to sleep over (boyfriend in guest room and bestfriend in your room).
Then, suddenly, you woke up at around 1am because you wanted a glass of water, then, you saw on the sofa, your boyfriend and bestfriend making-out (well not totally because they didn't actually do IT. Just half naked).
You didn't wait for anything else, you just run to your room and slam the door (forget the water!).
The next day, they both explained separately that it was the influence of the alcohol, they didn't mean it, they're sorry, blah blah blah...! (they looked sincere though)!

Would you believe them?

Should you forgive them both?

Forgive the guy forget the girl (second chance)?

Forgive the girl forget the guy (he's just a guy, although you love him very much)?

Or forget them both?
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sorry if this seems like a really stupid probleme, there are people out there that have it worse than me,but i think if i keep this in any longer i'm going to explode. my friend has started dateing my other friend, i'm really happy for them but sometimes i feal like i'm always in the way, if i go to talk to them i feal like i should not, let them be alone and happy, not show them how looking at how happy and close they are makes me feal so lonly. I know i'm only 14, 15 soon but you know i hate these fealings i'm haveing. I can't talk to anybody about how much i just wish i could meet a guy who i like for who he is and who likes me back for who i am. never going to happen. but i can keep hopeing right?
*closes eyes* i'll keep dreaming
i'll keep hopeing...
never mind
thanks for reading this if you have but in the end mabey i'm being stupid
i'm only 14 i have to stop fealing so lonly...never going to happen....never
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Posted 5/18/08

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Here is my problem, see there is this girl who i like but she wont sleep with me. I tried everything from brute force to force. I stalked her all year long and even killed her old boy-friend so she could have a clear mind. But still she just does not want anything to do with me Is it just because I dont understand women or am I missing something .


she would not sleep with you because you killed her old boyfriend.
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logain wrote:

Here is my problem, see there is this girl who i like but she wont sleep with me. I tried everything from brute force to force. I stalked her all year long and even killed her old boy-friend so she could have a clear mind. But still she just does not want anything to do with me Is it just because I dont understand women or am I missing something .





you're a psychopath.... or maybe sadist... sorry for the term... killing her old boyfriend makes things worse... nothing is wrong with you... you're just so obsessed to that girl and that leads you to kill his old boyfriend... you need to just move on...
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WHO'S INTO BLONDE ASIAN GIRLS ? HUH WHO WHO ... SOMETHING ABOUT BLONDE ASIAN GIRLS.

yea all this problem shit got kinda depressing so , i thought i would change shit up LOL
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I did already make a thread for personal help and issues discussion.

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1291/The-Help-Thread.html There it is. ^^

My problem: I'm horrible at drawing, and I need to improve! I mean....look!

Pretty bad, no? How could I improve? I've been practicing for over a year with no improvement.
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Posted 6/3/08
I have no personal problems.
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Posted 6/25/08 , edited 6/25/08
my friend just called me he wants me to come over his house and convince his parents to unground him.
what do i say to his parents?? heres the email he sent me telling me what he did to get grounded


ok heres the story of what just happened

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So my neighbors go out of town once and a while. They have a lake house about an hour away that they go to for a weekend every once and a while.

When they're gone, they leave the side door of the house unlocked, and pay me to let their dog outside and get their mail etc.

So one of the times that they left, I decided to bring along my girlfriend into their house, and use it for sex. Living with my parents still, this didn't and still doesn't seem like a bad idea, right?

So we first would fool around in their furnished basement, so no one would notice people walking around inside while they're gone.

It goes well the first time, and the next time that they went away, I had her over again.

So when I found out that they were going to the bahamas for 10 days on a cruise, I was ecstatic. I even got an arsenal of alcohol for me and a few friends to pound in the basement and have fun with.

My girlfriend came over again, and it was good again.

The next time she came over, still in the 10 day span, we decided to go upstairs, into my neighbors room and **** in their bed. We do, and she even let me try to piitb, but it hurt her too much so we stopped. So I flush the condom+wrapper like we normally do, and try to get the sheets how they were, and clean up the rest of the place of whatever mess we made.

They came home, and everything was fine.

Fast forward to 2 days ago, about a week after they got back.

I was at my friend's house when I got a phone call.

Sean "Hello?"

Dad "Sean? You need to come home right now."

Sean "Any reason?"

Dad "Just come home, we'll talk when you get home."

So I go home, and when I get home and go up to my house, low and behold sitting on my porch is my father, my mother, and my neighbor waiting for me.

Dad "Have a seat Sean."

Sean "Okay, what's up?"

Dad "Well, why don't you take it away Marty(my neighbor, the mother of the family)"

Marty "Sean, when we came back from our recent trip, we noticed something. There was a condom wrapper in the toliet, and we know it was you. We suspected it a few times before, once when I was cleaning up and found long brown hairs, which confused me because no one here has brown hair. Also, you didn't leave the sheets the same way."

Sean "...sorry..?"

So everyone's super pissed at me right now. My girlfriend had to come over and talk with my parents to pretty much talk them out of calling her parents. Then we had to go over and apologize to my neighbors whole family.

My dad said that I'm grounded all summer, and that if I don't show a significant improvement in who I am, that he won't let me go away to college in the fall.

ima call you later, might need your help
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why do malays fight until they bleed and don't even care if they are friends?this is my problem.....quote this if you know the answer
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uhhh i need advice but i dont want retarded stuff

i like these 2 guys and im not sure which one i like im not giving out there first names
a and b

a-my first one i liked him since about last year i didnt really liked him when i was younger. He is a 7th grader im in 6th and he is a midget. He always flirts wit girls and i always see him at the skating rink. Last friday when i went, my friend's brother knew him and he asked if he liked anyone he said no and wanted to see me he came up to me and said he didnt like me and my friend said he liked this chick in 9th grade and dated her once. After he said i dont like u it was all quiet and he was sitting at a table next to mine he was staring at me and my friend said outloud tat he was staring at me i looked at him and he was covering his face


b-is a 6th grader. I saw him like the 1st weeks of school. He switched in to 2 of my classes. Some of my friends like him too. sometimes when the teacher is talking he looks at me alot. In Socail Studies he sits behind me my friend saw a pic he drew she told me to look i did he was staring at it he was staring at me. My friend gav me a drawing and she said tat he drew it for me.He's Korean and doesnt talk alot. He has a thing 4 white. my friends say we look like a better couple than me and a. Unlike a he is taller than me. My friend told me tat a friend of hers asked somethin and b said tat Most girls are mean here and some are cute.

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Posted 9/28/08

logain wrote:

Here is my problem, see there is this girl who i like but she wont sleep with me. I tried everything from brute force to force. I stalked her all year long and even killed her old boy-friend so she could have a clear mind. But still she just does not want anything to do with me Is it just because I dont understand women or am I missing something .


I suggest roofies.
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my problem is that im an honors student and i hate it.. i cant get a job because im in honors even if im qualified( im 14 years old and i waited for my birthday to quickly pass so i can get a job)..its too late to back out now... and i cant do any afterschool activites and im piss off.... man this sucks!!!
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