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Pressured for sex?
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Posted 2/27/08

bigballinabe wrote:

if ur being pressured. u should be flattered


Why should you be flattered?
It seems nowadays if you haven't had sex by the time you hit highschool you're un cool.

So if people started pressuring you into doing jumping off a bridge or slitting your wrists, would you be flattered?



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My other classmate`s boy friend has a condom in his wallet .


Tell your friend to take it out. If a condom heats up too much from being sat on and such the latex will harden or whatever and then break. No girl EVER wants to hear that the condom broke.
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froofroo123 wrote:

i had sex with my hand. now to practice with my dog


I think i heard that in a song..
Posted 2/27/08
hell to the ya, well at least at my school, lol, but im a virgin until marriage

i dont see the point of sex before marriage
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Moonlight15 wrote:

hell to the ya, well at least at my school, lol, but im a virgin until marriage

i dont see the point of sex before marriage


Agreed=]

I totally dont understand why you'd do it before marriage either.
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Melty_Blood wrote:

I don't know if this topic is already exist or not, but just as the topic stated.
Do you think young girls and boys are being pressured by society to have sex?
Lately, society is pretty rotten. All I keep hearing is talked about sex. I think kind of topics circulate around the internet and mass medias, forcing/pressuring sex for people younger.
Young girls/boys might think or curious about such things and start going wild. Or probably because they heard people talking about sex and doing it.

Well, what do you think? Is society forcing/pressuring kids to have sex at younger age?
I just hope that some kids learn how to control themselves, so they don't get infected with all those diseases.

By pressures, I mean internet, forum, television, and books, etc...


i'm not shy. you can come to me anytime. lol!
Posted 2/27/08

violetgurl33 wrote:


Moonlight15 wrote:

hell to the ya, well at least at my school, lol, but im a virgin until marriage

i dont see the point of sex before marriage


Agreed=]

I totally dont understand why you'd do it before marriage either.

finally someone who thinks like i do lol, you dont find a lot of us lol
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Unfortunately, yes. And for it leads to all kinds of different rumors and such resulting in angered students and assisting in the rising rates of suicide that happens each year in teens. Because either the teenager makes a mistake that due to the entire pressure system, or because they aren't having sex. Because when you don't have sex, or you don't divulge into your sexual experiences, then others tend to just make fun of you or they began to say that you are gay. I know these rumors all too much. But, all you can really do is ignore them ey?
Posted 2/27/08

violetgurl33 wrote:


Moonlight15 wrote:

hell to the ya, well at least at my school, lol, but im a virgin until marriage

i dont see the point of sex before marriage


Agreed=]

I totally dont understand why you'd do it before marriage either.


For pleasure. Sometimes the hormones are just that strong, human instinct.

We are pressured all the time, whether it be the internet, media, whatever. I don't necessarily think its wrong to have sex in high school though, as long as you know what you're doing and stay protected, I mean I think you're at an old enough age. Even back when my parents were kids, in high school a lot of people were having sex.

It's always been something that took place, its human instinct, and the hormones. Now a days I guess it seems more "right" to do it at a younger age and there is more pressure. I can honestly say its hard for me to go a day without thinking about sex, which is pretty bad. Though it sickens me how you here about some people as young as 8 now getting pregnant and kids definitely need to learn about sex earlier now and about getting protected and being smart about it.
Posted 2/27/08
My wife grew up in China and when she was a teenager people basically didn't seem to know that sex existed. They didn't get bombarded with it on TV all the time, etc, like we do in western culture. So I think the obsession with sex is largely media induced, because in cultures without all the sex in media people are not so obsessed.

All I can say is, if you're being pressured and don't feel comfortable (especially girls) then DONT DO IT. Girls should trust their instincts about a guy and don't do anything with any guy you are not 100% comfortable with. Any doubts and don't do it. (And if you're under age of consent I'd say don't do it at all.)
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Posted 2/27/08

Melty_Blood wrote:

I don't know if this topic is already exist or not, but just as the topic stated.
Do you think young girls and boys are being pressured by society to have sex?
Lately, society is pretty rotten. All I keep hearing is talked about sex. I think kind of topics circulate around the internet and mass medias, forcing/pressuring sex for people younger.
Young girls/boys might think or curious about such things and start going wild. Or probably because they heard people talking about sex and doing it.

Well, what do you think? Is society forcing/pressuring kids to have sex at younger age?
I just hope that some kids learn how to control themselves, so they don't get infected with all those diseases.

By pressures, I mean internet, forum, television, and books, etc...


Yes. However, parents need to be on it, and not let their kids become like that. However, sadly, those parents are the same as the kids, they were a generation raised on TV smut, so they have nothing to offer their kids, except what they them selves learned from a TV society.
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saiyukilover wrote:

Your peers *other teenagers* pressure you to have sex while society at large *adults* pressure you to remain a virgin. Also, I think one of the major contributers is that parents wait too long to talk to their kids about it, and when they do talk to their kids about it, they don't talk about all the things they should, in as much detail as they should. And they basically forbid their child from doing it so said children are too afraid of the consequences to actually talk to their parents about it, much less come to them about protection, pregnancy, and STD issues. Also, most schools avoid the issue altogether. So you've got a bunch of teenagers who know that sex is out there, and are being constantly pressured into having it, but have 0 information on how to protect themselves.


^what she said,lol

but yea, even people i kno are having sex(like younger than me even....).....i dont believe in sex b4 marriage but others dont think so....but i dont care what they think....so tough...
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i think that in addition to the constant exposure a lot of people around my age (or younger) don't take themselves seriously enough. The consequences of their actions can come to mind and everything, but a lot of times they don't care, or don't think it will happen to them. They feel invincible or feel that it's not worth being cautious. this also has contributed to drinking at an early age and using drugs at an early age

I think the media is attributing to that as well

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Posted 2/27/08

wolzen wrote:

lol pressure what a joke

they do it for the same reason adults do it
simply
because
they
like
it


You sir... are my hero, Lolz XD fucking amazing statement
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Posted 2/27/08

mrcheap0 wrote:


wolzen wrote:

lol pressure what a joke

they do it for the same reason adults do it
simply
because
they
like
it


You sir... are my hero, Lolz XD fucking amazing statement :P


HaHa yeah thats deffinetly part of it.
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Posted 2/27/08
I know someone who has had sex in 5TH GRADE (what a fucking whore...)


yes, i believe that teens are being pressured for sex now, they don't fully understand the risks and thinks it makes them "cool" or "grown up" which it doesn't since it only shows how thoughtless they are. It seems like every generation is becoming more perverted and losing their innocence faster. I think that kids are more pressured by their peers to have sex rather than the media though.

did I make any sense? *sorry if I didn't*
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In this rotten society as you so rightly said, these things happen...

If a teenage boy heard somebody of his own age or even younger losing their virginity before them, I guess a lot of boys would probably go and have intentions of doing it...

However with girls, I think people see girls as a Whore in a sense, if they are bragging about having sex and so-on...

It's still a sexist world we live in... If a man has lots of sex with lots of good looking women, he is classed as a sex god in our society, but if a woman has lots of sex with lots of men, she will be classed as a whore in our society.

Therefore I think that less girls would be motivated to loose their virginity like so many young boys like myself do, I'll say it plainly, I wanna have sex because I haven't had it, and I'm curious.
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