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22 / M / Nottingham or Man...
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Posted 10/29/07
when I was much younger I was a loner, but then I found people who were trustworthy and not fake.
Posted 10/29/07

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I grew up around loads of sisters who picked on me a lot so i grew up hating girls. As i progressed through primary and secondary school, i got bullied on a lot because of my looks and my ethnicity. Eventually i got over my hate of girls, and developed my first crushed. After i was shot down after confessing, that girl decided to make my life a living hell for some reason i don't know. I don't have many friends, those that i do have are more like acquaintances to be honest. Plus, i seem to be easily to be forgotten. I mean, they'd invite me to stuff but only if i asked. Otherwise, I could die and nobody would know. I've never really had a good friend that i could count on, be it a girl or boy, and find myself getting even more depressed as the days go by.

Really, i don't see much hope for me, espsically since my self-esteem has been shot to hell. Doesn't help since i'm naturally suspicious of anyone trying to be my firend since i was used a lot when i was younger because i was smart. I was kind of like a puppy starved of attention (i'm ashamed to admit) and would do anything to keep friendship. Took ages to find i was being used and even then, i felt it worth it even if it was fake.

Damn...don't i sound depressing... The only thing that comforts me is that i haven't tried to commit suicide in ages... i'm over my cutting period. For me, the only thing i really have these days is my health, my brains and my computer. (and my Ipod too!)



just be yourself! i'm studying in an international school right now and i'm the only indonesian girl in my grade. i live in a house of 5 people and i'm the only indonesian girl. The other 3 are japanese and 1 chinese who can speak japanese. At first i don't feel really good because i think they won't talk to me. but when i tried to start the conversation, they kindly response! it's all about confidence. if u don't try to join the community, you'll be a loner
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Posted 10/29/07
I read somewhere that studies have shown that isolated individuals are less healthy and more likely to die prematurely than their sociable counterparts.

*gulp!*
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Posted 10/29/07
wow... mentaljedi^ I'm really sorry to hear that... Makes me sad, because I'm so blessed with so many reeeally good friends that would never do anything to hurt me. I don't think I even appreciate it enough. Most of the time I just feel really tired, because it hard finding time to spend with them all + I too want to be alone sometimes. I always spend my summer holiday (2 months) with my best friend. We do everything together then, live together, travel, sleep next to eachother, eat, clean when we have to, etc. etc. It's like she's my sister or something, and it's great because no matter what I always have someone on my team, and no matter what I do she'll never go away.

I think it's important that you don't give up on finding someone like that for you to spend time with too... My friends enrich my life so much, we do all sorts of crazy stuff, and it's always fun. Sure friends may hurt you from time to time... But there's always time to make up. Just... Never stop trying... And don't stop believeing in people either, OK? finding friends is easier than you think... Just get down that wall already, give someone a smile, walk over there and talk to them, be HONEST, be yourself and I'm sure it'll work out just fine. Maybe you should tell your friends how you feel?
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29 / F / Brooklyn, NY
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Posted 10/29/07
I'm a complete loner by choice.

I'm a very quiet person by nature and I enjoy just looking around and observing everything around me. When I am with other people, they expect you to talk and to entertain them, etc. But I would rather not. I don't mind being by myself. I read, play video games, visit crunchyroll.

There is no drama when you are a loner! It's awesome!
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M / New Zealand
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Posted 10/29/07
sometimes it's good to be alone. not just all the time. lol!
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26 / M / secret
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Posted 10/30/07
i'm still alone even though i'm with friends.........
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18 / F / Canada
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Posted 10/30/07
How long have you been a loner?
Well in the begining of 3rd grade
Did you give up on people?
Yes, I had 2 best friends the year before, one moved then the other one started purposely ignoring me, gossiping about me pratically in my face.
if so, why?
Well my answer on top explains it all.
What do you generally dislike about them
She's a traitor, finds someone better, you're a goner.
How well does it suit you?
Being a loner...well I didn't like the awkward stares I got, it was pretty embarrassing but surprisingly I liked being alone. I got to think by myself and played by myself without anyone denying me privileges.
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26 / F / Nightscape
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Posted 10/30/07
Been a loner since elem school
I've only had one friend my entire life but i got a lot of associates
I guess i got trust issues and i'm shy
I'm fine with being a loner most of the time because when i hang around others i have to think and act in a certain way (i.e conform)
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25 / M / Singapore
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Posted 10/30/07
People are attracted to me but most of the time i don't engage myself with them
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25 / M / The World That Wa...
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Posted 10/31/07
I'm basically a loner, I never hang with more than one persona at a time, an spend all my free time playing games or watching anime..The stuff usual larry's do. Though I'm not unsocial, I can talk and befriend pretty much anyone, I'm a bubbly person...I just detest big crowds and prefer solitude.
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31 / F / Houston Tx.
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Posted 10/31/07
I am half and half.....I am mostly liking to just read but I will haging out will frands!
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25 / M / Somewhere over th...
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Posted 10/31/07
incredibly socially inept. Mostly because i cant hide the truth when i find ppl boring.
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73 / M
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Posted 10/31/07
Well. 90% or the ppl who post on topics like this are loners. lol
Posted 10/31/07
I like some time alone but I enjoy going out with a huge group of friends once in a while.
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