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Posted 5/17/08 , edited 8/9/08
"introvert" it is for me.
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26 / F / a dark unventilat...
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Posted 5/19/08
I used to be that way, I generally didn't like playing with other kids because I found it hard to relate to them... That all changed when I changed schools... I was the new kid and suddenly everyone wanted to be my friend... So yeah...
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Personally, I think a Loner won't even appear on crunchyroll =s...
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Posted 5/19/08

renako wrote:

Personally, I think a Loner won't even appear on crunchyroll =s...


Wouldn't it make more sense that more loners would appear here? The internet is a rather large hub for such people since it's so easy to feign the truth and not have to act yourself. There are no consequences for what you say/do. To me the internet is just a place to relieve my boredom, which it can effectively do.

I myself am a loner by nature. Certain types of people, for certain, annoy me to an almost sickening level. The morons, the retarded (like handicaps, yes it's cruel but I get annoyed when they start thinking I'm their best damn friend), the people that beg for attention, etc. But it's not like I completely hate the world. I like the occasional social event, hanging out with friends every now and then, generally though I keep to myself. And I like it like that. I'm not lonely. It's comforting to know that no one's gonna fuck with me, or annoy me, or piss me off when I'm by myself.

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Posted 5/20/08
Loner : A loner is a label for a person who avoids, or is isolated from human interaction.

Basically, you're interacting now.
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24 / M / Canada
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Posted 5/20/08
This is pixelated interaction.
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24 / F / Well, Who knows?...
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Posted 5/20/08
Well, you're still interacting with a human >.>

And...Enough of that XD
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Posted 5/21/08
Well, you could say I'm quite anti-social... Depending on the situation. If I'm with my friends, then no.. I'm actually quite sociable. But when I'm around strangers, I'm really quiet.
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Posted 5/21/08
~ well i can say that sometimes i preffered to be alone for some reasons... sometimes just to escape the others or sometimes i just dont want to be with them.. but i dont hate them i just want to be alone..! ~
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Posted 5/21/08

renako wrote:

Well, you're still interacting with a human >.>

And...Enough of that XD


Not really, I'm typing words on a keyboard from thousands of miles away
under an assumed identity
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Posted 5/21/08

abel89 wrote:


renako wrote:

Well, you're still interacting with a human >.>

And...Enough of that XD


Not really, I'm typing words on a keyboard from thousands of miles away
under an assumed identity



Well, you are still interacting with a human, unless you see me as some random AI interface.

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we have frens but we might not no dat we're loners... cuz u dun noe who's ur true frens unless you see clearly. i'm not quite a loner but it's better to be alone~ more peace n quiet.
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19 / F / Philippines
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Posted 5/22/08
well sometimes i am like a loner...
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Posted 5/22/08

abel89 wrote:

I'm pretty sure there are many people here with a good amount of friends, and that's cool and all

But I want to learn more about the loners here, and since there are 2 anti gender threads, it only makes sense to have an anti people thread as well.

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?

As a child I had very few friends and the few I had were questionable, I grew up looking white in a black neighborhood in the south, I was quite lonely back then and quite sad and at the time was despeerate for friends, to the point that I'd be overjoyed everytime someone offered to hang out with me, even when they were just using me as something to keep them busy before their real friends arrived and I'd be cast to the side, or lead into a group of kids so they could make fun of me, or worse.....

As I got a little older I became disgusted at what I was, a weak minded sycophant basically, so I quickly realized that people in general were fake and untrustworthy, and that I didn't need or want them hanging around me.

Today, I can say that I have never had a real friend, and that I keep myself guarded and on alert for liars and sluts and potential back stabbers, I trust the intention of a person trying to kill me more then that of a person who walks up to me with a smile on their face, at least then I can counteract those intentions with a proper response easily, as I like to say.......

"you can't get stabbed in the back if there's no one behind you"


i am a loner since i start schooling,
i do not give up on people, i am still here waiting for friends.
maybe i am too quiet, they just seldom come over and talk to me, only if they need my help.
don't ever be a loner, it sucks.

and you, don't worry about back stabbers unless they over the hedge. people do talk behind us, nothing we can do, right?
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abel89 wrote:

I'm pretty sure there are many people here with a good amount of friends, and that's cool and all

But I want to learn more about the loners here, and since there are 2 anti gender threads, it only makes sense to have an anti people thread as well.

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?

As a child I had very few friends and the few I had were questionable, I grew up looking white in a black neighborhood in the south, I was quite lonely back then and quite sad and at the time was despeerate for friends, to the point that I'd be overjoyed everytime someone offered to hang out with me, even when they were just using me as something to keep them busy before their real friends arrived and I'd be cast to the side, or lead into a group of kids so they could make fun of me, or worse.....

As I got a little older I became disgusted at what I was, a weak minded sycophant basically, so I quickly realized that people in general were fake and untrustworthy, and that I didn't need or want them hanging around me.

Today, I can say that I have never had a real friend, and that I keep myself guarded and on alert for liars and sluts and potential back stabbers, I trust the intention of a person trying to kill me more then that of a person who walks up to me with a smile on their face, at least then I can counteract those intentions with a proper response easily, as I like to say.......

"you can't get stabbed in the back if there's no one behind you"


It is true; you can't get stabbed in the back if there's no one behind you. totally agreed.
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It's 5 am. And I've read till page 16. I can't go on any further though.
Some maybe sharing here. Some maybe have read all the posts here. Some may have just read the very first post or at most the first page, wrote what they felt, hit enter and left the forum without further ado, Some just wanted to let out. Some think that a lot of people here are fake.
Well, this proves many things though.
1.The world doesn't revolve around me or you or him or her alone. We're not the only one feeling this way. There was a person who wrote, that there are people who are always surrounded by people, always interacting, but deep inside, they're lonely. How true.
2. Being a loner and being lonely are two different things. There are many people here who are lonely. but not loners.

Am I a loner? Loner means one who avoids people's company basically. When I'm out of school, yes, I become a loner. for the sake of self-control. i choose to be. and i'm not ashamed to admit it. But I will always need someone to talk to, from time to time. That's when I pull myself out from the loner zone. Some people say, it's either you are one or not at all. Hmmm, that got me into thinking.
And I find myself to reply, I am in total disagreement with that generalization. Things like full-time and part-time do exist after all.
I can't tell when I started being one, cuz I am not one all the time. But "part-time" yes. Ever since I was a child.
Giving up on people? Lol that is nostalgic.
I used to think that the world is hell, people in it suck, blah blah blah--the world has turned its back on me.
And then
became the turning point of my life. It is somewhere I belong to.
I may be going off topic here, but, be smart, be wise, be careful, be firm, say no if you need to (sometimes I find it hard too), and you will realize that this is what being human is all about.
Just don't be a social outcast, hey we're humans, we seek love and we want to love. and if carefully measured, love is a beautiful thing.
It's hard to be different. I know how society is. But we forget, we're also part of it.
But being a loner is not a bad thing. I like being alone. I can find something to do myself. I don't have to get affected by peer pressure at this moment of time. If you don't like the people around you, like yourself then. When you are alone, don't blame the world just because you don't fit in. You have all the time and space to think, how can I like myself further? Do I really want to experience social life to like myself? Maybe it's not my thing after all.
I don't like partying. I talk a lot sometimes and go overboard and so I find myself restraining a lot these days. I like writing more. It gives me time to think wisely.
It's hard when you are different because a thing called genetic mutation exists. It's hard when you can't escape from hereditary diseases because you were born with it. It's hard because you're scared, have low self-esteem or introvert. But you are born human, and there will always be people who know that, who understand that, who will love you for that, and who will want to make a change and do something about it. And these are the people who may not even know you. But they have you in their hearts, in their prayers, in their blessings, some in their dreams(I don't mean sleeping dreams, no) and works.

Oh dear. I feel like I'm blogging already. Ok time to end.
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