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24 / F / nowhere to be found
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Posted 8/25/08
I love my friends and all... (I'm not exaggarating when I say I have lots), but sometimes I just want to be left alone. Friends are a whole lot of fun, but it's also extremely tiring having to give of yourself all the time. Pluss when you're with friends you always laugh and have to be happy and stuff (which is really cool, but also exhausting).

I'm not a loner, because I really need my friends to fully be me sometimes, but we all need a break too right?
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geren_ribon wrote:

being a loner is quite fun..

you can't really count on people for any thing they always leave
you behind at some point so there isn't much point in having friends


... Okay that was a joke right? I really hope it was. Sorry, but friends are fantastic. Doesn't matter if they'll eventually leave or whatever. I mean shitt happens, and you have friends for the sake of right now.

(I do think some friends never leave you though. Like my 3 bestfriends whom I grew up with. I mean we've known eachother 18 years already... Obviously we've done pretty nasty things to eachother within that time as well, but it's completely outweighed by the good times.)
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29 / M / Seattle
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These past few weeks have been a great reminder of why it is good to be a loner. I have a friend, a MALE friend.. for potential stalkers who might use this post as ammo against me. Who just cannot be alone, every waking minute he has to hang out with me. I do what I can, but I need my alone time. I feel bad for the poor guy. What would happen if I died or suddenly got transferred to another state or country? He might go insane.


geren_ribon wrote:

being a loner is quite fun..

you can't really count on people for any thing they always leave
you behind at some point so there isn't much point in having friends
Indeed people often times rely on others too much, to the point of where they cannot function. While friends are nice in the end if you cannot make it through life alone you are doomed to misery.




kentanbw wrote:
Just a question is there a diff between a loner and been anti-social?
Umm Anti-social is an often times misused term. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-social While yes some parts of the term fall under what most call anti-social people who are loners are in fact never really the proper definition.... Just being a nit-picky ass sorry
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well..i just tend to not talk to other people as much. i just want to so home and go on internet.
i dont try to make an efffort on calling back my friends or to hang out sometimes.
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i don't know if i'm considered a loner, but i often am alone, usually because it's my choice. i never quite feel lonely, alothough i do sometimes notice the fact that its very quite, and i've got no one beside me. i've got friends, but no one i would consider a best friend. i havent lost faith in humanity or whatever, i guess im just not very enthusiastic about this kinda thing.
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I used to like being the center of attention, the life of the party, the class clown.....but those days are over! with every passing day I find my self wanting to shun the world. I'm not saying that I want to become a Hikimori or any thing like that but people are just so DAMNED stupid now a days you know?
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Posted 8/26/08
Being a loner is better for me anyway. That way, I don't have any much problems in my life. Just doing my thing without much to worry.
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gravion17 wrote:

I used to like being the center of attention, the life of the party, the class clown.....but those days are over! with every passing day I find my self wanting to shun the world. I'm not saying that I want to become a Hikimori or any thing like that but people are just so DAMNED stupid now a days you know?


Believe me, I know the feeling. Just don't get any thoughts about purging the insignificant imbeciles who populate our world. You might just end up like me.

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Eririel wrote:


gravion17 wrote:

I used to like being the center of attention, the life of the party, the class clown.....but those days are over! with every passing day I find my self wanting to shun the world. I'm not saying that I want to become a Hikimori or any thing like that but people are just so DAMNED stupid now a days you know?


Believe me, I know the feeling. Just don't get any thoughts about purging the insignificant imbeciles who populate our world. You might just end up like me.



Much too late 4 that my friend...much 2 late...but we still have Darwinism!

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Posted 8/26/08
being alone... hmm... sometimes... i become a loner... but whenever I try and get away from people, they always wanted to talk to me. I dunno why...

I feel like I'm just a burden in this world most of the time. So I often wanted to be loner. in that way, I wouldn't hurt myself and I won't hurt the others around me.
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i believe in no one else except myself.
i believe in nothing other than myself.
no one is to be trusted except myself.
everything is about me.
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Posted 8/26/08

geren_ribon wrote:

being a loner is quite fun..

you can't really count on people for any thing they always leave
you behind at some point so there isn't much point in having friends


what's fun about it?
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Posted 9/1/08
i'm a loner... i don't know maybe bec. i'm pretty shy around people too.... when i'm with my friends i seem to think that i'm the odd one out.... even when i'm i'm surrounded by friends i just can't help feeling depressed.... i must be nuts!!!
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24 / M / Arizona
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Posted 9/12/08
I was never really a loner but now that I am finish with High school. I don't really have anyone to talk to except people on vent.

Thinking of taking a year of courses or joining into the army.

But maybe I am missing the point since I didn't read all of the other posts
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21 / F
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Posted 9/12/08
I'm a huge loner. I mean, I like people, and I'd like to make friends. But I never make the effort. I was always alone until 6th grade. I never really had a best friend. I just roamed around the playground alone. In 6th grade, I made friends, but I was still a loner. I still am. While people are hanging out and doing whatever, I'm here just here.
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