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Posted 9/12/08
I was a loner in college because of the society it had. The society heavily deviates from my interests (people there hated anime and sh!t) and it presses me to conform yet I refused. I did make friends, but it was the "hi and bye" kind. I feel like the 'wise hermit' kind of loner. People only try to make 'friends' with me when they seek advice about something or when they need help with an assignment or a project. But nothing usually develops after that, I was just used in the end. I've pretty much gotten used to the loner lifestyle, sticking to a few close people to talk to just to vent out a few things.

Other than that, I still have my close friends from high school and my internet friends.
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Posted 9/13/08
I'm not a loner but i choose to be.
i started to feel that i'm not myself when i was with my friends. Even though they arnt the bad people, the two faced or lairs. i never felt like i was me when i am with them but i'm starting to realise why i'm acting that way when i'm with them, its because i don't trust. i don't tell them personal feelings or problems like they do to me; it makes me feel uneasy when they ask me because i'd just avoid it and feel unfair.
i'm that type of person who'd help, support and care when a friend is in trouble. i can be a wise 65 year old but in other moments i'm a 5 year old who doesn't know what trust is. I can be that best friend but i don't have one (err.. hope that makes sense)


i don't really know what i'm talking about but i guess i'm trying to say is that your not a loner or alone, you just choose to be because u don't know how to trust/ be with people because of bad experiences. you want to be alone because your afraid to step out of that shell of yours, you fear the pain and changes; so you run away. But its the next step in life you have to take sooner or later. there is always, always a person out there that is willing to be a friend (or more! *wink wink*), you just need to open your circle wider.
but if your happy the way you are and how you spend your days, it doesn't really matter but i know loneliness is nowhere near the feeling of happiness.


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Posted 9/13/08

abel89 wrote:

I'm pretty sure there are many people here with a good amount of friends, and that's cool and all

But I want to learn more about the loners here, and since there are 2 anti gender threads, it only makes sense to have an anti people thread as well.

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?

As a child I had very few friends and the few I had were questionable, I grew up looking white in a black neighborhood in the south, I was quite lonely back then and quite sad and at the time was despeerate for friends, to the point that I'd be overjoyed everytime someone offered to hang out with me, even when they were just using me as something to keep them busy before their real friends arrived and I'd be cast to the side, or lead into a group of kids so they could make fun of me, or worse.....

As I got a little older I became disgusted at what I was, a weak minded sycophant basically, so I quickly realized that people in general were fake and untrustworthy, and that I didn't need or want them hanging around me.

Today, I can say that I have never had a real friend, and that I keep myself guarded and on alert for liars and sluts and potential back stabbers, I trust the intention of a person trying to kill me more then that of a person who walks up to me with a smile on their face, at least then I can counteract those intentions with a proper response easily, as I like to say.......

"you can't get stabbed in the back if there's no one behind you"


you are just like my newly found friend. A classmate... We talked and i discovered that she was agoraphobic. She really thinks that she is alone in this world... that everything is shaking and is slowly disintegrating.... She never trusts..... for she fears that we would soon disappear... She has difficulty in understanding this world.... She stands out for not being that social... even called at the guidance office of our school... she has questions like... "WHY DO I HAVE TO FIT IN?!"

hmmm.... this world.... indeed is full of "plastics". Everyday....every time... people lie....

LIES!... LIES!.. LIES!....
we must... in order to survive... i, myself... think that this so-called society of well dressed people sucks. bunch of fakes.... but we must be fakes.... to coexist.....

i hate it too..... but... we have to.... live with it.

what choice do we have??

those that don't understand think they understand... that has always been the situation...

to the extent that people fool themselves..... pffft.



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Posted 9/13/08
i was always quiet i had friens but i never spoke 2 em much even wen they lived next door i noticed how they were only friends wit me cause of my cousin they liked so much i started 2 feel evry1 would do dat so i would b alone in skool i never tlked so ppl left me alone but i got lonly and made friends but i still prefer 2 b alone somtimes som of u r right being a lnoer is bittersweet
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Posted 9/15/08
sometimes && i really dont mind being alone!
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Posted 9/15/08
since childhood i was indeed a loner b/c in the household im the only girl child and i did not have someone to talk to and i only had two bros. and its not the same and im a very shy girl so sometimes i will b lonely and sometimes i have a great time w/ friends and closed relatives like my cousins hehehe well it depends of each persons loneliness like love, friendship, family, and much more!! (///_^)!!!!
Posted 9/15/08

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?


im not actually a loner.. but i prefer being alone...
estimating how long.. its probably since 6th grade...
because i get bored with people... especially if they are the ones i see everyday.
again.. cause they bore me...
hmm... not very well if i may say. >.<
Posted 9/15/08
i've been called a loner eventho i dnt like being alone
Posted 9/15/08

cheestrings wrote:

i've been called a loner eventho i dnt like being alone


that sucks, do you know the reason why you're being called a loner?
Posted 9/15/08
I prefer solitude rather than having a bunch of idiots surrounding me. I prefer solitude, because it is one of the times when my mind is the most productive. I love solitude, because nobody is around to always b*tch around about your wrong-doings. Solitude is one of the moments where I can fully enjoy myself, and my thoughts. Thinking about life and important issues, without people bashing my opinion. ;)

Floetry~
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Posted 9/15/08
I blame my childhood for the most part of why I'm a loner
it's because of those "events" and those "teachings" that I feel that I will always be alone
and I've felt and believed that for just about my whole life

I wouldn't really say that I've given up on people, but that I've given up on myself, and so they gave up on me
I suppose that it's because I "know" the outcome that I feel that trying not to be alone will be pointless
so I can't really blame them
it's amazing that I still have friends who are there for me


I won't deny that I'm a bit negative when it comes to myself
but being a loner has been a part of who I am since I was very young
I was a quiet child then, and I still pretty much am now
I enjoy loneliness more than I enjoy the company of others
Posted 9/15/08

Poison_Of_The_Heart wrote:

that sucks, do you know the reason why you're being called a loner?


coz they dnt know wot 'loner' means, or they like to assume when they dnt know the full picture.
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Posted 9/22/08
Loner...
i dnt think there is such things as that....
we tend to be alone sometimes
but we also had friends, ryt?

no man is an island...
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Posted 9/22/08
loners doesnt mean lonely
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Posted 9/29/08 , edited 9/29/08
How long have you been a loner?
pretty much all my life

Did you give up on people?
yes, very easily

if so, why?
im just not interested,

What do you generally dislike about them
i usually find them annoying, i rarely find someone that i can get along with

How well does it suit you?
very very well, i happen to like it a lot.... i have few friends to i also like to be with them but they are living far away so i dont have anyone to hang aroud with now.... but that doesn't bother me either
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