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26 / F / new york
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Posted 10/5/08
a loner dosent always mean keeping away from people all togather it could also mean you just like doing things by yourself. im a loner but its not always good to be alone cuz you get used to it like i did i dont even like being noticed when i walk down the street i dont want people to see me... thats just me
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22 / F / on the beach...
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Posted 10/7/08
there's always a time for me to become alone..
..but sometimes, i hate being alone.. like when i'm
in school.. i hate being with no one... like no one to talk to
and to do things at the same time like eating....

but before i prefer being alone..
..because i think before that it's better to be alone than be
out of place in a certain group..

but now... i've finally found myself... in the place where i should be...
that's why i'm not anymore a loner..
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Posted 10/15/08
I've always been a loner, and well, I managed to find a guy as lonely as me; and now, we are making ourselves companion while we spend our loneliness together.
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26 / F / new york
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i think i answered this before but im not sure? i love being a loner because i find that i dont get angry that much because of people. i dont really stress out over nothing, i dont have to deal with the talkers, the fighters, and the rowdies as much, because i steer myself away as far as possible i dont really look at people because of those (why are you looking at me i wanna fight you kind of people)and my life is much quieter not to mention im not in the mix so theres no she said he said shit around me. i like being by myself i guess because im so used to not partying and going out that i sorta dont even want to unless im shopping but other than that i stayed locked up in my room. sometimes no one even knows if im home because they wouldnt see me from morning until night so its like, im socialable but not socialable, quiet but not quiet, there but not really there, that sort of thing... and not having a boyfriend is the gold
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Personally, I think a Loner won't even appear on crunchyroll =s...


They do when they get lonely from being a loner. Harr...!

I'm actually pretty border-line loner atm. Trying to get out of it though. At the peek of my antics, I went a little over a month without seeing another person. After going so long without human interaction you start to go a little crazy. :<
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jay_jay26 wrote:

I've always been a loner, and well, I managed to find a guy as lonely as me; and now, we are making ourselves companion while we spend our loneliness together.


i wonder how you guys loners can spend time being together...

(perhaps most of the time can hear the clock moving or the sound of the mouse chitting)

ne...joking
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Posted 10/21/08
i'm not a loner what so ever.
but i've got tons of "loner" friends.
it's depressing how depressing they really are =|

but i guess it's a work in progress..
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24 / M / somewhere on eart...
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Posted 10/21/08
I'm a loner but at least i make a bit of effort to make friends with others. My teachers always think that i'm damn quiet and lonely but most of friends find me quite lively.
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Posted 10/21/08

wych_elm wrote:


jay_jay26 wrote:

I've always been a loner, and well, I managed to find a guy as lonely as me; and now, we are making ourselves companion while we spend our loneliness together.


i wonder how you guys loners can spend time being together...

(perhaps most of the time can hear the clock moving or the sound of the mouse chitting)

ne...joking


nice joke

we like to read manga, watch anime, play video games and
.
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Posted 10/21/08
Not me.. I Always have company...MOSTLY in skl... XD

I Feel sorry for Lones some times... or shud i say i always do... they dont have friends.. they dont have company.. and they cant share their feelings ... and THATS the worst part
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Posted 10/21/08

jay_jay26 wrote:


wych_elm wrote:


jay_jay26 wrote:

I've always been a loner, and well, I managed to find a guy as lonely as me; and now, we are making ourselves companion while we spend our loneliness together.


i wonder how you guys loners can spend time being together...

(perhaps most of the time can hear the clock moving or the sound of the mouse chitting)

ne...joking


nice joke

we like to read manga, watch anime, play video games and
.


soka...i wonder that too if the same case applied [see above, my quoted post ]
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First off let us get this fact straight, a true loner isn't lonely, so if you call yourself a loner but you feel lonely your something totally different, your called a loser not a loner, and this may or may not surprise you, those with friends or family are lonely. My reasoning to these facts are because if you need friends its cause you don't like being alone, therefore lonely, if you are alone and feel lonely its cause you don't have the courage to find friends, and lastly, if you don't need friends to hang around its cause you aren't lonely.
Being a loner means you have a reason and those reasons, to me, are very interesting. I like being alone because it's bother to be with 'people' since in all their heads are the same things. Though I may like discussing stuff I like for example anime it doesn't mean I really care about your opinions, I just wanna state out mine. I know a lot of people are superior to me in many ways but I'm still going to look down on those people as if they are insects. Those who call themselves happy are annoying, all of them have a narrow view of the world itself. I myself have only known happiness for shorts periods of time, about half a day at most. Since I know other things are going on, Iraq war, Poverty, Murders, Abuse, blah blah blah. All of this has become such a bother I don't even care anymore. So in other words all memories are meaningless and all feelings disappear with time to me.
The reason I choose to not be a loner even though I hate people is because it is more convenient to hang around people I don't care about for like 5 hours of my day than hear how weird and mean I look.
So I'm ranting too long and if you've read thing far, then I'd say your wasting your time, nobody's opinions but your should matter, so unless you've given up on everything like me then you shouldn't take this into consideration. I hate people, I hate the evil in people, words like humane, civilized, intelligent, superior and such used to describe humans are made by themselves so they hide from the truth. They cause the problems in the world, nothing else does, it's people that make others suffer.
Meh, I'm talking too much, well if you actually want to hear more then your gonna have to ask, cause if I write any longer I'm gonna get some hate mail.
I'll leave with this, Life is meaningless and this excludes no one and nothing, the world is nothing but a container for corruption, hate, and illusions to allow us to escape from reality.
P.S. If you think I'm a loser, weirdo, idiot, or w/e then complain as I've stated I don't care...
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Posted 10/22/08

wych_elm wrote:


jay_jay26 wrote:


wych_elm wrote:


jay_jay26 wrote:

I've always been a loner, and well, I managed to find a guy as lonely as me; and now, we are making ourselves companion while we spend our loneliness together.


i wonder how you guys loners can spend time being together...

(perhaps most of the time can hear the clock moving or the sound of the mouse chitting)

ne...joking


nice joke

we like to read manga, watch anime, play video games and
.


soka...i wonder that too if the same case applied [see above, my quoted post ]


whatever

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KariKun wrote:

First off let us get this fact straight, a true loner isn't lonely, so if you call yourself a loner but you feel lonely your something totally different, your called a loser not a loner, and this may or may not surprise you, those with friends or family are lonely. My reasoning to these facts are because if you need friends its cause you don't like being alone, therefore lonely, if you are alone and feel lonely its cause you don't have the courage to find friends, and lastly, if you don't need friends to hang around its cause you aren't lonely.
Being a loner means you have a reason and those reasons, to me, are very interesting. I like being alone because it's bother to be with 'people' since in all their heads are the same things. Though I may like discussing stuff I like for example anime it doesn't mean I really care about your opinions, I just wanna state out mine. I know a lot of people are superior to me in many ways but I'm still going to look down on those people as if they are insects. Those who call themselves happy are annoying, all of them have a narrow view of the world itself. I myself have only known happiness for shorts periods of time, about half a day at most. Since I know other things are going on, Iraq war, Poverty, Murders, Abuse, blah blah blah. All of this has become such a bother I don't even care anymore. So in other words all memories are meaningless and all feelings disappear with time to me.
The reason I choose to not be a loner even though I hate people is because it is more convenient to hang around people I don't care about for like 5 hours of my day than hear how weird and mean I look.
So I'm ranting too long and if you've read thing far, then I'd say your wasting your time, nobody's opinions but your should matter, so unless you've given up on everything like me then you shouldn't take this into consideration. I hate people, I hate the evil in people, words like humane, civilized, intelligent, superior and such used to describe humans are made by themselves so they hide from the truth. They cause the problems in the world, nothing else does, it's people that make others suffer.
Meh, I'm talking too much, well if you actually want to hear more then your gonna have to ask, cause if I write any longer I'm gonna get some hate mail.
I'll leave with this, Life is meaningless and this excludes no one and nothing, the world is nothing but a container for corruption, hate, and illusions to allow us to escape from reality.
P.S. If you think I'm a loser, weirdo, idiot, or w/e then complain as I've stated I don't care...


You're touching on wayyy more issues than just being a loner. If I had time right now, I'd write you back a wall of text three times the size of this, it would make for a good debate. But since I'm short on time I'll just touch on the loner portion.

The fact is everyone has a time in their life when they need to be alone, and everyone has a time in their life when they need another person. The thing that changes is how often and when those times are. You can not like people, or rather, want to get away from spending a lot of time from people because you see their ugly faces everyday... but that doesn't make you one by definition. At some point or another most people will be irritated with spending so much time with big crowds and will want to take a break (for whatever reason). Some more than others. There are those who prefer being by themselves most of the time, but in general, being a true loner (definition being you avoid all social contact), just isn't practical. If you've ever gone completely into seclusion before, you'll realize how impossible it is to survive in society by having zero contact with people.

The only cases where such a lifestyle even exists is if you either have someone giving you food/money and you live locked up somewhere. By that accord, a loner actually relies on another person - which isn't very "avoiding social contact" of them. Or, you could probably do it by being a hermit, and being very knowledgeable about how to survive in the wild... Maybe. But that's a huge risk factor that would probably lead to your death in a week though. If you want to survive in the world, you sadly have to talk to people, and build connections. If you don't, you'll probably just starve to death in your room.

Okay, my example was a little extreme. But, everyone seems to have their own definition of what a loner is, based on their own experiences of who's the most anti-social it seems. This entire topic is pretty ambiguous. But anyway, my point is, at some point or another "loners" still need to rely on other people, and have to be social. It's not even a matter of feeling lonely as a loner, but more so the realization that you can't truly live alone. People just seem to label those who are less social than themselves as loners, rather than having any particular definition on the matter.
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baka2000 wrote:


KariKun wrote:

First off let us get this fact straight, a true loner isn't lonely, so if you call yourself a loner but you feel lonely your something totally different, your called a loser not a loner, and this may or may not surprise you, those with friends or family are lonely. My reasoning to these facts are because if you need friends its cause you don't like being alone, therefore lonely, if you are alone and feel lonely its cause you don't have the courage to find friends, and lastly, if you don't need friends to hang around its cause you aren't lonely.
Being a loner means you have a reason and those reasons, to me, are very interesting. I like being alone because it's bother to be with 'people' since in all their heads are the same things. Though I may like discussing stuff I like for example anime it doesn't mean I really care about your opinions, I just wanna state out mine. I know a lot of people are superior to me in many ways but I'm still going to look down on those people as if they are insects. Those who call themselves happy are annoying, all of them have a narrow view of the world itself. I myself have only known happiness for shorts periods of time, about half a day at most. Since I know other things are going on, Iraq war, Poverty, Murders, Abuse, blah blah blah. All of this has become such a bother I don't even care anymore. So in other words all memories are meaningless and all feelings disappear with time to me.
The reason I choose to not be a loner even though I hate people is because it is more convenient to hang around people I don't care about for like 5 hours of my day than hear how weird and mean I look.
So I'm ranting too long and if you've read thing far, then I'd say your wasting your time, nobody's opinions but your should matter, so unless you've given up on everything like me then you shouldn't take this into consideration. I hate people, I hate the evil in people, words like humane, civilized, intelligent, superior and such used to describe humans are made by themselves so they hide from the truth. They cause the problems in the world, nothing else does, it's people that make others suffer.
Meh, I'm talking too much, well if you actually want to hear more then your gonna have to ask, cause if I write any longer I'm gonna get some hate mail.
I'll leave with this, Life is meaningless and this excludes no one and nothing, the world is nothing but a container for corruption, hate, and illusions to allow us to escape from reality.
P.S. If you think I'm a loser, weirdo, idiot, or w/e then complain as I've stated I don't care...


You're touching on wayyy more issues than just being a loner. If I had time right now, I'd write you back a wall of text three times the size of this, it would make for a good debate. But since I'm short on time I'll just touch on the loner portion.

The fact is everyone has a time in their life when they need to be alone, and everyone has a time in their life when they need another person. The thing that changes is how often and when those times are. You can not like people, or rather, want to get away from spending a lot of time from people because you see their ugly faces everyday... but that doesn't make you one by definition. At some point or another most people will be irritated with spending so much time with big crowds and will want to take a break (for whatever reason). Some more than others. There are those who prefer being by themselves most of the time, but in general, being a true loner (definition being you avoid all social contact), just isn't practical. If you've ever gone completely into seclusion before, you'll realize how impossible it is to survive in society by having zero contact with people.

The only cases where such a lifestyle even exists is if you either have someone giving you food/money and you live locked up somewhere. By that accord, a loner actually relies on another person - which isn't very "avoiding social contact" of them. Or, you could probably do it by being a hermit, and being very knowledgeable about how to survive in the wild... Maybe. But that's a huge risk factor that would probably lead to your death in a week though. If you want to survive in the world, you sadly have to talk to people, and build connections. If you don't, you'll probably just starve to death in your room.

Okay, my example was a little extreme. But, everyone seems to have their own definition of what a loner is, based on their own experiences of who's the most anti-social it seems. This entire topic is pretty ambiguous. But anyway, my point is, at some point or another "loners" still need to rely on other people, and have to be social. It's not even a matter of feeling lonely as a loner, but more so the realization that you can't truly live alone. People just seem to label those who are less social than themselves as loners, rather than having any particular definition on the matter.


Well that was a lot, and I guess thanks for taking the time to type something so long, but like you said loner may be viewed in different point. Personally a loner to me is a person who has no real friends and is not happy with things they do and rather be by themselves. Your view seems kinda extreme but it is a possibility to be viewed as that I guess, as well, I myself prefer being alone in a different way. I like to think alone and keep my own thoughts and dislike others pushing their opinions and such onto me, so thats what friends are, that is the exact reason I don't consider people friends nor really enjoy their company.

Your right, without others we cannot live, and we must depend on one another to survive and progress, but it doesn't mean its enjoyable so you may work with them in body but not in mind or spirit so thats a loner to me, and by these standards it means to me I see everything and everyone as nothing but a tool in which we use to build our lives as well as society, so to be alone physically may kill you, but being alone in thought and soul seem a lot more sad and lonely to me, even if you are with others all the time, family, friends, everyone in this world is a loner by my perspective. Nobody understands you better than yourself, so unless a person knows you as well as yourself it seems, well to me, that your alone in many ways.
The saying birds of a feather flock together mean that you choose people alike to be around because you are more interested in people like you rather than those different.

Also don't mind if I speak of a number of issues at a time please, my mind scatters all the time when I'm part way through doing something, I'm guessing in the text I just typed is also kinda scattered...hehe...
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