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Posted 12/6/08
Being a loner is just okay.. Its better to be alone than to have a friends who aren't that good.
Posted 12/6/08
im not shy at all and make friends fast so... no
i hate when i try to make conversation to the person sitting next to me and they dont respond. Its really rude, the reason most people dislike loners is because they might have a great personality but they ignore other people. People see this as disrespective and then bully them.
At least thats how i see it, if some loners just spoke a bit more often people would like them.
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Posted 12/6/08 , edited 12/6/08
Loner has been defined to be such a derogatory term and it annoys me when people associate me with this idea. I don't mind people around me, but I do mind the idiocy that normally comes with the general population.

I prefer to called "Independent", rather than a "loner".
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Posted 12/6/08
i'm a loner kind of
i have 1 true friend and i've known him for like 5 years and we still keep in touch even though i moved
other then that i know people but i don't like to hang out with them, i like to be by myself
but the funny thing to it is everyone says i'm really outgoing--and in school i'm popular xD
but to me i'm a LONER!!!!
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Posted 1/8/09
I'm loner sometimes because there are days that I don't feel like being around people. So instead of being mean and snapping at people, I find a quiet place to be by myself.
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Posted 1/8/09
Being a loner is a psychological disorder, its called social anxiety.

Its OK to have alone time sometimes, but social interaction is crucial to healthy human development.

Loners in caveman times died of starvation.
Posted 1/8/09
You know what ,when I was in my previous country I didn't need to talk but people still make friend with me and I talk a lot and had many friends. When I'm in U.S , at first I don't understand English so you could say a whole day at school I didn't even open my mouth .And when I finished elementary school , I'm unable to make any friend (for some reason I'm become verrry quiet) so right now Zero friend at school. How I wish to return to my old self .*
Posted 1/8/09

mcvf wrote:

im not shy at all and make friends fast so... no
i hate when i try to make conversation to the person sitting next to me and they dont respond. Its really rude, the reason most people dislike loners is because they might have a great personality but they ignore other people. People see this as disrespective and then bully them.
At least thats how i see it, if some loners just spoke a bit more often people would like them.


Because they too shy to say anything , especially someone suddenly talking to them when there normally no one does . (I understand that feeling ) So try to be nice to them ~ please.. ^ ^
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Posted 1/8/09

Nayru wrote:

Being a loner is a psychological disorder, its called social anxiety.

Its OK to have alone time sometimes, but social interaction is crucial to healthy human development.

Loners in caveman times died of starvation.


or they died of extinction because they couldnt pick up a girl.
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Shamela24 wrote:

I'm loner sometimes because there are days that I don't feel like being around people. So instead of being mean and snapping at people, I find a quiet place to be by myself.


OMG ME TOO!!!! we're so alike, we must be sisters..from another mother.
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Posted 1/9/09

Teresa_Yuuki wrote:


Shamela24 wrote:

I'm loner sometimes because there are days that I don't feel like being around people. So instead of being mean and snapping at people, I find a quiet place to be by myself.


OMG ME TOO!!!! we're so alike, we must be sisters..from another mother.


Cool, I've got another sister.
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1201987 wrote:

You know what ,when I was in my previous country I didn't need to talk but people still make friend with me and I talk a lot and had many friends. When I'm in U.S , at first I don't understand English so you could say a whole day at school I didn't even open my mouth .And when I finished elementary school , I'm unable to make any friend (for some reason I'm become verrry quiet) so right now Zero friend at school. How I wish to return to my old self .*


that's all right...everyone has there own hard times adjusting...but i suggest that you take the first step in making friends...and don't be afraid to talk to your mates...
Posted 1/9/09

abel89 wrote:

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?


I've always been a loner. While I've always been very pupolar, I never really cared for people or having a lot of friends. I'm just more pleased being with myself than being with others.

I don't give up on people. People are people with their flaws just like I have mine. I don't expect anything of others and I can't really argue that my ideas, points of view, etc, are any better than theirs.

I don't like people cause I don't really "click" with others. I had a girlfriend for a couple of years and she was the closest thing I've been to meeting someone on my "level". I have a hard time feeling comfortable or relax in the company of others, I guess because people aren't like me and because I hate having to act like having as much interest in people as they have in me.

Being a loner suits me well ^_^ Leaves me with myself and I love it that way.

Posted 1/9/09

raitoH wrote:


1201987 wrote:

You know what ,when I was in my previous country I didn't need to talk but people still make friend with me and I talk a lot and had many friends. When I'm in U.S , at first I don't understand English so you could say a whole day at school I didn't even open my mouth .And when I finished elementary school , I'm unable to make any friend (for some reason I'm become verrry quiet) so right now Zero friend at school. How I wish to return to my old self .*


that's all right...everyone has there own hard times adjusting...but i suggest that you take the first step in making friends...and don't be afraid to talk to your mates...


Yup, but I'll will be see as weird if I suddenly talking , but I'm going to transfer , I will have another chance. (thank for the advice)
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Posted 1/9/09
have friends but i'm not the type to call them over the phone or aim/text them. i don't really go out and party with them. i stay home all the time except for school, store, etc. if they want to talk about something, i would be happy to listen to them but other than that, i feel like the outcast when i'm around my friends since i don't talk much. i would whether much listen... so, yeah, i guess i'm a loner.
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