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Posted 1/13/09

KariKun wrote:


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people are loners because they are just simply jealous. thats all there is to it no slef esteem at all


I don't like your way of thought, never the less it's your choice to think as you like, but at least try to think of other circumstances for loners cause sometimes it ain't easy. I don't see anything to be jealous of either, I'm a loner but I'm pretty content, it's peaceful, I'm not as ignorant cause I spend time in a sort of meditating type thing(don't ask), and I just plainly live life without worrying over buying gifts for so and so, or going to this person's party. Socializing is troublesome so being a loner makes life easier.


Lets see how can i put this. I life your gonna have to do things you don't like you can't really do things that makes you happy all the time if u do well ur just plain ignorant and self fish(not that i'm calling you those things) i'm just saying in general. Me personally i don't talk to friends that much but i do have friends and they always argue with me about why i don't have a cell phone for example and for me it's not that i'm a loner it's just because i don't see the point in getting one since i see them at school or work or i got msn on my computer. I do have friends and i socialize with them because it puts them at ease and me aswell so it's never really troublesome. From research etc i'm just saying loners just have slef esteem problems (maybe they can't soclize properly) and some are just jealous of others.

But hey be a loner but you are gonna have to do something you don't like to make people feel at ease. IT's like how would you feel if your parents won't socialize with you and vise versa they will never know whats wrong with you and you will never know whats wrong with them etc. i just hope i'm making a clear point and not confusing anyone.
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Posted 1/13/09

Bashment wrote:


KariKun wrote:


Bashment wrote:

people are loners because they are just simply jealous. thats all there is to it no slef esteem at all


I don't like your way of thought, never the less it's your choice to think as you like, but at least try to think of other circumstances for loners cause sometimes it ain't easy. I don't see anything to be jealous of either, I'm a loner but I'm pretty content, it's peaceful, I'm not as ignorant cause I spend time in a sort of meditating type thing(don't ask), and I just plainly live life without worrying over buying gifts for so and so, or going to this person's party. Socializing is troublesome so being a loner makes life easier.


Lets see how can i put this. I life your gonna have to do things you don't like you can't really do things that makes you happy all the time if u do well ur just plain ignorant and self fish(not that i'm calling you those things) i'm just saying in general. Me personally i don't talk to friends that much but i do have friends and they always argue with me about why i don't have a cell phone for example and for me it's not that i'm a loner it's just because i don't see the point in getting one since i see them at school or work or i got msn on my computer. I do have friends and i socialize with them because it puts them at ease and me aswell so it's never really troublesome. From research etc i'm just saying loners just have slef esteem problems (maybe they can't soclize properly) and some are just jealous of others.

But hey be a loner but you are gonna have to do something you don't like to make people feel at ease. IT's like how would you feel if your parents won't socialize with you and vise versa they will never know whats wrong with you and you will never know whats wrong with them etc. i just hope i'm making a clear point and not confusing anyone.


That all? Socializing can be called troublesome for me cause I like to think to myself and not be bothered, and I think a lot so I like being alone a lot. It's common sense for me to want to be alone if I don't like being bothered as I think. But to tell you the truth I don't do anything I dislike even though I may make others feel uneasy around me, but then again being a loner draws people in, so it's not like I'm always alone, people gather around me to talk, I just prefer being alone.

Yea, and the parent thing? I don't communicate with them very much anyways, I can get what their problems are from just seeing them for a short while, then again they don't notice a thing about me so I have to speak when there are issues I have to talk about.
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I hang out with people during school, but we rarely interact other than that. Kind of sad, but whatever.
Posted 1/28/09
i used to be a loner since
elementary days til noww..
i just cnt cope up with other people..
and now im taking a course which is related to people.. hmm.
but being a loner is a crime on our group.. [college friends.. watevva]
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Posted 1/28/09
being a loner can up your risk of developing dementia.
fact.
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Yeah this is me,but probably more of chronic shyness,and the fact when people talk sometimes im not listening.i never speak in school unless spoken too first and usually its because people feel sorry for me......i also hate going on tours with groups because im always on my own.id like to speak sometimes but i just cant.i also like to have some alone time too.i have got one really good friend though (not in school)and everyones friendly enough to me at school.i guess my personalityis prettty dark and people avoid me because they think im weird,and i am.......i spend most of the time daydreaming.i suck at small talk
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Posted 1/28/09
Less talking = More thinking.
Posted 1/28/09
I Just Can't Trust People.
Not Even My Own Flesh & Blood.
There's Like Only 2 Girls At College.
I Would Trust With Most Things.
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28 / M / Maui
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Posted 1/28/09
Even though i have a bit of a large family and am surrounded by great friends, I am a loner. I like the peacefulness, i like to think a lot too, do my own thing.
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Posted 1/28/09
I am a loner because when I was younger I didn't really have any friends so I always tried to make friends with everyone even if they bullied or used me; I was fine with it cause I was desperate for friends. But then as I got older I started to hate myself for being such a loser so I basically cut my self off from the people I used to call friends. But I do still have a few really good friend that I plan on rooming with just I don't have that many friends. I have acquiescents. Also I am painfully shy around people I don't know, so its makes it kinda hard to meet new people
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Posted 1/28/09

Teresa_Yuuki wrote:

being a loner can up your risk of developing dementia.
fact.


Post proof before you go stating something is facctttt yooo
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Posted 1/29/09

h3ntie wrote:


Teresa_Yuuki wrote:

being a loner can up your risk of developing dementia.
fact.


Post proof before you go stating something is facctttt yooo


fook you. makin me look bad on forumz.
Posted 2/1/09
i am.....in real life anyway
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Posted 2/1/09

Teresa_Yuuki wrote:

being a loner can up your risk of developing dementia.
fact.


xD. I see the irony of this post.
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yeah i'm a loner, and i don't care at all.
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