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23 / M / Cavite, Philippines
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Posted 6/13/09
How long have you been a loner?

Ever since I can remember.

Did you give up on people? if so, why?

Well I tried to be friendly, but I hate the chaos that ensues when they're talking all at the same time and all the useless noise they create. At times even though I'm only talking to a single person, I easily get bored and wished to be left alone.

What do you generally dislike about them.

Useless chatter and untrustworthiness.

How well does it suit you?

It suits me just perfectly, a secret between three persons are best kept if the two are dead.
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24 / M
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Posted 6/14/09
I do not believe in loners
The concept of loners do not exist to me
Humans are social animals
We need interaction whether you like it or not
It doesn't have to be human

But really
I think you pin the blame of your own insecurities on others more than you blame yourself
Maybe you've actually saved yourself a lot of trouble because no one likes people like that anyways
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23 / Germany
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Posted 6/15/09
Well i am a bit of a loner.
I am not saying i have no friends or don't trust anybody etc.
I just choose my friends carefully, which usally works out just fine, since i have a good knowledge of human nature and can tell who I'll get along with and who not.
Alsot i like to spend my freetime alone and don't meet up with my friends 3 times a week or so.
I am often sarcastic and have a bad habit of mocking people, but my friends know i am just joking,
well others think i am unsociable and a loner because of that. (not that i care)
I am also independet and don't really share my secrets which my friends respect, but other people don't like.
Posted 6/15/09 , edited 6/15/09
the reason why i am a loner is because i dislike explaining myself,....heh, i'm just bad at it. now....for me to spill my guts about why i am the way i am over the internet....where a world of people i dont know and faces i will never meet will see it...well, just dose'nt suit my taste. i dont like people in genral. i prefer to be alone....there should'nt be an issue with that.
but if your honestly curious...

i have a few close friends, i dislike everyone else. i only like intelligent people that can provide good coversation and are not narrowed minded. if you believe you fit that character, then i urge you to step forward. i dont bite.....depending on my mood.
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20 / M / Outside Of Reality
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Posted 6/15/09
Yeah, I'm a loner. Basically it started after I aged a little more and once I hit double digits in my old town, every one of my old friends' looks became cold stares that drove deep into my back. They all had suddenly become racist to me since i was the only Chinese person around, though I was no different from them, pretty similar in most ways.

I gave up on people ever since then, I'm not always alone, I may hang out a few times, but only to pass the time, I always tell those people that we aren't friends, I never tell a secret. The reason i gave up on people is because they don't understand anything about me, the world, life. Whenever I ask a person a deep question they laugh or brush it off with saying something around the lines of, "What the hell is that? You're weird, go away." and when I do get an answer, it's the same thing I've already seen as wrong.

As I said, I've come to hate people for their ignorance and obliviousness towards things. Nothing other than hat comes to mind, all because the things about humans root from that source.

It suits me well, quite well. I've come to have eyes made of ice. I don't really have the same views as everyone else around me, everyone else refuses to even consider my way of thought, and basically, I'm an outcast by choice because I prefer it.
Posted 6/17/09 , edited 6/17/09
im sure no one wants to be a loner. everyone want a trustworthy and loyal friend. some people were just at the wrong place and time where it was hard to make friends. i had friends through out high school, but i got tired of staying at the same spot, doing the same thing everyday, so i decided to walk around and explore the school. as i explore, i saw kids sitting alone by themself and stuff. everyone around was happy except them loners. so i decided to make friends with some of them. as i made friends with them, i helped boost up their day and confidence ( i hope), and helped them become open to the others. it also benfit me alot to. the loners were pretty cool kids, they just didnt knew anyone. but the lonely girls was a problem for me cause i was really shy. i only somewhat made friend with one lonely girl out of like three. they saw me trying, but i kept hesistating and looked really dumb. i guess it really bothered them so i gave up. i did most of what i could back then....
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24 / M / Brisbane, Australia
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Posted 6/24/09
im scared of being alone :S

hahahhaha










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25 / F / Were ever u want...
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Posted 6/24/09
I like being alone, its better that way, their is no drama or back stabbing. I have had the same friends for over ten years and im happy. i dont like new friends because that means i have to get to know them they have to get to know me just to time consuming.
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26 / F / beaverditch
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Posted 6/24/09
i don't like calling myself a loner, it makes me feel like i'm a loser. i just don't talk to people a whole lot. i don't need to be around a bunch of people to keep myself entertained. sometimes i do get sad when i'm alone and there's no one to hang out with, but most of the time, i like being by myself. i used to play by myself a lot when i was little because i could control what i wanted my dolls or toys could do or say, i didn't want anybody ruining my ideas or changing them XD when i started kindergarten, i felt like i was lost because the kids knew each other(i had just moved) and they were more sociable than i was.

i haven't really given up on people. just people where i live now for the most part. they're all rude, interrupt me, and i feel like nobody's listening to me, no matter how loud i speak. i just want to go somewhere else and start anew....

i don't think people should dislike others who wish to be alone. maybe try to be more understanding. we're not all rude and think we're better than you. sometimes we do want someone to talk to, but are too shy to go up and start talking to random people... just don't give us that whole "i pity you" shit. i don't want it. it makes me feel like you don't mean it and you could care less about me and that you're just doing this for your own benefit.

Posted 6/24/09 , edited 6/24/09
It's Not That Im A Loner,
It's Just I Can't Trust People,
& When I Try To,
They Somehow Stab Me In The Back.
So I Prefer To Be Alone.
Such As Today...
My Friends Forgot About Me,
Bitches,
Bitches,
BITCHES !!!
(They Are All Going Out Tomorrow & They Never Invited Me)
& The Worst Part Is I Had To Find Out By The Wall Posts,
They Were Sending Each Other On Facebook.

(Don't You Just Feel Like Slicing There Throats)

Than They Act Like We Are The Best Of Buddies In The Whole Wide World,
That Makes Me Even More Sick To My Stomach.
I Have To Admit I Only Hang Around Them In College,
Is To Not Look Like A Loner To Other People.
(I Don't Want There Sympathy)

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65 / M / Tralfamadore
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Posted 7/4/09
Wow.

Doing a search for "loners forum" brought me here and I must say I'm impressed with this thread and especially wingdavid01's comment:
I enjoy silence much more than ten mouths speaking at once
about stuff I don't really care.

and Kill099's Well I tried to be friendly, but I hate the chaos that ensues when they're talking all at the same time and all the useless noise they create.


I guess these questions are for this discussion so here goes

How long have you been a loner?

Looking back, quite a few years, and more so with each passing day.

Did you give up on people? if so, why?

Just about. no matter what the supposed reason for a gathering of any kind, it seems most people just want to kvetch about their own problems and insist that you live the life they are living.

What do you generally dislike about them.

They want to talk about themselves, and ironically, the more of a social wannbe they are, the less social skills they have. They ask you a question and butt in on you while you're giving them an answer, and that's just for starters.

How well does it suit you?

Doesn't bother me, bothers them, but not me,

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M / Where devils dwell.
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Posted 7/4/09 , edited 7/4/09
I'm a loner but some peeps are hanging around me eventhough I try to give them hints not to hang out with me. Tsk,being a charismatic loner is a pain. -___-''
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18 / F / Indonesia Raya
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Posted 7/4/09
Being a loner sometimes good for your own development. So you won't always rely to others.
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21 / F / here. XP
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Posted 7/5/09
i tend to be a loner sometimes.
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24 / F / Superjail
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Posted 7/5/09
How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?

1.) I've been a "loner" for as long as I can remember.
2.) I have not given up on people. I just don't like a lot of them.
3.) I dislike them because so many of them are just stupid and anger me.
4.) Seems to suit me well, even though I hate people and I don't talk to them unless they talk to me first, I still tend to make some friends.

I'm much happier with just my family and the friends I choose to keep close.
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