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34 / M / South Florida
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Posted 9/25/07
To keep people at arms length, to put up emotional barriers, to forcibly not make any connections with others or to just let them slip away is taking the easy way out. It's much more difficult emotionally, physically and more time consuming to make the effort to connect with others. That's why I say it's the "easy way out" in life. That said, I love being a loner. I love doing what I want, when I want, for as long as I want. I always say my favorite person to hang out with is myself.
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I always used to be loud and tomboyish when I was younger.
Not anymore.
People just see me as cold, awkward and self centered. And so I just gave up.
I mean, I still talk to people in school, I just wouldn't say that they are that special to me. I have a hard time trusting people and I'm scared of letting people too close and then having them reject me.
During school I do hang about with my friends and talk and stuff, but outside of school I rarely ever see them, and I most certainly won't call them up.
I see it as 'if they don't attempt to make contact with me outside of school, then I don't really care.'
To be honest, I pretty much enjoy being a 'loner'.
I've been like that ever since my best friend (of possibly eight years) decided she preferred hanging round with some other girl. From then on I haven't made an effort. Even though it's only been three years, it feels as though I was never friends with her...
But I don't care. I've decided not to let anyone close enough to seriously hurt me.
I prefer to be by myself anyway, I can't tolerate loud people.
I wouldn't say that I hate people, I just don't trust them.
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24 / F / Spring Valley, CA
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Posted 9/25/07
i think anyone who's a loner doesn't choose to be, they probably all fail at attempting to be social.
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F / realm of fantasy
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... i guess i am pretty much a loner.. i dont like to be in crowds even when they are my friends and i dont have many friends (i do have a few close ones) who really know me.. i dont think any of them really do KNOW me... i was always the quiet one back in secondary school where i was insignificant and ignored for almost 5 years as i was the only chinese girl in class.. my fellow classmates only talked to me when they needed me eg. when they wanna borrow my stuff/ copy my homework.. i felt used in a way and i could feel that i was detested by their sarcastic tones as i always did better than them academically.. till now i am still scared to talk to people/ initiate a conversation and when i do they complain i talk too soft.. i guess its just my void.. scared of ignorance and rejection...i knoe i AM PATHETIC..
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It's just too boring to be social.....
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25 / M / Texas.........
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I'm a loner to the point of being a recluse.

I've always been quiet, and used to be very shy. I can count all the people I've considered friend on one hand. The only people I' really talkative with is my family, but there are times where they need to leave me alone too.

I was the only hispanic in my class when I was a kid, and prefered to play by myself. Of course I was picked on, and was subject to much racism throughout my childhood thereafter. I really just don't fit in anywhere. And then I started home schooling really early, have never really had any social skills, and find socializing generally tiring. And I sound like a robot on the phone.XD If you were to see me in person, I have the same expression as Mana all the time, until you start talking to me anyway, but then I just act the way that seems the least awkward. I think a lot of people find me creepy, but I don't really care. There's some pictures of Mana in my profile, if you want to see.

My motto is: "I have three best friends, Me, Myself, and I. They always have my best interests in mind, and are always willing to listen to me."

Being a loner is the best lifestyle for me. Although I admit I get lonely from time to time.

And you people who keeping saying, "I guess I'm a loner", and "I'm considered a loner", and "I used to be a loner", need to stop posting. You either are, or aren't, got it?
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22 / M / JPN -> KR -> USA
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Posted 9/25/07
im loner in the morning..because i sleep in the cafeteria in the corner table.. i have to get on the bus freakin early and i have like an hour freetime..so i sleep..
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24 / F / Ohio
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i acctually feel lonely sometimes since i dont have a best friend.
but i do have a group of friends that just 'play' all the time.
& all we do is chill and have fun so there is no drama.

the person that i tell all my troubles to is like... in like drama cuz of some girl... -_-;; so i cant bug him about my troubles when hes like in shit.

but i love to be in a crowd and love hogging for the center of attention.
& i usually dont care what others think of me..

but for now im lonely.... i dont have anyone to rant at. D:
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24 / M
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Posted 9/25/07

mexicanopunx wrote:

And you people who keeping saying, "I guess I'm a loner", and "I'm considered a loner", and "I used to be a loner", need to stop posting. You either are, or aren't, got it?


hmmm true but stop crying lol
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25 / M
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Posted 9/25/07

abel89 wrote:

I'm pretty sure there are many people here with a good amount of friends, and that's cool and all

But I want to learn more about my fellow loners here, and since there are 2 anti gender threads, it only makes sense to have an anti people thread as well.




this sounds like a bad anime.

How long have you been a loner?
Did you give up on people?
if so, why?
What do you generally dislike about them
How well does it suit you?

As a child I had very few friends and the few I had were questionable, I grew up looking white in a black neighborhood in the south, I was quite lonely back then and quite sad and at the time was despeerate for friends, to the point that I'd be overjoyed everytime someone offered to hang out with me, even when they were just using me as something to keep them busy before their real friends arrived and I'd be cast to the side, or lead into a group of kids so they could make fun of me, or worse.....

As I got a little older I became disgusted at what I was, a weak minded sycophant basically, so I quickly realized that people in general were fake and untrustworthy, and that I didn't need or want them hanging around me.

Today, I can say that I have never had a real friend, and that I keep myself guarded and on alert for liars and sluts and potential back stabbers, I trust the intention of a person trying to kill me more then that of a person who walks up to me with a smile on their face, at least then I can counteract those intentions with a proper response easily, like I always say.......

"you can't get stabbed in the back if there's no one behind you"


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25 / M
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Posted 9/25/07
sounds like a bad anime. get out and see the sun or something
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114 / F / bermuda triangle ;D
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Posted 9/25/07
some point in life,im a loner too.im always quiet,not interested in making friends or talking to anyone.that happens ever since i was little too and is still happening.only have a few good/best friends but i don't see them much now espically since i started high school.don't know anyone and always feel left out
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25 / M / North Carolina
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Posted 9/25/07

whazzupkp wrote:

sounds like a bad anime. get out and see the sun or something


You must have ignored the fact that I'm an albino.
asshole..
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24 / F / Boston (staring o...
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Posted 9/25/07
yah sometime i feel like a loner too. i don't know why but i just feel like one though.
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ja well, when I was little I had lots of friends, but one by one they just seemed to drift away, different schools, their parents divorced, started being mean to me to make themselves look "cool" in front of others, or moved..... Eventually I was left all alone, since then I guess you could say I developed trust issues... so making friends is hard for me.... I think I've only ever considered 2 or 3 people in my entire life as actual friends, keeping them is hard over long distances........ Its funny really the more I resented and shunned things like "being cool" and "popular" the more people began to associate these things with me, further feeding my trust issues thanks to those idiots and making it even harder to make real friends.
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