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Posted 10/16/12
Well lets see.
As a small child i would watch tv quietly by myself for hours, i would stay up, and still do (its 6:41 AM) for along time.
I had friends once, but i always associated myself with the "Rejects" in both schools i went to.
There was nothing wrong with those kids in my oppinion, well besides the abuse they recieved from their parents.

People by nature are weak, and sinful. Easily bringing pain unto you without a second thought about it.
I attended what you would call "church" one many christian groups. Although i believe in god, i most certainly dont exercise that faith giving me a feeling of damned and guilty for not doing my part.

I was put through a small pathetic variety of "learning programs" due to how severly different i think. The school system probably considered me "special", it never bothered me, i was happy enough to play outside and with kids who were friendly to me. Im not sure what highschool would have been like, i never went. i thought that school was boring and wanted "homeschoolong" thinking it would be better "YOU SO F***ING WRONG YOU PIECE OF SHIT! I it quickly fell apart due to my lack of responsibility .

I was a thin boy, not realising i was gaining weight (pizza lunchables and videogames). it was around puberty when i lost alot of it, but not all, retaining enough for me to be self concious of myself and the new hormones. i tried not to think about sex becouse i was more intrested in being friends with people whom never existed in my life, HaHa! I never had a F***ing Chance!.
Those bodily energies did run rampant though, at one point i became addicted to porn, which i hate becouse it reminds me how loose people are, particularly when it comes to money.

My whole life i keeped quietly to myself watching the world die slowly, and i find this so funny, yet im not laughing.
Never showed to much intrest in life untill after puberty died down, and thats when my mind started to think in a very abnormal way. Although i hate the beings known as "humans" and all their silly ways, i am perplexed as to why i am one?, and although i love the beings known as "humans" and all their silly ways i am perplexed why they seek to destroy one another, themselves, and the very foundation they live? It really makes no sense to me, sure i can understand how and why in a strraight forward sense,but not why your doing it if your just going to hold onto emotions like: hate, Regret, fear?

I really think people are amusing to watch, but i prefer my cartoons, they never betray my expectations.
Its a wonder at what point in time i became a little mad?

I enjoy doing nothing but sit on my side watching anime, and as my mother would call it "Being a lover of Violence" its not like i seek to kill people, just give them the joy of pleasure and pain. Pleasure comes in many forms including pain itself, as well as sexual bliss and food, and back massages. pain comes in many shades like physical and mental as well as emotional. in all honestly if you were to try and kill me i wouldenjoy that sense of danger, and with a little effort on my part we both can enjoy the end result of you being raped tenderly.

Sadly no one has taken up my offers, it is now 7:41 AM.

Thank you kindly for reading a bit about me and i hope we can be tender someday.
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23 / M / California
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Posted 10/18/12
How long have you been a loner?
My whole life...
Did you give up on people?
No
if so, why?

What do you generally dislike about them
I don't dislike anything...I'm just socially awkward.

How well does it suit you?
Dunno
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Posted 11/11/12
I've always been a loner. I've tried to be more out going but it's just not me. I could never overcome my shyness. I've had moments where I had lots of confidence and could talk to anyone, but than I'd just revert to my true quiet self. I always liked to have a small group of friends if any. Being a loner can have it's negative things. Some people can look at you as a weirdo..or tag you as a bad guy . I just feel awkward in social setting and I like to be by myself. With the few people that I'm comfortable with I'm very different. I'm playful and they can see my true self. With others I'm quiet and serious (no fun).
People piss me off sometimes, but I have not given up on them. There are many good people out there..among the trash .
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18 / F / Fish Bowl
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Posted 11/15/12
I prefer to be alone, ever since I was a child, my parents didn't want me to be affiliated with people because they think that I'll turn into a bad kid so they demand me to get away from people. (But you know... I was rebel but I preferred to be alone/a loner) I have friends, but most of the time I'am alone. I can think better and I am more productive.
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Posted 11/15/12
How long have you been a loner?
A: Pretty much my whole life.
Did you give up on people?
A: No, but most people bore me.
What do you generally dislike about them?
A:I wouldn't say dislike, but am annoyed of the average person's attention span (which is quite low), and the average person's tendency to ramble on mundane topics.
How well does it suit you?
A: It's pretty much me, for the most part.
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20 / M / New Jersey
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Posted 11/25/12 , edited 11/25/12
How long have you been a loner?
Um not sure the exact year but ive probably been a loner for about 6 years. I was really social when i was a kid but once i hit puberty i became quite withdrawn.
Did you give up on people?
No, its not that i dislike people as a whole i just dont enjoy myself when i hang out with people who im not really close too.
What do you generally dislike about them?
If i had to say something in particular its that i feel like the conversations i have, have no real meaning. Conversations just fly by noone actually thinks before they speak people talk but nothing is said.
How well does it suit you?
It suits me well i mean the few friends i have they kinda know that i keep to myself. I still cant decide if im jelous of extroverts or not.
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Posted 11/27/12 , edited 11/27/12

olebull1 wrote:

How long have you been a loner?
Um not sure the exact year but ive probably been a loner for about 6 years. I was really social when i was a kid but once i hit puberty i became quite withdrawn.
Did you give up on people?
No, its not that i dislike people as a whole i just dont enjoy myself when i hang out with people who im not really close too.
What do you generally dislike about them?
If i had to say something in particular its that i feel like the conversations i have, have no real meaning. Conversations just fly by noone actually thinks before they speak people talk but nothing is said.
How well does it suit you?
It suits me well i mean the few friends i have they kinda know that i keep to myself. I still cant decide if im jelous of extroverts or not.


I have many of the same feelings but in my case I just feel like I lack the ability to really casually communicate effectively with people I'm not close to. I'm not super antisocial and my actual work and major requires me both to be social and when I meet people with extreme circumstances I can communicate but on a casual friend level I just don't know what to say, I can pick up on the social cues but I just don't respond. But for the most part I'd rather just stay in and watch anime and only spend time with people I really want to spend time with and it's makes me feel bad but even people who I would say consider me their good friends or long time friends, to me aren't the most close friends. I have maybe two really close friends who I'm comfortable just existing around and otherwise I guess I'd rather just be alone. Like I certainly don't enjoy myself in social situations like parties. I don't even dislike people, well most but that's another thing completely.
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20 / M / New Jersey
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Posted 11/27/12

kyonkunsuzumiya wrote:


olebull1 wrote:

How long have you been a loner?
Um not sure the exact year but ive probably been a loner for about 6 years. I was really social when i was a kid but once i hit puberty i became quite withdrawn.
Did you give up on people?
No, its not that i dislike people as a whole i just dont enjoy myself when i hang out with people who im not really close too.
What do you generally dislike about them?
If i had to say something in particular its that i feel like the conversations i have, have no real meaning. Conversations just fly by noone actually thinks before they speak people talk but nothing is said.
How well does it suit you?
It suits me well i mean the few friends i have they kinda know that i keep to myself. I still cant decide if im jelous of extroverts or not.


I have many of the same feelings but in my case I just feel like I lack the ability to really casually communicate effectively with people I'm not close to. I'm not super antisocial and my actual work and major requires me both to be social and when I meet people with extreme circumstances I can communicate but on a casual friend level I just don't know what to say, I can pick up on the social cues but I just don't respond. But for the most part I'd rather just stay in and watch anime and only spend time with people I really want to spend time with and it's makes me feel bad but even people who I would say consider me their good friends or long time friends, to me aren't the most close friends. I have maybe two really close friends who I'm comfortable just existing around and otherwise I guess I'd rather just be alone. Like I certainly don't enjoy myself in social situations like parties. I don't even dislike people, well most but that's another thing completely.


Lol you described exactly how i feel even better than i did. Except for the major part. Its weird the only time i dont have a tough time talking to people is when im working.
Posted 11/27/12
You might find a loner to be interesting to speak with. Sure, this person may not be a social butterfly. We all have our reasons for how much we socialize or do not. It can be seen as a personality characteristic possibly made so depending on what any given person has been subject to. A loner could very well be a nightmare waiting to devour children, or a kind, understanding person that walks with more dignity than you may ever know.
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Posted 11/27/12

nazijesus wrote:

You might find a loner to be interesting to speak with. Sure, this person may not be a social butterfly. We all have our reasons for how much we socialize or do not. It can be seen as a personality characteristic possibly made so depending on what any given person has been subject to. A loner could very well be a nightmare waiting to devour children, or a kind, understanding person that walks with more dignity than you may ever know.


Yeah, just because someone is a loner or quiet doesn't mean they don't have anything to say, sometimes they might even have the most heated opinions. I guess I've also fetishized this and I'll be honest that I'm really into more reversed quiet girls just because I'd like to imagine that if we got much closer there's this whole other side to them, which as a person is a bad thing to project so much onto others but, it's chill.
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Posted 11/28/12 , edited 11/28/12
I think I'm probably a mix of both.

I have plenty of friends, and while I wasn't exactly the "popular" type during primary and secondary school, I somehow grew out of my shell (yes I was quite the shy youngster) and become a more outspoken and generally crazy-quirky person when I entered college. I get along with people easy, and quickly made my own "circle of friends". I've since maintained the same sort of outspoken personality, and getting acquainted in new environments are usually not a problem to me.

While I am able to make friends quickly, and when I mean quickly, it's real quick - I've had that "are you guys from the same junior/high school?" when I'm hanging out with a friend I just only made minutes ago more than a couple of times - I'm generally quiet chatty; I also enjoy the quiet time I have with my own company. I think spending some time with yourself is healthy, as you are able to just be completely yourself without having anyone else to define you. You can just be there, and it will be alright. And when I'm under this "loner" mode, I talk a lot less, and I tend to excuse myself from group outings quite often. I also will do almost anything to see to myself that I WILL get this quality time for myself - I absolutely dislike not having any time to indulge me. Due to this quality of mine, I usually have to provide explanations to my friends, and sometimes even to my family (I'm referred to as the "noisy one" in my family) whenever I turn their invitations down so nobody will take my period of retreat personally.

As for how long I have had this "loner" mode, I think I developed it during secondary high. It's partly because I somehow got tired of listening to my friends' problems, and no I am not trying to be rude, but their problems can mostly be settled only if they would make a choice between "yes" and "no" - you know those highschool sweethearts relationship problems? Yeah, those. Since I'm approachable, and people say I give good advice (I have no idea how I pulled off being Dr. Love with my little experience in love itself, lol) I listen to a lot of relationship issues. I didn't want to fight with my friends then, so I developed a "loner" mode so I can retreat from their world for a bit and just enjoy being myself without having to be a consultant for other people's worries (I have my own problems too as a teenager). And this mode goes on for a whole week, until I return to my usual loud self.

I don't think I gave up on anyone though. I understand everybody have their own issues, but I also need my own space and time to just be me. And I think it suits me well, this "loner" mode of mine. Because I am able to take care of my interests and needs above everyone else for a bit, before returning to help and support others in their journey in life without harboring any resentments or hatred against any of them that might hinder me from lending them a hand.

All in all, I think moderation is the key: give some of you to others, give some of you to yourself.
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Posted 11/28/12
I've been alone for about 3 years.

I saw no point in giving people my attention so I just sort of... faded out?? So yes, I did give up on them.

After a break, I've realised that people can be really, really rude and I've realised that I don't really... fit being rude???

My 'friends' treat me like I'm not even there, and I'm just tired of trying to make things work. Things got really patchy between us and our 'friendship' dissolved.

I guess people see me as quiet and alone, and that's okay with me.

Although I do like being alone, I really wish I had a close friend, preferably an online one!!
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24 / M / Portland, Oregon
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Posted 12/6/12 , edited 12/6/12
I'm kind of a loner at times, but not really one at all.

I have good friends, even though it isn't a huge amount. But I do like to spend a lot of time alone. I really only dislike being around people when they are constantly cynical, judgmental, or assume the worst in people.

I am more just a person who loves people, but likes to spend time alone a lot as well. Also, usually when I am home alone or something my cat is always kicking it with me.


On a side note, I've never really been part of the "popular" or had tons of friends. But I've always managed to have some really good ones, and that's what matters to me!
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Posted 12/10/12
its cool to be a loner but sometimes we should come out of our shell.
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