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Send Message:   23 / F / under your bed, b...
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yeah defiantly where i live.. boys are expected not to be virgins.
if your a virgin then it shows that your immature.
but if your not a virgin than it shows that you actualy have experience in that area and ..
WAIT WAIT WAIT.
i think the guy taht i lost mine to also was a virgin.
so really i guess its not that bad to be a virgin.
however if your 18 and a guy and a virgin.
then we gotta problem there.
unless your religous i guess than i suppose thats somewhat exceptable.
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Send Message: 17 / M / Abyss
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it depends what kind of person you are if someone called me a virgin i won't care
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Send Message: 26 / M
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its probably one of the biggest insults to a man, second to being gay. you really have to stand out in other ways to be able to weather that storm, or be really religious.
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Send Message: F / Dojang
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My choice is to remain a virgin 'til after marriage, is it an insult? No, it's better than degrading yourself and others by sleeping around before you find the right person, imo.
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Send Message: 22 / M / san antonio
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i get made fun of for being a virgin alot. ive been one for 18 years an i don't see anything wrong with it. im saving it for a girl i love. why would i wanna do something like that with some one who doesn't have my heart.
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Send Message: 24 / F / Working on it ...
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animemasterblack wrote:
i get made fun of for being a virgin alot. ive been one for 18 years an i don't see anything wrong with it. im saving it for a girl i love. why would i wanna do something like that with some one who doesn't have my heart.
You are a smart man!
Virginity, whether you are male or female should be saved for someone special. I'm not saying marriage but that person has to mean something to you. Not some random drunk person at a party. It really ruins how amazing and special sex is.
And as for the answer to the question I have no issues with a guy being a virgin. Why should I? One of my best friends (male) is 23 and still a virgin and he has no problem with it. He's looking for the right girl because he has seen to many people waste it away.
I say it's a smart move. Your body is the only thing that is yours and its' something special and sacred so why just give it away when it can be with someone who means so much instead?
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Send Message: 23 / F / In a Quasar...O.o
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I agree, I want a man that is saving himself for me and I'm doing the same ;D
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Sweet topic. Look if a guy is still a virgin past the age of 16, he's already poised to get some for that reason alone. Women love to take virginity about as much as some guys hate to take it. If a guy is still a virgin after 18, why waste it. By now you might as well share it with the woman you marry for a boost in the love and fedelity points. There's no shame in virginity on either side. The reason its hard to hold on to is because you cant experience sex and still be a virgin. And tell me, who doesnt want to experience sex? One last thing, I dont think a virgin is better than me because he hasnt had sex. Ok. I lay pipe like a mario brother. How's he better than me when he still has yet to send a woman to the moon?
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Only idiots would consider it an insult
Hell if your a virgin, then thats great~ means you didn't just do it because everyone else is |
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i think its an insult my parents call me a faggot for being a virgin... i get so pissed off because my parents always say that shit when my slut of a sister lost hers at 14 and they were pissed... its so opposite for boys and girls
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Send Message: 26 / M / London, England, UK
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wfg wrote:
its probably one of the biggest insults to a man, second to being gay. you really have to stand out in other ways to be able to weather that storm, or be really religious.
How is being gay an insult? Or being a virgin, for that matter?
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Mahzes wrote:
wfg wrote:
its probably one of the biggest insults to a man, second to being gay. you really have to stand out in other ways to be able to weather that storm, or be really religious.
How is being gay an insult? Or being a virgin, for that matter?
agreed... they are both lifestyles
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Send Message: 26 / M / London, England, UK
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I think it's worse among kids and teens, really. They're the ones who have the attitude "If you haven't had sex, you're a loser".
I lost my virginity at 22, and I'll admit I did feel a bit self-conscious about leaving it that late. But at the same time, I'm glad I didn't rush into anything.
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Send Message: 20 / F / Inside my skin.
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I've learned that love alone does not keep a man's heart. If you've slept with him it won't keep him from leaving you either. Sure, being that close to a person you love is an amazing thing, but if you don't know for sure how he feels then it isn't worth it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact, it makes you pure. Virgin is not an insult. It is the highest of compliments. Don't give it up for petty reasons; your body is precious, and even more so when it still belongs to you.
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