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is it insult for boys to be virgin?
Posted 12/12/09

AkabaraUsagi wrote:

I've learned that love alone does not keep a man's heart. If you've slept with him it won't keep him from leaving you either. Sure, being that close to a person you love is an amazing thing, but if you don't know for sure how he feels then it isn't worth it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact, it makes you pure. Virgin is not an insult. It is the highest of compliments. Don't give it up for petty reasons; your body is precious, and even more so when it still belongs to you.


wow..... thats pretty deep

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Posted 12/12/09

SlaveOfMyself wrote:


AkabaraUsagi wrote:

I've learned that love alone does not keep a man's heart. If you've slept with him it won't keep him from leaving you either. Sure, being that close to a person you love is an amazing thing, but if you don't know for sure how he feels then it isn't worth it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. In fact, it makes you pure. Virgin is not an insult. It is the highest of compliments. Don't give it up for petty reasons; your body is precious, and even more so when it still belongs to you.


wow..... thats pretty deep



I suppose. About your parents.... no one has the right to belittle you or hurt you. Your virginity is a precious thing; save it for someone who deserves it. If your parents harass you, just say you're not a sheep, and that you're waiting for your true love. Whether you're a homosexual or not is your business, and nobody else's. But the important thing is to love who your with, and be absolutely sure they feel the same about you. Having sex with someone you don't love is bad for your psychological health, it can turn you into a cruel and immoral person. I think, as humans, the only thing that we should hold on to is our purity.

Posted 12/12/09


Oh, im not gay, but ill hold onto your advice.

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Posted 12/12/09

SlaveOfMyself wrote:



Oh, im not gay, but ill hold onto your advice.



I know, but I feel it necessary to be include other points of view, lest there be other readers. The ultimate lesson is to respect yourself, and your body. You only have one so treat it right. ne?

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Posted 12/12/09

Raspberry69 wrote:

If guys do it because someone insulted them for being a virgin then it just shows how immature they are.


Totally agree to it lol
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Posted 12/12/09
It's kinda the entire view on things, not just by guys. Even girls will look down on you if you're a virgin.
It's pretty screwed up but that's how it is.
Posted 12/12/09 , edited 12/12/09
Certain boys only go and lose their virgin because of peer pressure, because they want to be 'cool' or in with it. You should only ever do it when you feel right.

I dont' understand why being called a virgin, for a guy, is an insult. If anything, it's a compliment for having such self respect to be able to wait for the right time and maintaining your innocence.
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Posted 12/12/09
it was when i was the only one in my whole familly
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Posted 12/12/09
I didn't lose my virginity till I was 19 I was just into having fun at school not worrying about getting some girl pregnant I don't know how people these days are peer pressured into sex but thats one retarded way to get laid.
Posted 12/12/09 , edited 12/12/09
I lost mine to peer pressure, can't say I regretted it really, pll who lose theirs early tend to understand it for what it is. A sexual release. Nothing more. Sure it will be more "Special" when it's with the love of my life, but it's really just sex.

Just because you are a virgin does not mean it is any extra special when losing it for the first time. All that is, is a little "Merrit" you can check off your list of "To do" things. If it is somebody that I TRULY love, what difference does it make if either of us are virgins.

Honestly, the real show of love is when you can cuddle up with your hubby and XOXOXOXOXOXO a bunch. Especially next to a warm fireplace on a cozy couch with a blanket wrapped around you... That sounds alot better than sex by the fireplace anyday. Damn i'm loney this Xmas.
Posted 12/12/09
i am happy a virgin, will stay like taht till marriage, it is a insult to me if i lose it before marriage, and for proisitute thing, i can afford to buy whole bloody brothel out but like the fuck i will agree, i don;t want std's and a hole explored with other men's semen, fuckin hell no. if a guy really has to lose his virginity find a virgin or better still wait like the rest till marriage. i want my girl to be a virgin as well or otherwise she can forget even a bloody kiss or date
Posted 12/12/09 , edited 12/12/09
truth be told, i want a girlfriend, alot... not for sex (until i know i love them), just for holding her and kissing her. i love kissing alot... or maybe i just want to feel love, i havent felt any kind of love in a long time, not even parental love that a mother and father gives... can a person grow antisocial without love or friendship? i think this is whats happening to me
Posted 12/12/09 , edited 12/12/09

SlaveOfMyself wrote:

truth be told, i want a girlfriend, alot... not for sex (until i know i love them), just for holding her and kissing her. i love kissing alot... or maybe i just want to feel love, i havent felt any kind of love in a long time, not even parental love that a mother and father gives... can a person grow antisocial without love or friendship? i think this is whats happening to me


That's holiday loneliness for ya. Don't worry, We walk the same road brother !!! . First off, JOB HUNTING.

Personally I just want to snuggle up with someone on a cold holiday night, with a warm fireplace and a cozy blanked, talk about random stuff, Then fall asleep probably. That would be awsome.

Weird thing, this is the first christmas that ive felt lonely, I mean, other years I thought about how nice it would be to have a serious girlfriend, but now I feel kinda empty.
Posted 12/12/09 , edited 12/12/09


erm, i dont think im putting this right... ive felt like this for a VERY long time. my dad doesnt really care for me because im an accedent (thats what he said) and im really shy around women, to shy to do ask them what time it is even... hell, im shy around everyone... the only thing i can really talk through is the internet to people that i dont even know. the last time i had a girlfriend was a a few years ago and i ended talking with others when i seen my friends killed in front of my face. maybe i need therapy and pills, who knows...
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Posted 12/12/09
Hmm I like you point of view.......
btw sometimes I wonder does sex really matters your reputation in the society,I mean to say everyone does have there own reason weather they like to lose their virginity or not.
As everyone does see[older view] until you are unmarried,having sex is kinda taken as wrong,or it's the same as sleeping a single night with someone,& now [modern view],you are looked down upon if you are a virgin till you teen age.
Probably to me it doesn't matters I am a virgin till now,nor do I care if anyone comments me for me being a virgin[yet over net I once was humiliated by a girl,she said I want to laugh at you,it's a matter of pity that you aren't a pervet.It all arouse cause she asked me a question,what you would have done if you would be in a pool,with 3-4 hot girls around you,& they all being horny?.Phew........I simply said I would get out & go away.I never cultivate thoughts of sex seeing a girl,I have enough self control[strictly not a gay or not a impotent] for myself].Perhaps none has dared to say me till now on my face cause they know how furious they outcome will be,may be they would saying it at my back,as the girl said me over net.
Just waiting when they would dare to say me on my face & I will give them my answer physicaly


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