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is it insult for boys to be virgin?
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Posted 6/18/10
Being a virgin, no matter what gender you are, shows that you have the self control to behave like a human being rather than an animal... something that will come in handy in those long term relationships, where you can't just go out with everything you see. And hopefully it's also a sign of a strong, good moral character, which also will come in handy when you're hoping that person will actually mean what they say when they say "forever".

Being a virgin is also a heck of a lot better than ending up as someone who can't think of anything but a certain three letter word, 24/7, even if their life depended on it, thus effectively preventing them from having any coherent, serious thoughts about anything that really matters, for any significant length of time between having to dive back into the gutter, and take as many people with them as they can. Or what's known as being a slave to your passions, as opposed to being able to focus 100% on other things, and to commit yourself to something other than yourself and your own gratification all of the time.

There is nothing more pathetic than someone who is so weak and spineless, that they are a slave to their own animal passions. Such a person has not only made a complete fool of themselves, both morally and in terms of their lives, but they will miss out on about 99% of what life, and other people have to offer (besides that three letter word they're addicted to). Brains are far more interesting than bodies. All bodies have certain things in common with every other member of their sex. But brains alone are unique, individual and if they've been cultivated to any extent, treasure troves of interesting insights and knowledge... which you'll never enjoy if you can't stop staring at the person's... "other features" ... long enough to have a serious conversation with them.
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Posted 6/18/10
i dont think it is an insult i take pride in being a virgin it means i am not some one who thinks with his reproductive gland also i believe that intimacy is only meant for married couples and that once you get intimate with someone you are bound together forever even if you do not get married
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Posted 6/19/10
Being a virgin is an insult cause it means that you aren't man enough to get a Sexually Transmitted Disease.
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Posted 7/8/10
i think its fine if a boy is a vergin
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23 / M / Wilmington NC
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Posted 7/8/10
I had sex at 16, but I thought that I loved the girl. Now I know that was lust and still havent experienced love. Its alright for people to have sex before marriage as long as they are responsible and understand what can happen. There is no need for young men to have sex, but it is thier choice.
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Posted 7/8/10
I think virgin boys are cute They're so unexperienced and unsure of what to do. I think its soooo adoreable. so I dont think its an insult....
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Posted 7/8/10
It's not an insult...but you can usually sense a weakness in them. It's not very attractive to the vast majority of women, but there are some that find it hot.
Posted 7/8/10
Depends on the guy. I know some guys really don't care if they're still a virgin but i know some that are deeply ashamed.
Haha its so ironic because just today I heard that a friend of mine, who is all talk and always showing off about him getting lucky, is actually a virgin x))
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Posted 7/8/10
HA yeah it is. tho many would lie about their virginity. most would say they''re not even if they are haha
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21 / M / -Melbourner AU
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Posted 7/8/10
I dont feel insulted.
if any females here thinks i should,
we can arrange something
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i'm a virgin and i really don't give two flying shits about being a virgin i don't care if i get laid or not
Posted 7/22/10
nope... u need somebody to change the light bulbs...
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Posted 7/22/10
I'm a female but I still get teased all the time for being a virgin. I've thought more than once about just having sex with some random guy to see what all the fuss is about but I can't make myself be with someone I don't love deeply. I refused to be bullied into sex when I don't want to do it. I've learned to just ignore or tease back when I get teased about it now. I mean I can stop being a virgin whenever I choose but those who are teasing me can never have that choice again. I don't really care if a man is a virgin if he had sex with someone he cared for in his past; but if he lost his virginity to a prostitute or some random woman just to be able to brag about it I wouldn't want him touching me. That's a sure sign of a weak character and I don't have time for men of weak character.
Posted 7/22/10

Don't do it... Don't do it... if you must do it cuz u really love this guy and he's into you... here.. read my story... seriously..


http://hoodlove1.wordpress.com/
Posted 7/22/10

Jjilly101 wrote:


Don't do it... Don't do it... if you must do it cuz u really love this guy and he's into you... here.. read my story... seriously..


http://hoodlove1.wordpress.com/


I have no plans to "do it" right now. I have too many things to deal with in my life to go "there". Thank you for the encouragement and I'll go read your story as soon as I get the time. It's very sweet of you to care. :-)
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