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is it insult for boys to be virgin?
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Posted 12/9/12
I was a late bloomer, didnt have sex until I was about 20.
I know most ppl would reply and be like, "wow, this guy is a loser, couldnt get laid until he was 20, yadda yadda."

Not all guys make sex their priority as a teen. I just had other things in mind.
So if any guys out there that are in their 20s, shiiet even in their 30s and are virgins, more power to them.
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Posted 12/10/12
I lost my virginity at a young age - I don't think it's something to feel proud of or insulted over whether you still have it or not.

When I lost it, I wasn't really thinking of concepts like that. It was just living the moment and trying to appease the waves of want and emotions flooding over me.

It passed and I had a rush of euphoria, and I've been doing it ever since.
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Posted 12/12/12
no it's not an insult. in my opinion it's cool for guys to be virgins
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Posted 12/12/12
does this mean my cool factor just went up? I'm 30 and still a virgin, in some ways that bothers me a tad but for the most part I don't care. The issue never arose through HS and afterwards I had some legal issues at 19. Since then there have been few opportunities for me to go out and meet people. Those few people I met through my friend were never my type and honestly I would usually rather just hang out with people than try to have sex with them. The only real issue is that no relationships means no kids and if I want to keep the family name going I need a few sons :/
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Posted 12/12/12

cbus82 wrote:

does this mean my cool factor just went up? I'm 30 and still a virgin, in some ways that bothers me a tad but for the most part I don't care. The issue never arose through HS and afterwards I had some legal issues at 19. Since then there have been few opportunities for me to go out and meet people. Those few people I met through my friend were never my type and honestly I would usually rather just hang out with people than try to have sex with them. The only real issue is that no relationships means no kids and if I want to keep the family name going I need a few sons :/


Adoption is always an option... hehe that rhymed
Posted 12/12/12
No ....
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34 / M / The Void.
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Posted 12/12/12
The way she posed the question is so funny!
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20 / M / London, UK
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Posted 12/12/12
I personally dont feel insulted but I do feel some are peer pressured into losing it especially from where im from
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27 / M / Montreal Canada
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Posted 12/12/12 , edited 12/12/12
hey i am 25 and still virgin and i dont really care that much
people always tell me have sex its great or laugh at me whatever i say i am virgin or sometime family talk in the back and say maybe his gay
. They just looking for someone to release all they hate. Well between be a virgin or not i feel happy about my life i don't bring headache to nobody and been a geek working has computer programming can occupy most of my free time. Unless a girl with similar taste come in my life i wont change my life.
Posted 12/12/12
Why is it a big deal? I think it depends on who are they with. Probably, you don't want to stick on people who brings you down, do you?
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22 / F / Cornfields!
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Posted 12/12/12
Why is virginity even a big deal to begin with?

A lot of "firsts" we don't even record or notice.

If someone is ready to have sex, then they're ready to have sex.
If they aren't. They aren't.

Neither should be chastised for it. People who lost their virginity young are not "sluts" and people who wait to lose their virginity are not "losers".

Society says otherwise and if you're smart you'll ignore it, along with most other things society says.

I believe that the first time you have sex doesn't necessarily have to be "special" or "saved for the right person". Sex is a biological process. It's not any more "special" (in my opinion) as hugging or holding hands. Both of those things can be as intimate or not as you want them to be. You'd find me ready to jump in bed for sex, but hopping out the minute someone suggests cuddling.

I just think that you should be mentally ready to have sex the first time. And also ready to accept the consequences that can come from having sex. Of course, the older, the (hopefully) more responsible. But hormones will be hormones and who am I to make rules about other people's bodies and what they can and can't /should or shouldn't do with them?
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25 / M / Sydney, Australia
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Posted 12/13/12
I admire people who can stay innocent until marriage. I think the first time is something that you can never get back (even though virginity is a social construct)... the first time is the strongest feeling you can experience when being touched sexually by another person, in my opinion.
So in a way, being able to share that first time with someone you truly love would be an amazing feeling.

Having said that, I think a lot of girls are naive about about virginal male. In my opinion, it's better for women to give up their first time to a man who knows what he is doing.

That's just my opinion.

A man can get orgasm very easily while a woman requires the right moves to get orgasms.

I hope I'm not being inappropriate.
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Posted 12/13/12
No, not at all to be honest it's their privileged to have sex with...Mmmhh girls who prefers virgin.

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Posted 12/13/12 , edited 12/13/12
I prefer a virgin, I won't date a non-virgin Lol
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21 / M / Los Angeles, CA
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Posted 12/13/12
I'm sure for a lot it is but for me it's not
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