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I don't see what difference it makes. Ive been with some girls who told me they couldn't stand virgins because they didn't want to teach them what to do. It's just more of a hassle for some people I guess.
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I don't think its insulting to a guy at all. Losing one's virginity does not make one a man. Why would it be insulting?
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Insult in what way?
Men do take offense to being virgins. Sex has, for better or worse, become the rite of passage of manhood for men. To them, being a virgin equates to being immature, and thus in order to be mature, they must give away the v-card. Granted, the fact that you think your maturity can be determined by virginity makes about much sense as saying 2=1 (i.e. none at all), but that's the logic of it anyways.
But, should men take offense to being virgins? Honestly, despite how hedonistic our society, there's so much to do and so much you can achieve. Nevertheless, since our society tends to strive for personal pleasure before all else, sex is going to be a priority for most people regardless of whether or not it should be.
*now to hold up flame shield*
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Imma yoda rap this thread.
virgin you stay, lady happy you make.
viginity a girl takes, a dissapoited wife it makes.(Dont take offence, it was for the sake of ryming)
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Being a virgin isn't an insult but insulting someone is being a virgin.
A guy doesn't change after premarital sex because he masturbates, just like a girl, after some fucking sessions, you will be more sensually intelligent(depends on the experience you'd)
I dont think anyone can insult themselves for being a virgin, not to say others. It means you don't succumb to the craziness of the society, You rock. Just don't get addicted to porn because then you fail.
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I thought women preferred non-virgins?
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Tiff-Chan wrote:
I don't think its insulting to a guy at all. Losing one's virginity does not make one a man. Why would it be insulting?
It is insulting when you can't find a woman who wants to have sex with you.
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I thinks that's just your opinion. There are women who are willing to put out, not all though. I suppose from one's perspective, in can be sexually frustrating, but there are always other alternatives.
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Tiff-Chan wrote:
I thinks that's just your opinion. There are women who are willing to put out, not all though. I suppose from one's perspective, in can be sexually frustrating, but there are always other alternatives.
Like what, prostitutes? I'd rather not.
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Eh? How you get to that conclusion? Well never mind this is not really worth talking about anymore. I don't really care.
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Tiff-Chan wrote:
Eh? How you get to that conclusion? Well never mind this is not really worth talking about anymore. I don't really care.
What were the "alternatives" that you were talking about???
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I was referring to other methods one's can do to ease their sexual frustration. Catch my drift?
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It's only embarrasing if you are a virgin in spite of your best efforts.
I would never even try to have sex with a women I did not intend to have raise my children with me.
That's not to say if she were the one pushing it, I'd not oblige. But I've also never put myself into that situation, and most people respect that.
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