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Would you help an Emo friend?
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Posted 8/4/07

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I'd just try and support them as best I could. I think that sometimes its something they have to sort out on there own and I wouldn't want to confuse them in anyway telling them what I think they should do and etc bla bla bla.


Yea, thats true. But, it's kinda hard to not tell them your opinon sometimes, at lesat for me it is. I get so tempted to help like that
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of course i'll help him/her..that's what friends are for.. :D..talking helps..communication..that's all the risk to it..but if they wount communicate..then fine..let them be at first..they're old enough anywayz..its their life..they can do whatever they want..to unleash whatever it is that they feel like doing or whatever..
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I'd try to stop them cutting themselves!! and teach them about the importantness of life !! and understand why they are cutting themselves and i would try to make them think positive =)
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*hands them a knife* do what u want ^^
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27 / M / new zealand
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everyone is defferent-just have fun and show them wats life about
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28 / F / KSA
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If I ever wanted to kill myself I think I'd do it mainly for someones attention.
If your life is really that bad that the only way out you can see is suicide.. then wow.
Anyhoo suicide is forbidden in my religion =) And if any friend of mine went seriously emo and started cutting themselves, you'd see me puking out the nearest window and then hailing the nearest cab to get as far away as possible. I dunno... it's just that... most cutters I've seen are like... REALLY DIRTY!
>I'm going through a dirty-phobia/clean freak personal thingie something so.. yeah. <
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27 / F / Toronto
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most of the time i think they're just following a trend..but if one of my friends was really emo- like seriously into hurting themselves...i'd try to help- say tell their parents or sumthing- cuz i think that if just talking to them would have helped- they wouldn't be emo in the first place..
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hmmm i don't have any emo fwens but i do have a fwen who wears black all day and she believes in ghost
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27 / F / Hinamizawa.
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Posted 8/5/07
Not unless they wanted my help. I mean I tried to help my one friend,but she rejected me so I stopped asking.
Posted 8/5/07
Saying would you help an emo friend makes it sound like a joke. Use better words, such as a friend who is suicidal. The word emo is really a joke. Someone who is really suicidal wouldn't call themselves emo, and I'm pretty sure friends who care about them wouldn't either.

If I had a friend who was suicidal I'd feel like I'd want to slap them. I'd yell at them for it, yell at them for whining about how terrible life is. I'd tell them what's good in life, and tell them how ungrateful they are for it all. Then, I'd make sure I'm there for them. I'd also be more careful about what I say. A lot of the time I say pestimistic stuff just because others are, and for someone who is truly suicidal that's not good. I'd try to make life good for them the best I can.
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When plp start to wear ''emo clothes"' as in depressing clothes its obvious there depressed and in need of help and support. I usually go and help them and they usually stop and feel better. You can say Im some sort of counselor, but half of the time I can't help them. Laughing at plp who are emo makes me mad because that just makes them more sad. They are in need of help especially if they are depressed .
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Alright. This is just my opinion...no one has to agree with me on this.
Personally, I think anyone willing to write their own suicide note or CUT THEMSELVES for "attention", deserves the attention. because that's taking it pretty far and it doesnt matter what you think, they have to have some serious problems to do that no matter the situation.
Even if you think they're just being stupid, or they'll grow out of it, you should really make sure that they seek some medical attention or go see a shrink or somthing cause thats a pretty serious issue...


I kinda think so too. I'm also thinking that it's cuz they're lonely(feeling empty or something), thinks nobody understands them, they think there's no solution, or they can't find their reason for living/what's to live for
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No, I wouldn't because I don't have any emo friends.
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Posted 8/5/07

anala wrote:


sshealer-- wrote:

Alright. This is just my opinion...no one has to agree with me on this.
Personally, I think anyone willing to write their own suicide note or CUT THEMSELVES for "attention", deserves the attention. because that's taking it pretty far and it doesnt matter what you think, they have to have some serious problems to do that no matter the situation.
Even if you think they're just being stupid, or they'll grow out of it, you should really make sure that they seek some medical attention or go see a shrink or somthing cause thats a pretty serious issue...


I kinda think so too. I'm also thinking that it's cuz they're lonely(feeling empty or something), thinks nobody understands them, they think there's no solution, or they can't find their reason for living/what's to live for


wow, i'm so happy someone actually agrees with me on that. ><
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Posted 8/5/07

sshealer-- wrote:


anala wrote:


sshealer-- wrote:

Alright. This is just my opinion...no one has to agree with me on this.
Personally, I think anyone willing to write their own suicide note or CUT THEMSELVES for "attention", deserves the attention. because that's taking it pretty far and it doesnt matter what you think, they have to have some serious problems to do that no matter the situation.
Even if you think they're just being stupid, or they'll grow out of it, you should really make sure that they seek some medical attention or go see a shrink or somthing cause thats a pretty serious issue...


I kinda think so too. I'm also thinking that it's cuz they're lonely(feeling empty or something), thinks nobody understands them, they think there's no solution, or they can't find their reason for living/what's to live for


wow, i'm so happy someone actually agrees with me on that. ><


I agree, too. That the point I was trying to make.
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