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Relationship Trust Issues
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Posted 8/7/07
A relationship will never work out if there if there is no absolute trust. I guess people need to learn that life is not a SOAP opear. Soo many ppl try to make it one, but it's just gonna screw you up.
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37 / F / Fort Meade, MD
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Posted 8/7/07
It's not just girls who have trust issues.
I've been out with many a guy who couldn't handle my flirtatious attitude.
I flirt with waiters, bartenders, doormen, cabbies, you name it. if i have to interact, it's in a flirty way.
A lot of guys can't handle that.
so i get the clingy bastards who want to know my every freakin move, or the opposite end of the spectrum, where they cheat like mad.
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29 / F / come find meh~ :3
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Posted 8/7/07
My boyfriend broke up with me for trust issue's, because i didn't trust him...i didn't trust him because i was blaming him for a previous relationship i had, he basically cheated on me and i was deeply scared by that, he also lied to me allot, i was deeply hurt. My ex came up to me right after he had broke up with his girlfriend, since it was right after i broke up with my previous boyfriend i didn't give any time to think much less i kinda let myself into the relationship

I didn't trust him even though he spoke the truth...because he seemed odd...like something was going on....once you break a girls trust once...its hard to get it back...but once another guy breaks a girls trust it takes time for a girl to trust someone else...so i didn't trust him basically much at all and...i was latchy also....not going to say anything else because he is on CR ^^;;;

I really wanted to trust him and i knew it...but i couldn't....i tryd ^^ but it didn't work....

But yeah those where my reasons for not trusting...really for anyone else who would date him there would be nothing basically in the way of trust~ but it was me in this case ^^;
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25 / F / California
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Posted 8/7/07
hmm i guess it also depends on their background... like what they did before they became your bf/gf.
Posted 8/7/07
Gosh here come the drama -gets tissues-

Well, I think that a relationship CAN work without trust but it's just going to be a bit hard...
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27 / F / US
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Posted 8/7/07
If a girl seems like she isn't trusting you, it's probably for a good reason. Either you are acting suspicious because you are actually cheating on her, she has been cheated on in the past many times, or you aren't treating her right. Like, if my boyfriend rarely told me he loved me, started playing video games everytime he talked to me on the phone, or didn't do sweet things at all for me in general, I would be like wtf. Do you even like me?
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30 / F / Houston, TX
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Posted 8/7/07
once they've been lied to and depending on the intensity and amount of lies told to a girl, they will have scars for the rest of their dating lives, unless they get over it which they rarely do... so fellas.. treat your girls well, the way you want them to treat you.
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Posted 8/7/07
It's no good repeating what these two up here said, so....."Yeah, what they said~"
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28 / M / Australia
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Posted 8/7/07
i consider the word "love" very important.. to me it aint just any word you can use... thus since im using it now.. you'd understand how much i love my gf ^^ well.. yeah i love her and trust her with all my heart and vise versa ^^
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35 / F / East Bay California
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Posted 8/7/07
This topic is so perfect for me right now. So because I just love unloading my dirty laundry for all you little strangers to see, I'm gonna tell you a story.

The reason that I couldn't trust my recent ex-boyfriend all through our relationship was because he has absolutely no concept of the meaning of honesty. The entire time we were together, he fed my heart all these lovely pretty words about how much he loved me and how much he cared for me, but the entire time...I was just someone to pass the time with. Truth of the matter was that he was bored with the girl he was dating before me so he dumped her. Started dating me...in my opinion just to sow his wild oats... at least that's how it seems in retrospect before finally deciding that he really wants to settle down with the previous girl.

During our breakup, we were still going to try being friends...but of course he only said that so I would still sleep with him. Then finally he said that he just needed to be by himself for a while, you know, not date anyone until he could figure out what he wanted. So, me still thinking that I could trust his words bowed out of his life...only to find out that he went back to his ex and took her to f'ing Disneyland!!!

I hate liars. And that is the reason that at this moment I don't really trust men right now.
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Posted 8/8/07
its should be the other way around and why men should not trust their gfs. i have seen way more women cheat on their bf then men cheating on their gf. as for trust issues i know for a fact a lot of girls dont tell their man a lot of stuff because i am friends with several girls and they tell me way more than they tell their man. its both ways with this issue rly but this is just what i have seen

remember men lie the most but women have the biggest lies.
Posted 8/8/07
if a girls loves a boy and the boy loves the girl, trust each other and tell each other the truth
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Posted 8/9/07

SeraphAlford wrote:

What’s up with guy’s who’s girls can’t trust them? Stupid punks. Dudes who go around cheating may be male, but they’re not men! In my opinion. Some people think that what makes a man is how many girls he can sleep with. I think that’s stupid and sexist.

@Kemo… Tee hee. Moody men make me laugh.

aren't you male?
truth to be told i don't trust anyone for the people close to my heart, i let them do whatever they want and i'll do anything if they ask me to...
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25 / M / Malaysia
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Posted 10/15/07
gf and bf should trust each other
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27 / M / Indonesia [ Lippo...
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Posted 10/15/07
i trust my gfwith all my heart , if i dont trust her , how can be called a relationship.... loved her so much
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