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Relationship Trust Issues
Posted 6/22/10

xO_Skittles_Ox wrote:


Akisame15 wrote:


xO_Skittles_Ox wrote:


Akisame15 wrote:


xO_Skittles_Ox wrote:

Insecurity



biggest reason......either that or maybe the other person in the relationship has behviours or characteristics that a cheater would have


They say that the person who is accusing the other of cheating, is actually the one doing it.


that's true but "they" say alot...who are "they" and how'd they get so much credibility?


haha. They are the "world" lol


oh no...they're everywhere *scared*
Posted 6/22/10
I never overpowered my ex with silly accusations, if I was unhappy about a situation I would tell him straight away but I'm not the jealous type at all. Guys have female friends too, get over it. If you really, really feel that he is getting too close however,or the girl is getting too close to him, get in there and show you mean business
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Posted 6/22/10
i don;t trust anybody :0
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Posted 6/22/10
DUDE ! not only girls can't trust their bfs even everyone doesn't trust anybody but themselves . I'm not tellin lie.Honestly nobody can totally trust somebody for a whole life or everything (well i'm sorry --_--" only idiots do).me, i only trust my mom.Then how can u make sure that yr girl totally trust you???? its impossible!! The only way to gain her trust is to make her trust you everyday (treat her well,be honest and ofcourse don't go out with the other girls...etc)
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Posted 6/22/10
For me is was that my (now ex-)boyfriend didn't trust me. Even with his girlfriends after me he still didn't trust them. (Both are my friends, so I know.) But my current boyfriend I trust completely, and he trusts me too. I think it just depends on the person, and his/her past experiences.
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Posted 6/22/10
im not sure i just got out of my first relationship and it lasted a year,, i lovedhim but i was tired of the bull shit and he needs to grow up and understand he needs to think of more than himself and i needed to learn to be in his positon on the matter so i do know and i have apologized and now im with his best friend sounds bad but i fell in love with him cause ever sence i broke up with my first all theses guys are saying thier undying love for me O_O but i ddont know if i can trust him yet ,we have only had three dates and i gave him his first kiss last night and he tells me how dedicated he is and how much i mean to him but i have a feeling hes just trying to get to my first bf .....idk but i love him and im always smiling when hes around so im confused
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Posted 8/14/10

Well I guess its because when a person cares for you they start to worry that they arnt good enough for you?? It's just a guess though, to be honest I dont know though I'll let you know if I ever get one xD (sarcasm although is bi) =D
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Posted 8/14/10
it's because she doesn't know the meaning of "love", if your partner has this problem, I suggest you to explain why you are going out with her *(it's better to say something that you can only found on her)
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Posted 8/14/10
Lolz I've never have had a boyfriend (I don't plan to anytime soon). But there has to be trust in order to have a truely strong relationship.
Posted 8/14/10
TBH, I'm also have hard time trusting guys too. I got played(not cheated) like 5 times in a row.
I've never been with a guy who actually like me.
It's really hard to trust someone and make sure that he'll stay by my side.
Sometimes i think that oh hes going to dump me for another girl who is 10x better then me.
Or like If i hear him talking about his ex a lot. I think about bad things -- "Ex" is like a big subject to me.
Checking girls out ( I know its normal but It's just this feeling it doesn't seem right)
There are some things that i can't help but think about it.
Some girls are like this, They keep thinking that their boyfriend will like dump them for another girl
or like have sex with another girl. So is guys too. I have couple of friends who are having hard time to trust another person.
To love someone, we have to try to trust them or else it won't work out.
Posted 8/14/10
A man needs to not be so needy. We distance our emotions from much of what we do. It is only when we find "the one" that we might become so trustworthy, but we have to remain very masculine about that. Ordinary women are looking for ordinary men, not effeminate men.
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Posted 8/14/10 , edited 8/14/10

ldyleifang wrote:

For me, I feel I can trust my boyfriend. It just really depends on the guy. I had my first boyfriend (current ex) cheat on me multiple time with multiple girls, did drugs, smoked, drank alcohol while underage, lied all the time... etc. I mean, if the guy's like that then I can totally understand if the girl can't trust her man. If he's dependable, trustworthy, honest, and committed then there's no problem. If anything, the only people I don't trust would be the girls around him. I know he won't do anything, but you never know what some crazy bitches will be trying to get the guy they want. I'd know, because I met a handful of them

**EDIT: On second thought, why would any girl stay with a guy who's not only unfaithful, but a undependable druggie too? Geez, who wants that? But then again, everyone makes mistakes.


I agree completely, I trust my boyfriend absolutely and he's never done anything to make me distrust him. However we're both VERY posessive over eachother tho (not to the point where we freak out if we have friends of the opposite gender or anything, I have plenty of guy friends and he has several friends that are girls) however he's on a cruise this week and I've been SOOOOOOOOOOO freaking out and paranoid of him being out of contact with me and around a ton of girls in skimpy swimsuits because while I trust him, I dont trust most other girls (especially the slutty ones) around him cuz I'm afraid of them trying to flirt with him or seduce him. That and I (and probably many other girls) cant help but have a stereotype ingrained in my head that guys cant help but stare at pretty girls or girls in skimpy clothes. Eventhough my boyfriend has proved to me time and time again that he can resist and he just looks away and doesn't care, or he'll look away and pull me closer to him or kiss me or something. But its just this annoying stereotype that I'm slowly getting over, And he's really good about it and he understands because we know A LOT of guys like that and he's helping me to get over it. Thats my reason anyway, maybe other girls are truly distrusting and I cant explain for them, but thats my reason, I know he'd never do something like that to me and we both know we're the only ones for eachother, its just that stereotype that he's helping me get over and he knows I do trust him that its mostlly just other girls I dont trust.
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