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What's the hardest thing in a relationship?
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whats the hardest thing in a relationship. i think it is trust. what is yours. explain
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24 / M / Sandiego,Ca
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at times trust. but i think comfort in the beginning
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26 / F / near the sea
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l think being honest in everything is really hard
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F / I'm in..in... A C...
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knight-jj wrote:

whats the hardest thing in a relationship. i think it is trust. what is yours. explain



hmm you might be right!
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I think in the beginning it's gaining each other's trust, later it's keeping it. Sometimes it can be the communication, because sometimes not everything gets through, sometimes you misinterpret one another or sometimes you bottle things up. There's also, being honest all the time. When you're always honest to one another, sometimes you feel tempted... that one white lie won't make a difference because you've always been honest and hiding this one thing won't hurt. Well, you never know, sometimes it does. Mostly though, the hardest thing would be getting used to the idea of fighting... not everything is all sweet and romantic... sometimes it's just necessary to fight about the real issues. Although you might not like, sometimes it just has to happen.

**EDIT: Stupid laptop... misspelled every other word...
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communication because ones don't really want to say any thing especially in the beginning not to rock the boat sort of speak to tell they other want her or her don't like you know i keep telling him it alright to tell me "no" just tell my why lol lol lol
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for me it's just to get one started at first, then probably it would be arguing or fighting
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24 / M
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Trust has always been easy for me. I don’t date chicks unless I like them first, and I don’t like people I can’t trust. The hardest thing for me is listening to what some moody @ss drama queen teenage chick has to complain about -every time- she sees you. I’ve been on a grail quest to find a non self-pitying martyr who is also a female teenager… I’m sure there may be one or two somewhere out there, but I’ve yet to find either of them.
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61 / F
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trust is hard for me. cause everyone lies. and sometimes you cant tell when they are. but
trust is earned in a relationship rather than a right, and yes, it takes time to build up trust.
in my opinion, a relationship without trust is doomed. XD
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20 / M / Nowhere land
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For me, the hardest thing is getting started. xP Cause it's so hard to come out of your shell :]
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74 / M / Truth or Conseque...
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Keep communication open. It's hard.
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26 / F / Anywhere, USA
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I don't get into any sort of relationship with people unless I know I can trust them, so trust has never been a problem for me. I think the hardest thing about being in a real relationship with someone is getting over yourself enough to appreciate the other person and what you have. People forget to do that a lot
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95 / F
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Getting used to the habits of ones mate. A chaotic house-maker like me is driven crazy by my beau's love for a sense of order. He likes peanuts, and i can't stand the smell. I love coffee and he prefers tea.

Yeah, getting used to all the little things is the hardest part.
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Basically in a relationship i believe that people should have more trust and dedication in order to pull through, or if your lazy you could just buy them expensive gifts(I'm just saying it's an option, no offense). Plus you should try to communicate with them more, and try plan outside activities or any activities that interest both of you or you could plan something else just to share your experience with him/her.
Posted 8/7/07
wow people wrote a lot when its so simple the start and the end
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