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What's the hardest thing in a relationship?
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26 / M / Australia
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Posted 8/7/07
hmm nothing really well for me that is ^^
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24 / F / SunnySideUp Florida
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I don't think my problem is not being able to trust. I think I trust too much. I remember one of my boyfriends a few years ago told me her was going over to his friend's house to go swimming with her, I said okay, you know no big problem he wants to go swimming, I go swimming with male friends so no big deal. Then he came back and told me they were listing to music and lying on her bed, which he quickly said "Not anyway sexual, there just wasn't much room on the bed so we laid down". It didn't make sense, but I was like okay, you know maybe they are like close friends. Then he dumps me and goes out with her the same night. Weee~! So yeah, I think I trust too much.

I think my main issue is being afraid and not understanding. When I don't understand what my boyfriend has been doing it confuses me and it hurts because it feels like I'm not being told something. I'm also afraid, if I really like him chances are I'm afraid that they will go away and I'll never see him again. It hurts sometimes, but it isn't so bad that I keep guys on a leash and don't let them leave my sight.

I think of guys like stray cats and dogs (mainly cats). If you feed them, love them, talk to them, and try and understand them, they will come back. You don't question where they go when they leave, you just be there for them when you can. If you force a stray cat in your house too soon it will get scared and run away and might not come back. But if you just give it time, they will follow you into your house after you. Same with guys, well most of them. That probably didn't make sense.
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Simple really. Trust, Communication, & Time.
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I would have to say when your partner starts getting really clingy to you and calling like... nonstop. xD Well, that's my experience, so yeah...
I would have to say honesty and trying to open up to your partner would be another one.
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26 / M / Cali
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commitment.
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23 / F / Philippines but i...
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when you have a BF/ GF but you love someone else... much worst... you love that person more than your partner
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26 / M / Australia
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Here's a story of a person explaining her love life :)... it's soo.... T^T......


My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady
nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad
shoulders.

Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have
to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him
before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a
little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic
moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a
divorce.

"Why? " he asked, shocked.

"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world !" I
answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling
of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to
even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?

And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"

Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality,
and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question.
If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind.

Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff,
and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death.
Will you do it for me?"

He said: " I will give you your answer tomorrow..." My hopes just
sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper
with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining
table near the front door, that goes....

"My dear, I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me
to explain the reasons further.....

This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs,
and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that
I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to
rush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to
save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches
every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in
your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by
infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and
stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for
your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help
to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I
can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy
the sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of
flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you
more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting...
And as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished reading
my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I
am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...

I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching
tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am
very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have
decided to leave the flower alone...

That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of
excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies
in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It
has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form

Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface
of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands...
AND THAT'S LIFE.
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26 / M / Sydney, Australia
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I Say Trust
because u have to trust them whoeva they are wit and hope they keep their word about they are Loving you and only You
Posted 8/11/07
i think the hardest thing in a relationship is staying together, honestly
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34 / M / California
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Finding out that the person your with is cheating on you
Posted 8/11/07
manipulating your partner until they agree to help you with the whole "world domination" thing.
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22 / Texas
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Posted 8/11/07
^ haha i would say the time it takes to have one
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F / NYC
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Posted 8/15/07
keeping it steady
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33 / F / Stockton,CA
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Posted 8/15/07
your parents don't let you date yet and your dating without letting them know
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33 / M
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Trying to keep the relationship going after 6+ months.
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