Whats the hardest thing in a relationship?

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Cenamderi 11345 cr points Send Message: 25 Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 Do you mean a relationship in general as they don't work without constant effort on both parts ? both have to trust, listen, have fun, etc its very Dynamic as in it's constantly changing on what's needed to do etc?
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animecutie59 585 cr points Send Message: 14 / F / animeworld Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 maybe if your lieing with each other......
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VanillePink 9773 cr points Send Message: F / North Pole Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 For me it is trust. The thing is I have been betrayed so often. I've been lied to and hurt so many times. That it takes a lot of efforts on my end to get to say 'ok, i trust my current bf'. While I am totally aware that he doesn't have to pay for my past exs stupidness... Sometimes it's hard for me to 'let go' and be fully confident.
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	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 animecutie59 wrote: maybe if your lieing with each other...... I'm fine with that. We can lie to everybody else.
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Hintkin 7256 cr points Send Message: 19 / F Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 Commitment... The reason why most couple fight and break up.. I've been there
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jerishermaine 32 cr points Send Message: Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 realizing you aren't you're partners' soul mate
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SakiAiza 698 cr points Send Message: 27 / F / Lost Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 VanillePink wrote: For me it is trust. The thing is I have been betrayed so often. I've been lied to and hurt so many times. That it takes a lot of efforts on my end to get to say 'ok, i trust my current bf'. While I am totally aware that he doesn't have to pay for my past exs stupidness... Sometimes it's hard for me to 'let go' and be fully confident. I hear you, sister. Trust and commitment. Nowadays, people think it's a game, but there's still people who want something serious. But what I see is that people just want to get close to you, just enough to deceive you into giving the most vulnerable part of yourself and then, after they get it, they betray you. And it's not just men. Women do it too.
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Pomff 2673 cr points Send Message: 22 / F / Sexual Chocolate Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12, edited 10/7/12 Remembering which girlfriend you're supposed to be seeing today.
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	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 10/7/12 Trust, That leads to comfort, which kinda dwells in confident and the absent of insecurities that tend to be exhibit in jealousy and the old good saying goes i deserve your at most honesty even i can not handle the truth but i deserve to know it
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YumeHagino 4777 cr points Send Message: F / In Your Dreams~ ^3^ Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12 For me, it's trust and understanding. You need to understand and trust to communicate. But what I find most hard is to express yourself, knowing that this move will either save you or leave you hanging dead. I find it hard to express so I've suffered from it all along.
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Naruuki 3214 cr points Send Message: Meep meep Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12 I feel like the hardest thing in a relationship would be keeping it interesting. Because its like a fire that needs wood to keep burning .-. Or something like that lol ^.^
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neumaus 13932 cr points Send Message: 21 / F Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12 The hardest thing? Sure, trust is an issue, but it's not the hardest. I'd say learning (and accepting) that you can't always have your way, and that your partner will never be you so you shouldn't impose on them so much. And never hold such high expectations of them, because they're only human like you, and they most likely (especially if they're men) do not hold such high expectations for you. Perhaps others will disagree, but with me, I hold far higher expectations of my husband than he holds of me, but not because he doesn't care, but because he's so easy-going and accepting, that he has no need for it. I think a lot of women hold such high expectations that it causes arguments.
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fav_blasian_girl 5590 cr points Send Message: 26 / F / California Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12 COMMUNICATION!
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Jdaimond 6624 cr points Send Message: 16 / M / North Dakota Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12 Popping the question. LADIES IF YOUR MAN DOES NOT EVEN CONSIDER MARRAIGE THAN HES AN ASSHOLE AND YOU SHOULD MOVE ON. Unless you dont like the idea either than thats a different story.
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PhyongHwa 3840 cr points Send Message: F / Earth Offline	Permalink Reply Quote Posted 12/6/12, edited 12/6/12 knight-jj wrote: whats the hardest thing in a relationship. i think it is trust. what is yours. explain Well, if you can't trust them, you shouldn't be in that relationship. I think the hardest thing in a relationship is compromise. You gotta know when to give & when to take, you gotta pick your battles and not sweat the small stuff, and the hardest thing of all is sometimes letting your pride take a hit for the greater good (be understanding). Oh, and yes, communication is paramount. My relationship has lasted (ahem) over two decades.
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