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What's the hardest thing in a relationship?
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Still gotta say communication. Trust isn't really a problem, considering I also trust a bit easily... or more like I'm pretty gullible. But at least so far, it's mostly communication... but I guess misinterpretation is always bound to happen because we're all different people no matter how alike we are in certain ways.
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Trust and communication
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Haha... The guy literally?
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Mature Kaptain: I would have to say that the hardest part of any relationship would definitely be in tough situations that usually involve finance as issues with money increase the stress between the couple.


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1. Honest
2.Trust
3.Communication
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I just read the title of this thread and grinned... Yup, my mind is still in the gutter... God damn it!!
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Understanding eachother. This is the most difficult to maintain, but also the most important. If you can both understand eachother then everything else will fall into place, such as missunderstandings and trust. :]
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It's the feeling of not giving enough, and the contemplation on what's different as the relationship progresses.
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demongurrl13 wrote:

I just read the title of this thread and grinned... Yup, my mind is still in the gutter... God damn it!!


Penis right? You were thinking penis? Cause I was SO thinking "My penis..."
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The hardest thing in a relationship is probably the Males PENIS!
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My bad spacebat got to it first
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I'm pretty sure about 50 fucking people have made that joke.
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trust is everything in a relationship once it breaks its hard to get it back >.<
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Accepting and understanding eachother's differences. The main differences between my boyfriend and I are is his extroversion vs. my introversion, and his ability to go with things as they are, no planning vs. my need for solid structure (annoyingly enough, sometimes I become even more structured around him to pick up the, what I call, slack.) Because he does have trouble breaking his habits, and I don't live the same way he does, trust issues are formed on my half:

ME: Okay, so, you'll be here tomorrow night at 8 PM?
HIM: Yup.

-Tomorrow night, he's an hour late, and BECAUSE we planned it, I'm feeling underappreciated..like he doesn't take me seriously-

ME: (yelling) WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU HERE SO LATE? AND WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL?
HIM: It was pouring down raining and my phone died on me.

There's always an excuse. I know it's not that he doesn't care - but I'm a homebody (I stay in a very controlled environment) while he is ALWAYS out, with no car, meaning he is susceptible to any drastic changes. Unlike myself, he is fine with them - he is much more adaptable. As for myself, I SUCK at being spontaneous. Since I am such a homebody, I usually only make myself presentable when I PLAN to go somewhere. We made a deal that, on the weekends, I would be ready to hang out by 2 whether I knew he was coming over or NOT, and in return, he has to make a set plan for coming to my house by a certain time one night a week (or sometimes I go to his house and we follow the routine there.) We're just working out the kinks in the routine now. Basically, we struggle to try things eachother's way, but we love eachother and WANT to work it out, so we kerp trying, fixing problems where we find them. He is my first love - a man I've opened myself up to more than any other - and I would rather work things out with him because I have faith that WE CAN, than start over with any other (I don't think I'm even meant to.) If it's more painful to be without them than it is to face your issues (it's hard for me to say things I can't logically explain, but I FEEL this is.true,) it probably means you're supposed to work

EDIT: Please pardon spelling errors. On my MAJOR-pain-in-the-ass phone.
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Nothing is hard if you're truly in love and here's a free pass! A44XV9KEMUE and another one! 3CHBCYXCRU5 or two! 53V549CTL8R
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