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Posted 12/13/06
I was in love when I was 18 thought id marry the chick was with her for 5 years... and it went from oh baby i miss you.... to get the hell out of my house you bleepin' bleep bleeper bleeeeeeeeeeppppppppppp and now i just date lol
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Posted 12/13/06

Nitestryker wrote:

this is a tough subject cause everyone thinks differently I personally wouldn't marry someone without having sex with them first cause it could be a total dud then your really screwed


I was just about to say that. There is no way in hell I would marry a chick before sex. Thats just setting yourself up for a horrible sex life. I also would not want a virgin because it's gonna be a lot harder to get sex in the first place, when you can easily go to a bar and get sex any day of the week. Also it's gonna be a mess and you KNOW it's gonna be horrible.
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28 / M / Rochester, NY (USA)
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Sex before marriage is ok in my opinion if you really love your partner and both people are responsible enough to take precuations. Maturity is a must though because if you only see sex as just physical pleasure, something is bound to go wrong. I just found out last week that my ex is getting married because she is pregnant. I feel really sorry for her because she isn't a very strong person and I think her life is pretty much ruined before it even started. Having a child at a young age and getting married to a teenage crush is a huge burden.

Anyways... my point is sex is all well and good before marriage if you're mature enough to really know what it's about.
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My point exactly sex bfor marriage is good
Posted 12/13/06
Sex is nothing short of phenominal if you have the right people with you that is. To the people who wish to wait till thier married go ahead your loss more ass for me!(not that i was worried you take mine anyhow!) ... i have seen complete bitches turn to happy campers after sex that in itself is a good enough reason ot justify it. Sex makes you happier!


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The time you know when sex is right is when these IMPORTANT requirements are fufilled.

1. There is nothing illegal about what you are doing...
2. Family members are at least over 40ft away from you and your partner. -.-
3. They are aware of your intentions (no drugs or getting drunk)
4. They agree to the 'transaction'

Depends... You want to have sex before marraige... go for it! Just remember to use PROTECTION... Today there is a big urge to have sex before marraige...

Because people who don't practice safe sex or using protection ruined it for others.... Too many people are getting pregnant or getting STD.... We got a lot of irresponsible people who get pregnant or get someone pregnant... they all need to be forced to work to get WIC or other benefits. -.-

I mean if people were practicing safe sex and protection diligantly... would others know? Probbably not... If you ask me, having more then one child you can't economically support should be a crime. Having one kid, you can't support... fine... procreation is something humans have the right to do... having more then one you can't afford is uncool.

You heard me...un cool.
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Posted 12/13/06
See thats exactly right Killar any night of the week I can hit up a bar in the city and find atleast 3 willing girls that you dont have to train... or worry about seeing again... lol
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Posted 12/13/06

bellus-vae wrote:

LOL.. i have to make this so that the Alien thread wont get banned.

So yeah.. Is it ok to have "romantic" relationship before marriage? Please justify your answers

Please keep this rated PG



here's what i think....

It is a beautiful act of love for two people to grow up as virgins (not having engaged in any kind of sexual gratification) and then on their wedding night present their bodies to each other saying, "I loved you so much, I saved myself for you and you alone." This is true love! This is the most beautiful love story of all! And it is the kind of start that can help a couple live happily ever after in a joyous marriage instead of ending in a heartbreaking divorce as so many do today.

i hope i answered ur question
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Posted 12/13/06
having sex before or after marriage dun give any secure anymore...even if it's after marriage.. there's a way call "divorce"... so does it make any difference if it's done before or after? i dun think there's any diff..
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Posted 12/13/06

Xrn_the_Nigma wrote:

I agree with Killar......

You know what though, not all virgins are bad. A majority of them are very very horrible but that's to be expected. I lost my virginity when I was young and I'm glad I made that choice earlier in life than as if I made it when I was 20. I think that my sex life would have been pretty bad since damn near every girl in my town is promiscious or a closeted-hooker anyways.

I would never in a million years marry before sex since it's plain stupid and like the people before me have said, you are setting yourself up for failure.



Please specify that failure..
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You know what cracks me up though I came across a virgin recently that blew me away she was a total freak and was thinking about all this crazy shit and fantasizing about it all the time then once I finally got her going it was like opening the gates of XXX totally wild.... lol Shes coming back into town in a week so my nights might be a lil short on cr... lol
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Women are not optimistic in bed-making. Women don’t really care what will be their sex life ahead coz most of them chose to do it after marriage. Unlikely, i am willing to do it with someone i love before marriage. (haha!) I don't want to spoil my partner's fantasy. If he'll be happy doing it before marriage, he'll be making the most it and will treasure it at his end. But if you chose to do it after marriage and he's screwed, you will live in hell with him.
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Posted 12/13/06
not that sex is over rated just guys in general have a huge urge to have it
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Posted 12/13/06

arlorha wrote:

having sex before or after marriage dun give any secure anymore...even if it's after marriage.. there's a way call "divorce"... so does it make any difference if it's done before or after? i dun think there's any diff..


Well this is a major issue now a days... Im all for the sex before marriage but marriage to me is still a scared bond... and people now a days rush in thinking... "oh well ill just get a divorce...." come on ppl were getting too out of hand here with the whole idea here just like abortion oh i didnt use protection... meh ill just get a abortion.... just be ready and accept the consequences of your actions!!!

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im a virgin
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