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Well I believe it's OK as long as you do it with someone you love and you KNOW for a fact they share the same feelings! And as long as you protect yourself...ENJOY IT!
Posted 12/13/06
problem with not having sex before marriage is, as some pointed out, what if you marry someone and find out that they suck at it? or are unwilling to do things you want to do? or you come to find after you have sex that the person doesnt enjoy it, or they find they are homosexual or something?

sex should be something shared through love usually...a simple fucking now and then, when you are old enough, and have known what "making love" is, and its difference to just "fucking", i think its alright now and again. i dont think sleeping around like crazy is, for either sex.

sex should be about more than just an orgasm...it should be about the relationship between two people. about the love, the feeling of your bodies touching, about the sparks of love flying...it should be passion and lust, as thats what sex is, but it should be mixed in with caring, and loving, and non-sexual joy. the combonation of two people, of two lives.

im not a virgin, i havent been for over 3 years, but i was in love with the girl...ive had chances since to have meaningless, casual sex, and i could have gone after many girls just for that purpose (i had a LOT of slut friends in highschool, they are just usually more open to do fun things, like stealing stuff from the school and shit)...but i didnt, because of my morals. because i must feel love to do something. and as much as i have wanted to, i know ive done what makes me feel right. even while drunk, as difficult as it can be, i refrain always, because sex is one of the least important aspects of my life.

sex is wonderful, dont get me wrong. but people put it on a pedestal, above intelligence and ability and merit. and that is what matter. screw vagina (teehee, pun), id rather read a lot of the time.

and here i bet none of you thought youd ever hear me speak like this, eh?
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sypris wrote:

to tired to work at it now i already know im not even gettin a girl anytime soon and dude LMFAO

fill your undies with marhmallows and skittles. Girls like that.
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O_O

I feel like moses after he came down from that mountain and he grew like 5 years older and his hair turend gray. WOW
Posted 12/13/06

haddon wrote:

problem with not having sex before marriage is, as some pointed out, what if you marry someone and find out that they suck at it? or are unwilling to do things you want to do? or you come to find after you have sex that the person doesnt enjoy it, or they find they are homosexual or something?

sex should be something shared through love usually...a simple fucking now and then, when you are old enough, and have known what "making love" is, and its difference to just "fucking", i think its alright now and again. i dont think sleeping around like crazy is, for either sex.

sex should be about more than just an orgasm...it should be about the relationship between two people. about the love, the feeling of your bodies touching, about the sparks of love flying...it should be passion and lust, as thats what sex is, but it should be mixed in with caring, and loving, and non-sexual joy. the combonation of two people, of two lives.

im not a virgin, i havent been for over 3 years, but i was in love with the girl...ive had chances since to have meaningless, casual sex, and i could have gone after many girls just for that purpose (i had a LOT of slut friends in highschool, they are just usually more open to do fun things, like stealing stuff from the school and shit)...but i didnt, because of my morals. because i must feel love to do something. and as much as i have wanted to, i know ive done what makes me feel right. even while drunk, as difficult as it can be, i refrain always, because sex is one of the least important aspects of my life.

sex is wonderful, dont get me wrong. but people put it on a pedestal, above intelligence and ability and merit. and that is what matter. screw vagina (teehee, pun), id rather read a lot of the time.

and here i bet none of you thought youd ever hear me speak like this, eh?




ohh haddon i knew you were a closet romantic!!


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Posted 12/13/06

haddon wrote:

problem with not having sex before marriage is, as some pointed out, what if you marry someone and find out that they suck at it? or are unwilling to do things you want to do? or you come to find after you have sex that the person doesnt enjoy it, or they find they are homosexual or something?

sex should be something shared through love usually...a simple fucking now and then, when you are old enough, and have known what "making love" is, and its difference to just "fucking", i think its alright now and again. i dont think sleeping around like crazy is, for either sex.

sex should be about more than just an orgasm...it should be about the relationship between two people. about the love, the feeling of your bodies touching, about the sparks of love flying...it should be passion and lust, as thats what sex is, but it should be mixed in with caring, and loving, and non-sexual joy. the combonation of two people, of two lives.

im not a virgin, i havent been for over 3 years, but i was in love with the girl...ive had chances since to have meaningless, casual sex, and i could have gone after many girls just for that purpose (i had a LOT of slut friends in highschool, they are just usually more open to do fun things, like stealing stuff from the school and shit)...but i didnt, because of my morals. because i must feel love to do something. and as much as i have wanted to, i know ive done what makes me feel right. even while drunk, as difficult as it can be, i refrain always, because sex is one of the least important aspects of my life.

sex is wonderful, dont get me wrong. but people put it on a pedestal, above intelligence and ability and merit. and that is what matter. screw vagina (teehee, pun), id rather read a lot of the time.

and here i bet none of you thought youd ever hear me speak like this, eh?




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Posted 12/13/06
closet? im not a closet romantic...i would totally come up to a girl on a steed, with rose...

but im terrified of horses.

and id rather give her like an emu. roses wilt and die. emus strut around like "we cool!"
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Posted 12/13/06

haddon wrote:

problem with not having sex before marriage is, as some pointed out, what if you marry someone and find out that they suck at it? or are unwilling to do things you want to do? or you come to find after you have sex that the person doesnt enjoy it, or they find they are homosexual or something?

sex should be something shared through love usually...a simple fucking now and then, when you are old enough, and have known what "making love" is, and its difference to just "fucking", i think its alright now and again. i dont think sleeping around like crazy is, for either sex.

sex should be about more than just an orgasm...it should be about the relationship between two people. about the love, the feeling of your bodies touching, about the sparks of love flying...it should be passion and lust, as thats what sex is, but it should be mixed in with caring, and loving, and non-sexual joy. the combonation of two people, of two lives.

im not a virgin, i havent been for over 3 years, but i was in love with the girl...ive had chances since to have meaningless, casual sex, and i could have gone after many girls just for that purpose (i had a LOT of slut friends in highschool, they are just usually more open to do fun things, like stealing stuff from the school and shit)...but i didnt, because of my morals. because i must feel love to do something. and as much as i have wanted to, i know ive done what makes me feel right. even while drunk, as difficult as it can be, i refrain always, because sex is one of the least important aspects of my life.

sex is wonderful, dont get me wrong. but people put it on a pedestal, above intelligence and ability and merit. and that is what matter. screw vagina (teehee, pun), id rather read a lot of the time.

and here i bet none of you thought youd ever hear me speak like this, eh?


Haddon wins at life... or sex opinions at least

As for the person not being good at it after you're married, you can TALK about it before you get married, be like "... are you into kinky stuff?" and chances are if you saved yourself till marriage you've already talked about it in order to come to that consensus. Quite frankly, even if they weren't "good" at it who cares? You love them for other things, so a non-perfect sex life should matter quite that much. Besides, you'd both be new to it, so neither would be fabulous. I think that would be 1/2 of the fun of it, exploring sex and each other together and learning about what the other likes/doesn't like etc. I don't think sex before marriage is wrong, but I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting either ^^.
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"FF12 is like sex, but YOU can actually have it" - Haddon the Great
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Thanks haddon and Do0mAid, you are correct and saved me some typing.
Posted 12/13/06

Ktito wrote:

"FF12 is like sex, but YOU can actually have it"


if you use my quotes, give me some credit, my boy!
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damn
Posted 12/13/06
So I'm gonna try to steer us in another direction. How awkward is it to hear the sex? And how much more awkward is it when you know who you are hearing, whether you want to or not. Dorm life... there is stuff they don't warn you about, kiddies.
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that is true
Posted 12/13/06
Okay, eff that. There have to be more things to talk about here...
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