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How to punish a child?
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Posted 12/13/06

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GO TO YOUR ROOM!!!!!!! dose not work for me and im 17 if thats any help.


you should listen to your parent no matter what. [/quot

HAHA.. its the other way round for me. My parents keep telling to get out of my room

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u are not that bright are u talking doesnt solve anything with kids it will only piss u off more that what u where when they messed up

Never been beaten by my mom my whole life and I love her so much for that. If you committed something bad, which would you prefer, your parents will automatically beat you or your parents will give time to listen to your explanation and defend yourself?

If a kid hasn’t learned, he doesn’t need physical pain and bruises. He needs counseling.

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simpleyesa wrote:

If a kid hasn’t learned, he doesn’t need physical pain and bruises. He needs counseling.



^agree
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Posted 12/13/06
i'd just do the supernanny thing..................
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The key to punishing kids (don't give me any of that "consequence" BS...) is to make them understand 3 things. 1, what they did was wrong. 2, the fact that you are angry at them for their wrongdoing and 3, you still love them. If you pull this off and get them to understand all three things, a kid is much more likely to respond well. I never said it was easy though. There are no clearcut rules on how to accomplish this. Each situation is unique and you as a parent need the ingenuity to come up with the correct way to do this.
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OK heres basically how to punish your children if you want them to grow up to be good people.

First, choose your "disciplinary tool". Whips and paddles do just nicely. Something that you can use repeatedly.

Second, choose your area. The most common areas of impact are: back of the head, back, ass, wrist, and FACE.

Third, use the correct motion. Make sure you flick your wrist and turn your hips; thats where all the power comes from.

Fourth, make sure they know what they did wrong and they are VERY bad children. You can also say you don't love them until they pay you back.

Nayru's easy 4-step process, join the phenomenon today!
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i dont believe in whacking children upside there head or anything like that, but i found that parents who control there children when they are young tend to not have any trouble with them when they are older....
if the dosent work then making them eat a raw chilly will stop them from messing in future, lol
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Another important thing to consider is the personality and disposition of the child. The point of punishment is not to push the poor kid past his limit and make him hate the tyrant parent, just to get the message across. The more stubborn the kid (and the more mischivous,) the more drastic measures need to be taken. I would deffinatlely use a good smack as a last resort. This also serves the perpose of adding a lot of "weight" behind your more extreme punishments. The more often you use your trump card the more predictable and less effective it becomes.
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ok heres how ya punish a kid first get a bag of oranges and start the swinging. best part is the oranges dont get bruised. or just kick them
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Posted 12/14/06

jokerman wrote:

ok heres how ya punish a kid first get a bag of oranges and start the swinging. best part is the oranges dont get bruised. or just kick them


I hope to god you're freaking joking.
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Wow. Your methods of punishing your children is kinda... Weird.

Anyways, currently, I don't think I'd ever wanna have kids. Looking at how many parents are suffering with their kids, I don't think I can cope. And, also, the fact that I have very little patience doesn't help. I might do something to my child(ren) that I might regret.

As for the topic at hand, I think that beating your child to a certain degree is fine. Beating might knock some sense into the child. But it isn't everything. Before you hit your child(ren), you should explain to your child(ren) what he/she has done wrong.

If the above doesn't work then you could come up with different punishments like grounding the child or confiscating something.

And, never give the child too much freedom. Or else he/she will turn out like me. ((x
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Posted 12/14/06
I agree with this guy. ^
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I'm an iffy in the issue. I believe there are two kinds of children... one that needs to be spanked and ones that don't need to be spanked. There is a difference between 'spanking' and 'beating'. People who thinks spankings are wrong, should try to discipline a very bad child... LOL.

Spanking is one that used an open hand slap on any part of the body... I would even venture using the belt is quite approved, if the action deems necessary. (I got belted 20 times for stealing the school sbnack money for weeks and spreading rumors on how my teacher was having an affair with the priest. )

Beating is using a closed fist and punching them... or using sticks and such... anything that causes black and blue marks is a beating... welts are a spanking.

Asian society (filipino included) for me approve teachers punishing their students... and parents too do the same.... Why? Because after we punish our children, we also lecture them for tweny minutes... and trust me after the spank and lecture, they are quite remorseful. LOL... To spank a child and giving a half ass reason will cause anger.

These days grounding a child really does not work... For me if I want to punish my kid I make them clean stuff and ground them from the computer... That always seems work quite well, they do get spanked rarely.
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Posted 12/14/06
my dad almost never hit me when i was little mostly he just talked for a bit about being good
i turned out alright i guess
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Posted 12/14/06
My dad always hit me.
He used the belt >.<
When my dad heard something going off he'd just come in the room in a rage and hit the first person he sees, or... Me.
He's not a very understanding person...
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