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I notice a lot of people have debates on homosexuality and if its real and things like that, and one of the things i hear repeated time and again is "you cant choose the one you love" but homosexuality is about sexual attraction, not emotional. I mean: I can be friends with another guy and care about him a lot, but that doesn't mean I want into his pants...

So I'm wondering, just what is the connection between love and having sex? I know loads of people who can hook up for a night and then act like it was nothing, so going by that, I tend to feel like sex and love aren't really so closely as people seem to expect, but I'm not sure on this. What do you folks think?

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It just occured to me this might be better placed in the extended discussion forum feel free to move it if you feel so inclined...
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love leads to sex no? exception with family
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does this mean you think that there is a connection? and if so what is it?
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nodysseus wrote:
does this mean you think that there is a connection? and if so what is it?

Both does not have any connections literally. To love someone, doesn't necessary mean to have sex and having sex with someone doesn't mean you love that person in some cases. I presume you know the meaning behind what I wrote. If not, why not try asking your Mum or Dad? They are your best source of sexual education.
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Pissed0ff wrote:


nodysseus wrote:
does this mean you think that there is a connection? and if so what is it?

Both does not have any connections literally. To love someone, doesn't necessary mean to have sex and having sex with someone doesn't mean you love that person in some cases. I presume you know the meaning behind what I wrote. If not, why not try asking your Mum or Dad? They are your best source of sexual education.


so thats your opinion, but can you justify that with some kind of reasoning? (you know, other than because you think the dictionary says so)
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nodysseus wrote:
so thats your opinion, but can you justify that with some kind of reasoning? (you know, other than because you think the dictionary says so)

"To love someone, doesn't necessary mean to have sex and having sex with someone doesn't mean you love that person in some cases."

Means:
Love isn't necessary needed love to have sex. Like you can just pay some hooker in the hookers district to get laid and over with it.
Posted 3/6/08
I'm not saying duplicate but I'm saying this might be locked for the same reason as this thread

Love or Sex?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-82551/Love-or-Sex.html

Ask the help thread or google. Seriously
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SitthichaiDZL wrote:

I'm not saying duplicate but I'm saying this might be locked for the same reason as this thread

Love or Sex?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-82551/Love-or-Sex.html

Ask the help thread or google. Seriously


this is about asking if there is a difference at all, that one^ assumes there is to start with
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Well in the older days people would get to know each other slowly,
then fall in love, and everything else would happen after that. Now people can't
be arssed to wait! They want to get jiggi now then afterwards is the getting to
know you part, but most of the time they forget to tell you they only wanted
to get laid, so that part very rarely happens. Personally I have to get to
know someone for quite sometime before the sx happens.
People say aw yeah sx is important because we need it to reproduce,
like most people these days use it for that anyway, its become just a meaningless
Past time for pleasure, and is just an excuse to have sx without falling in lurv or
caring for someone. Hence the casual bed budi business people are into
these days, they go bed with each other now, then continue being mates tomorrow.
To me thats called having your cakie and eating it, in case something better
passes there way, there leaving there options open to mess around with other
people because after all, your just mates who go to bed together
sometimes anyway.
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love does not exist
sex is all
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Love is an emotion that a man or woman shares with another and that causes them to stay together for the rest of there lives if it is strong enough. The rest is just attraction and instinct if u think of it in biological terms. To have sex is to pass on your genetic code with a mate that seems suitable. So a guy can be atrrtacted to a women and have sex with her as his instincts tell him that she will bear good children. Women can have sex with men for the same reason as they're instincts tell them that the children of that man will be strong or can cope with the environment. It is all to do with survival and evolution with sex as it is instinctive.
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ijaijao wrote:

love does not exist
sex is all


is there a why in there somewhere?
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Continuing on Love is a emotion and has nothing to do with sex. People who love each other have sex as they want to be as one if u know the cheesy saying and want to share thier bodies with each other. People have sex for fun and pleasure without any emtionally connection. So yeah Love and sex are completely different. Btw sorry for the long post and saying just wanted to get everything down and give you lot something more to think about lol.
Posted 3/6/08
I get what you are trying to say.
Unfortunately now and days sex is something that is more of a
"no strings attached" type deal.

Like the kids in my HS talk about it all the time and Im just doing my work thing
wtf asswipes?! I don't see how they can fuck for fun.

But then again to me sex is something important and special.

Love and sex now seem extremely different.
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