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Posted 3/17/08
Wow so many different and similar ideas about sex and love and love and sex..to be really honest with you, I think sex and love is overated even thus they are both enjoyable but really passion is what make them become important is our eyes when we trully start experiencing it with all we got...
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Posted 3/18/08
Uhm all i can say is I like your avatar!!!!
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Posted 3/26/08
that was y i gave up on both....
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Posted 3/26/08
Love is the feeling and connection a person has with another. To love someone is to trust them and be honest with them. To give them what they give you. To have a person to rely on. Sex is an expression of love. Or at least, it should be. It should be better termed as "making love". Because when you love someone so immensely, you want to be as near to them as possible, and this leads to sex or "making love". Well, at least this is what I learned from the book that my mother gave me when I was younger, to teach me about sex and love.
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Posted 3/26/08
without love there is truely no sex. and without sex then love can't live
Posted 3/27/08

babychink wrote:

Love is the feeling and connection a person has with another. To love someone is to trust them and be honest with them. To give them what they give you. To have a person to rely on. Sex is an expression of love. Or at least, it should be. It should be better termed as "making love". Because when you love someone so immensely, you want to be as near to them as possible, and this leads to sex or "making love". Well, at least this is what I learned from the book that my mother gave me when I was younger, to teach me about sex and love.



this is interesting...i think love is what makes sex better...anyone can easily just have sex and i agree with you...making love is the expression of love...sadly our society has made it seem the more emotionless sex you have the better person you are, which I think is the worst way of thinking ever...love is so wonderful and yes its hard to find that true love but when you do find it makes everything worth while....Sex shouldn't make or break your love...when you make love with someone you don't think of sex....you think about the connection that you have with that person and how lucky you are that you have that person with you and that they love you no matter what

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Posted 3/27/08
ur avi is a kinda chubby girl does not freak me out at all
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Posted 3/27/08
well if your heterosexual then you can love someone and eventually your going to have sex so here you cant really know if is just for love or for sex and the same for homosexuals.


i have this friend who is homosexual and she is in love whit this straight guy, and she says that she is never going to have sex whit him cause thats not how she likes it so she says that what she feels for this guy its pure love cause she loves him for his way of being for his personality not because he is hot which he is.

so in this case is how you know if it is for love or sex.
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Posted 3/27/08
Meh, I think if you love someone, you should commit to each other before you have sex. In fact, I think true love is sexless (loving someone despite their body)
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Posted 4/1/08
love then after that sex..i think
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Posted 4/1/08
To me, they CAN go hand in hand, if you choose it to. Sex is better when you care, and difficult if you don't. No strings attached is fun, but catches up to you in the long run. Pretty much everybody I know that does the so called "No Strings" or "Friends w/ Benefits" thing have difficulty maintaining a healthy relationship. Why? When you are just fuckin' around (I apologize if my language is inappropriate) you don't have much communication going on. So when you find someone you want, and want it to work, they all have lacked the basic understanding of another person, or just don't care. Again, it has varied here and there, in my experiences. I think I'm getting off topic, so I will end it there.
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Posted 4/1/08
i think if you love someone...than you have safe sex....
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well some people would only have sex with people they love, some keep it seperate, it's personal and everyone is different. SAy if u were in love with someone, would u be hurt if they had sex with someone else? Some wouldn't care and say it's just sex as long as there is no emotional connection ^^
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The connection between sex and love has been widening over the decades. Before it used to mean you'd get married and have sex with your husband because you love him. However in the modern day its much different, people tend to fuck around and have sex with whoever they feel like. Its also become more acceptable to be sexually active before marriage with partners you don't love.
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this is interesting...i think love is what makes sex better...anyone can easily just have sex and i agree with you...making love is the expression of love...sadly our society has made it seem the more emotionless sex you have the better person you are, which I think is the worst way of thinking ever...love is so wonderful and yes its hard to find that true love but when you do find it makes everything worth while....Sex shouldn't make or break your love...when you make love with someone you don't think of sex....you think about the connection that you have with that person and how lucky you are that you have that person with you and that they love you no matter what



I agree. Sex can be just something you do just because you have the need (whatever the reason). But when love is involved, the connection is so much more deeper and enjoyable than just having sex with someone who you dont feel so passionate about. In my opinion, love makes it better.
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