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23 / M / Somewhere.... per...
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Posted 5/26/08
I donno.... don ask me.....!! haha
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19 / F / In The Sky . . ....
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Posted 5/26/08
uhhhh.... well, i'm only 13 so i dunno if my opinion counts.. XD here i go.... *serious face* uhhh... sex just a sort of attraction, and it's only if a guy and girl like each other enough, that they can have sex.. but most people dun really care if there is love or not.... love is a feeling... sex is an attraction.... 30% the same??? >.< well, love is sort of an attraction, and sex... er... love is an emotion... and people don't have that emotion most of the time, while having uhh... sex... >///< so.... sex is a bit different from love.. love is something beautiful.. sex.. er... dunno about that... sometimes i can be...?
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Posted 5/27/08
When ur with the person u love gay or str8 you never have sex only making LOVE, and really sex ios boring making love is were its all at!!!! i meqn i only made love with one person but had sex with a few others and really im kinda hate sex, i mean sex feels good and all but LOVE MAKING feels way better. iam gay so sex can be a little painful and making love to the guy i love i can do every day cuz thats how much i love him!!
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Posted 6/5/08
there is no core connection between love and sex.....but for example if you love someone you would want to marry them but if you want to have sex with someone you wouldn't necessarily want to marry them....also if you love someone you dont have to have sex with them and vice versa......but for some people they think there is a connection..like if your boyfriend has sex with you that would mean he loves you..when really sex is all(mostly) about self and love is not....whether your seeking pleasure from sex or acceptance from the opposite sex you do it for self gratification in the long run...but when your talking love most times when you love you want both you and your partner to live happily together and you would want to do most anything for that person...so love is basically about you and your partner not just yourself.
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Posted 6/5/08
heh i could never love someone without having sex with them. sex is kinda like getting to know someone physically. love is getting to know them mentally. i wouldnt be able to be with half of someone. when is ay half i mean if i didnt have sex witht hem i'd only know them *mentally* i'd have to have sex witht hem to get to know them fully.
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Posted 6/10/08 , edited 6/10/08
Love is a emotion that can trick and make us happy. There are two kinds of love, Lust which is want of sexual plessure, and compaionship which is the want to have a person by your side to support you. There are many people in the world that fall in love for the wrong reasons i.e. a persons body, voice, or hairstyle. And falling in love for the wrong reasons can lead to a bad future realationship. Going to the club and picking out the cutest girl you see and right there you decide you want to be with her forever is a very bad decision. You have to get to know that person first see if you click and then later realize that you simply enjoy being in her presence and not her features.

As who you wish to love is a decision only you can make if your a girl and wish to be with another girl because you like being with her then i find nothing wrong with that. Down to it you want a person that will treat you right and wants to be with you because your you and nothing less or more.

And on the subject of sex, sex is more of a testemant of your love to a person you love greatly. Since you love your partner you decide to pleasure her or him because it makes him or her happy. But having sex for the sake of sex can lead to broken hearts i.e gone when you wake up. It can leave a person feeling betrayed and used and could cause emotional scarring. So to put it simple love leads to sex because sex is just another way to express love and bisexual or homosexual love is just the same as a man with a woman if you chose for the right reasons.

So when choosing a partner make sure you get to know em first and are sure they are a fit for you and when your ready for the next level just make sure your parner is ready to.
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Posted 6/10/08

Love is the feeling
Sex could be 'making love' unless there is no love but only LUST
Posted 6/14/08
one night stand! woo!
Posted 6/20/08
love is can be both an emotional, and physical need. love (the emotion) comes from the heart and is the emotional attraction to that person that triggers other emotions like happy, saddness n jealousy. the physical need from love could be from a hug to sex. usually a physical need happens when someone feels love deprived or to show a massive amount of expression that can be put into words. so usually people who are in true love and are ready have sex. but with the world today, sex no longer needs love. for example one night stands or prostitution. some people now just have sex for pleasure or pride. this causes teenage preganacies, abortions, and child abandonment. to me this is wrong. i mean sex should be between people who love each other. i don't mean u have to marry then have sex but i mean if u guys love each other n r not marry u can have sex if u want just make sure u kno wat mite happen n for people who just do loveless sex tats wrong n tats how disease and deaths occur n not only tat many hearts may be broken.

sorry i'm 14 so i mite not understand that much but i want to voice this out.
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Posted 7/15/08
sex and love are two different things i dont know about other people opinion but i think sex is what people do to get pleasure from it and love is a feeling you have a feeling that you desire in your mind and heart
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Posted 7/16/08
totally not connected. Now a days sex is not the same as it use to be in thought. Today its an activity. anybody can do it, love is something different. love isnt an activity and can not come and go as you wants
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Posted 7/16/08
love is just an excuse for sex, we all tell ourselves this "love" is the key or something retarded, but its not there
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24 / M / Toronto, ON
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Posted 8/24/08

nodysseus wrote:

I notice a lot of people have debates on homosexuality and if its real and things like that, and one of the things i hear repeated time and again is "you cant choose the one you love" but homosexuality is about sexual attraction, not emotional. I mean: I can be friends with another guy and care about him a lot, but that doesn't mean I want into his pants...

So I'm wondering, just what is the connection between love and having sex? I know loads of people who can hook up for a night and then act like it was nothing, so going by that, I tend to feel like sex and love aren't really so closely as people seem to expect, but I'm not sure on this. What do you folks think?

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It just occured to me this might be better placed in the extended discussion forum feel free to move it if you feel so inclined...


well sex can emotional attraction, its kinda both really. i mean i'm gay and yes there are guys a i see and god i would love to just have sex with them, but when i meet some one that i want to be with i dont what so have sex cuz it feels good i want to have sex with them cuz its the close i can get to them and it feels good.....mm i know it sounds like i'm just say cuz it feels good but when u have sex with some one u love its doesn't feel the same with u have sex with some one who u don't love
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