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Sex & Love
Posted 8/24/08

nodysseus wrote:

I notice a lot of people have debates on homosexuality and if its real and things like that, and one of the things i hear repeated time and again is "you cant choose the one you love" but homosexuality is about sexual attraction, not emotional. I mean: I can be friends with another guy and care about him a lot, but that doesn't mean I want into his pants...

So I'm wondering, just what is the connection between love and having sex? I know loads of people who can hook up for a night and then act like it was nothing, so going by that, I tend to feel like sex and love aren't really so closely as people seem to expect, but I'm not sure on this. What do you folks think?

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It just occured to me this might be better placed in the extended discussion forum feel free to move it if you feel so inclined...


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Posted 8/24/08

Gaara429 wrote:


nodysseus wrote:

I notice a lot of people have debates on homosexuality and if its real and things like that, and one of the things i hear repeated time and again is "you cant choose the one you love" but homosexuality is about sexual attraction, not emotional. I mean: I can be friends with another guy and care about him a lot, but that doesn't mean I want into his pants...

So I'm wondering, just what is the connection between love and having sex? I know loads of people who can hook up for a night and then act like it was nothing, so going by that, I tend to feel like sex and love aren't really so closely as people seem to expect, but I'm not sure on this. What do you folks think?

--Edit--
It just occured to me this might be better placed in the extended discussion forum feel free to move it if you feel so inclined...


well sex can emotional attraction, its kinda both really. i mean i'm gay and yes there are guys a i see and god i would love to just have sex with them, but when i meet some one that i want to be with i dont what so have sex cuz it feels good i want to have sex with them cuz its the close i can get to them and it feels good.....mm i know it sounds like i'm just say cuz it feels good but when u have sex with some one u love its doesn't feel the same with u have sex with some one who u don't love


Lol'd for some reason.
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Posted 9/20/08

Darkryuu wrote:

Continuing on Love is a emotion and has nothing to do with sex. People who love each other have sex as they want to be as one if u know the cheesy saying and want to share thier bodies with each other. People have sex for fun and pleasure without any emtionally connection. So yeah Love and sex are completely different. Btw sorry for the long post and saying just wanted to get everything down and give you lot something more to think about lol.


i totally agree!
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Posted 9/22/08
it's such a misnomer that when you're in love with someone, you have to have sex. most guys believe so, it's like proof that youre in love. sorry guys!
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Posted 10/5/08
i had sex and it sure as hell wasnt out of love i did it cuz i wanted some sex. lmfao lo hahahaahah...
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Posted 10/25/08
i dont know about love yet Im only 10!
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Posted 10/26/08
To me, I just see sex and love as one simple equation:

Sex + Genuine love= One of the greatest combos in the world of life, IMHO.

Enough said.
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Posted 10/26/08 , edited 10/26/08

TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Well in the older days people would get to know each other slowly,
then fall in love, and everything else would happen after that.




BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! what a crock of shit!! the idea of love before marriage is so young, it doesn't even last a fraction of the time marriage has been around. it first started in victorian times, with the whole 'husband on one knee proposing,' schtick, the first time a woman ever had a choice in who she married. before that it was all arranged marriages, and it was very common for a bride not to see her groom until wedding day.

"in the olden days" HA!! a few generations ago love was just a fantasy silly young girls dreamt of. maybe olden days from 1860 to now, if you call that old


sheesh


Edit: i know its totally off topic, but i just couldn't let you believe that LIE
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Posted 10/26/08 , edited 10/26/08
Waaa, this is one old forum post, geezer do u av nothing better to
do then try to insult ppl? You have ur opinions but don't try to dis mine!
An whats with the swearing? Just becos your opinions different to mine
your giving it some, im from a different generation from you,
with kid of my own! Also the extract you used is not the
complete post! I never mentioned *JacK* about getting married before
having some slap & tickle, so where did that come from eh? Was just
saying ppl just use smex as a pastime and there's no feelings there, its
like playing a game...abit of FUN! Just try & respect other people's
points of views, and as the saying goes, "nowt gud to say?
Then just don't reply at all!" Ps: I aint on CR for war, so "PLEASE"
Don't even try go there with me!



MEMPHADON wrote:


TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Well in the older days people would get to know each other slowly,
then fall in love, and everything else would happen after that.


BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! what a crock of shit!! the idea of love before marriage is so young, it doesn't even last a fraction of the time marriage has been around. it first started in victorian times, with the whole 'husband on one knee proposing,' schtick, the first time a woman ever had a choice in who she married. before that it was all arranged marriages, and it was very common for a bride not to see her groom until wedding day.

"in the olden days" HA!! a few generations ago love was just a fantasy silly young girls dreamt of. maybe olden days from 1860 to now, if you call that old


sheesh


Edit: i know its totally off topic, but i just couldn't let you believe that LIE


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Posted 10/26/08
IDK. Not into it. Haha.
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Posted 10/26/08
Sex is lust and love is love. I think?
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Posted 10/26/08
Haha. My answers are crazy but maybe this: Sex makes love even stronger?
Posted 10/26/08
IF you love someone, sex reinforces that love and makes your love stronger.
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Posted 10/26/08

TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Waaa, this is one old forum post, geezer do u av nothing better to
do then try to insult ppl? You have ur opinions but don't try to dis mine!
An whats with the swearing? Just becos your opinions different to mine
your giving it some, im from a different generation from you,
with kid of my own! Also the extract you used is not the
complete post! I never mentioned *JacK* about getting married before
having some slap & tickle, so where did that come from eh? Was just
saying ppl just use smex as a pastime and there's no feelings there, its
like playing a game...abit of FUN! Just try & respect other people's
points of views, and as the saying goes, "nowt gud to say?
Then just don't reply at all!" Ps: I aint on CR for war, so "PLEASE"
Don't even try go there with me!



MEMPHADON wrote:


TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Well in the older days people would get to know each other slowly,
then fall in love, and everything else would happen after that.


BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! what a crock of shit!! the idea of love before marriage is so young, it doesn't even last a fraction of the time marriage has been around. it first started in victorian times, with the whole 'husband on one knee proposing,' schtick, the first time a woman ever had a choice in who she married. before that it was all arranged marriages, and it was very common for a bride not to see her groom until wedding day.

"in the olden days" HA!! a few generations ago love was just a fantasy silly young girls dreamt of. maybe olden days from 1860 to now, if you call that old


sheesh


Edit: i know its totally off topic, but i just couldn't let you believe that LIE




its okay if you don't appreciate it, but i just couldn't let you go on believing that. i know i ignored the entirety of your post except for that one line, but i couldn't read past it. i just had to let you in on the truth, and now you know. its not an opinion, its a fact.
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Posted 10/26/08 , edited 10/26/08
Dude I have so lost ya, and to be honest I can't be assed to find ya,
you carry on thinking what you like, Im only nearly twice your age, so of
course I know jack huh? Lmao! Ba bye!!!




MEMPHADON wrote:

its okay if you don't appreciate it, but i just couldn't let you go on believing that. i know i ignored the entirety of your post except for that one line, but i couldn't read past it. i just had to let you in on the truth, and now you know. its not an opinion, its a fact.



TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Waaa, this is one old forum post, geezer do u av nothing better to
do then try to insult ppl? You have ur opinions but don't try to dis mine!
An whats with the swearing? Just becos your opinions different to mine
your giving it some, im from a different generation from you,
with kid of my own! Also the extract you used is not the
complete post! I never mentioned *JacK* about getting married before
having some slap & tickle, so where did that come from eh? Was just
saying ppl just use smex as a pastime and there's no feelings there, its
like playing a game...abit of FUN! Just try & respect other people's
points of views, and as the saying goes, "nowt gud to say?
Then just don't reply at all!" Ps: I aint on CR for war, so "PLEASE"
Don't even try go there with me!



MEMPHADON wrote:


TraveLLeR_Of_LiGHT wrote:

Well in the older days people would get to know each other slowly,
then fall in love, and everything else would happen after that.


BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! what a crock of shit!! the idea of love before marriage is so young, it doesn't even last a fraction of the time marriage has been around. it first started in victorian times, with the whole 'husband on one knee proposing,' schtick, the first time a woman ever had a choice in who she married. before that it was all arranged marriages, and it was very common for a bride not to see her groom until wedding day.

"in the olden days" HA!! a few generations ago love was just a fantasy silly young girls dreamt of. maybe olden days from 1860 to now, if you call that old


sheesh


Edit: i know its totally off topic, but i just couldn't let you believe that LIE






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